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Those with Fuck Buddies, Little 3s 小三, Friends with benefits fall in....
Those with Fuck Buddies, Little 3s 小三, Friends with benefits fall in
Heh heh, I suspect there are bros, sis here who have or are fuck buddies, someone mistress or kept man to married partners, or are friends with benefits Lets share experiences, the good, the bad the ugly. Funny- was going to post in Adult Discussions about SEX as it does pertain to sex, but I have a feeling, afterall while it becomes more than sex, and other matters come in. |
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I start sharing, currently I have a gf/fb/小三 whatever you call it.
it has been a long long process of crazy sex, lots of problems, to now less problems but almost no sex. If there is sex, its lousy anyway. Watching the hotel TV, don't even BJ. Does anyone still get hot and heavy with their fbs after years of being together? Let me frame my case which started 6 years back My "gf" is ex FL These are the issues I faced when I first started with her 1. She lies about her past or tells you half diluted truth. Even if its true, you wonder if she is lying 2. You worry about embarassement. She has worked for 2 years, wearing LV, prada, branded, goes to casino, how many cocks has she fucked, handjob, sucked, how many people have screwed her, sucked her, seen her nude etc... - This happens when you start to have feelings for her. You worry that the coffeeshop old uncle, or the young army punk has fucked her. 3. You think its great sex, connection, GFE(sounds familiar brothers???) but then again, she has had alot of practice, daily practice on many guys, all races, colours, sizes, age. If you are married, I was, you think its better sex than with your wife. Yes it is, because your wife doesnt fuck men daily for breakfast, lunch, dinner, supper 4. Character- often they lie, and have character issues. Smoke, drink, take drugs, flirt, gamble. Bad tempered. Many times single mother, was knocked up by some ah beng who ran off. Has tattoos. Might have worked at the so called Fei Ji Chang, doing handjobs first, or hostress or escort, being Bao by married men or rich men- or all these before they end up being a full fledged WL/FL 5. Doing raw, how many of you do with protection with your gf or wife? If your gf is a ex FL, do with condom all the time, no matter what she says. I didnt get any stds or hivs, but I believe there was a bout of jock itch, that was thanks to her. I had to get a cream from mustapha $5-6 to sort out the damp and itchy stuff. Dragged her to the doctor again and again, to blood test, and found she had an yeast infection. 6. You dont become a FL because you are forced. At least not if she is singaporean. Forced because she has debts(loanshark, gambling) etc...is liken to the 3 ladies being forced to have oral and sex with SCDF chief- BS. The ex husband came out to say his ex gf is decent, dont wear make up- Cmon, total bullocks. Its a choice- a greed for money by selling her body, its the easy way. But look at her character, she is willing to open her leg for money instead of work a decent job. It should tell you her value system. But the flip side, if you screwing a FL, we aint not saints either. 7. Sex you have great sex with her, you worry if she has had better, bigger and screamed louder. You want to know, but it hurts you to ask. Fast forward, towards the end, the sex becomes, like all relationships, same, boring. And you ask yourself why the fuck did you fall in love with someone from that world. And you ask yourself what you had lost, given up, and sacrificed- was it worth it? Sex is sex, love is love. You want GFE, you can pay for it and get it anywhere. The guys she fucked got what you got too, passion, GFE, etc...might have even got more. Because if she is your gf, she can say she is tired, dont want to swallow, condoms make her painful, so when you fuck her you need to pull up and not shoot in etc...And you have to do more, you think you getting free fuck? You pay with handphone bills, buying her stuff, paying for her food, driving her around...and if you are married, pay with your marriage- when your wife finds out you fucked a WL. My advice, never "fall" in love with a WL, FL, fall in lust- okay. Screw the hell out of her, keep your wallet tight, and dont ever give up on anything. All relationships are selfish, you want something, so does she. She wouldnt be thinking whether its too much to do this or that, so dont come down hard on yourself to treat her as a FL. Never fall in love with a FL, WL, ex or not |
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Thanks for sharing. I believe this is a very valuable information and lesson to all of us out there who go to the MPs or visit FLs. I ever saw the 3 rules here in this website but sad to say some of us tend to stray from the 3 rules and find ourselves either treat MLs and FLs as close friends or tend to fall in love with them. Esp when we stick to one lady for long periods, keep RTF them.
