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I had a huge crash on this girl in my school, I got a feeling at the start when i met her, she is interested in me. But as time passed, plus i didnt take any actions, the feeling is lost and she is being a little cold to me. Occasionally we will meet when we are leaving school togethr , and she will ask me to walk with her, we will have a light chat, but no filrting at all.

Today while walking she suddenly told me she decided to transfer to the campus out of sgp than try to get a job there, but she seems a bit not sure and might just stay in sgp. When ask her what is her percentage of staying there for good, she reply 90%.

She is leaving in another month.
I really like her as she is my type inside and outside.
I believe she is the type that will stay if she gets a boyfriend.

Any advise from the bros here to try to get this girl in such a short time?

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Go find girl here.

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Instead of waste time ask here and there, isn't better you speak out how you feel towards to her? Be a man...if really rejection you get, at least you have tried.

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I actually agree with bro riqw, open your mouth and tell her. A lot of times we allow the absence of communication to cause a whole load of problems in our lives. Be mature about it and ask her out on a date, if she disagrees then you might want to consider friendship or nothing at all.

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Should be "Need ADVICE" and "any ADVICE?".

"Advise" is a verb.

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Its kinda selfish to want her to stay to achieve your personal purposes. Especially if she has to work for money. You can still keep the friendship/courtship outside campus. Enjoy whatever time you have with her. If she reciprocates, there will always be a way. Else it is never meant to be anyway.

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after so long you took no action...now you wanted her...so why not:confused:...1 month is a long time...in the olden days lovers dun mind just together for 1 night...:p

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Be a MAN and just let her know her feelings. You must understand that if the girl was interested in you the first place and you didnt bother to reciprocate, you will be friendzoned because that is how a woman's mind works. Her instincts will just tell her that either you are not interested or you have no confidence.

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Yes i know, but i really like this girl. Just that i am stupid enough to not hit on her while i can.
She is cool and stuff. Now i am just regreting, she is special. Just that i want to ask her out but i just dont know where to start.

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so you born without balls ha....:p

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if you too shy, one way is let her go first then later you can write her a letter to ask her out. :D

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"Strike when the iron's hot"

Timing is very important. You took too long and now she's no longer interested in being your gf.

You missed your chance.

Let her go.

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Eh boy, your opportunity had passed by, just let go and find yourself another girl.

No use talking about it, spilled milk on the floor can not be wiped up and drink again lor.

Give yourself and another girl a chance.