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looking for the other bros, sis to fall in and share their experience
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anyway yesterday met my FB/GF for a while. Havent screwed for 3 months, always got reason period, tired, no mood etc...
damn sianz, FB become GF liao. Finally coax her to go hotel, end up Pasir Panjang West Coast Fragrance Hotel, counter say no more $40, left $48. Bo Pian, got chance take loh Enter room, she take off, now so many years she does her big business don't care anything image or anything already. So since she already take off, proceed to touch her breasts, she say itchy, don't care just poke lah. didn't even get any foreplay or BJ which I love, so do same old missionary style change a few position, side, on the front Ask me switch off aircon if not cannot enjoy she say, so I turn off, the more I poke the more sweaty I become. Boring liao Say change to doggy, wear rubber and whack, finally push her on the bed, and lift her legs and whack till shoot But after that very sianz feeling, the passion of last time no more, so many month only do once, this cannot that cannot, no bj, really change from the early days of doing 3-4 times a day, one session can whack twice. No more BJ or 69, or fingering etc...all cannot. Fucked up sianz. Really want to try FL/WL but I only into capped BJ for safety. Btw, she used to be one, so knn her customer must all enjoy like fuck till I kenna become her bf. After doing yesterday wanted second round she keep pretending me and pushing me away, end I go home and PCC Anyone like me? Started damn hot, fuck like bunnies, but now sianz like shit? Now its my story. Sigh.... |
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no one sarpork TS, here I come :p
I have 2 gf who were ex-WL, the 1st is little 3 and the 2nd is little 4 as she claimed :p |
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TS, I really feel you're not being kind to yourself, why haven't you moved on ? She must have something that you like, which is beyond the 4 walls.
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managed to coax her to make up for tues lack of BJ, reminds me why I feel so head over heels years ago, it was her mouth and tongue I felt in love with |
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Is a FL considered as a 小三? My understanding is that she or he is only attached to you and not a public transport where everyone can take a ride!:D
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is she little 3?
my wife thinks so about her, the 小三 thinks so, but to me, the first thing that she is, is a FB....lol...:D |
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If th FL WL truly love you, no need $, or else it 's just a game on who can outwit the other ;) Btw bro, when can return upz? :p https://www.sammyboyforum.com/showpo...ostcount=31832 |
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Share a simple one.
My very last FB. She was the best friend of my previous FB. Hung out together as friends. Me and my previous FB had an agreement, to only have one FB (each other). We both have respective spouses. This is to ensure that we maximize our availability. One day, I realized that she had three FBs. So that was the end, and we ended on a drinking night where we peacefully parted ways. At the smoking area, I was pretty high and smoking with her BFF. There she was, high and said she always wanted a FB as well, as she was single and did not intend to get married. Off we went and that day started our fucking life... Her availability was incredible as she was single. Every time I need a FB, she will be available. I try my best to be available as well. Then came a time where it started to get too frequent, almost daily. To save room cost, we did it in the car most of the time at the famous WWII site or at her place when no one was around, haha. But after around three months, I was taking a heavy toll on my marriage... and it all ended. FB is for fuck... The few minutes or hours together will be passionate, as if we were a couple for life, loving each other forever. But once it ends, we part ways that day as if we were good friends. In the presence of others, we pretend to be ordinary and no one suspected a thing. But, it cannot be too frequent (daily is out, once a month, or once a week max), and we should not ask any questions about each other's life... it should just be contained within sex topics... new sex positions, how to prolong, how to orgasm, etc... mistress is different altogether. I stay away at all cost for that. a few years have past and I have yet to find an attractive FB to match again... one who stand by the rules of just passionate sex and no love afterwards.... hope I will be lucky soon.. any interested FB, please PM me... :) |
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its when one starts to change the rules or demand stuff that wasn't agreed on I have laid the rules out many times, and the FBs or ONS that was supposed to be a FB, asked for more. Breaking hearts isn't cool, but in the first place, it wasn't supposed to be about the heart. |
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I feel like contributing to this thread but somehow I don't know how and where to start...
Maybe I should just say I'm a man who thought he could have FBs and remain as FB with those ladies but somehow feelings of the heart always come into play and things got messy eventually... Haiz... |
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heh heh, I started this thread to share about our issues, can exchange advice. Married with 小三, FBs become 小三, FOB become 小三 I salute those that can stay fuck buddies and friends with benefits with no emotional involvement.... |
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I never managed to reach the casual-ness of being FB with my flings. I suppose the sense of sadness when I tried to dismiss the entirety of the person that I make love with, inevitably became too much for me to bear.
When I crossed the boundary between friendship and lust, it made both of us confused. We were friends afterall. She did stated that she doesn't want to make the same mistakes, like she did many years ago of being just a fuck buddy with some other guys, yet we did it twice and never really 'discussed' what really happened. I don't know whether it was due to the fact that I do not think I would be able to fulfill what's being expected of me relationship-wise, or whether I was too selfish. At one time, I contacted her straight to the point and she told me that I wasn't the ONLY guy lusting for her, and that she just can't please everybody :eek: She also told me that under no certain terms that there would be any third time. That moment, without her saying anymore, somehow I sensed her deep sadness. As if she's crying her heart out, wondering why even after knowing her as a friend for so long, I only wanted her body, but not her whole entirety. In all honesty, it's simply because I knew too much about her baggage. I know it, she knows it. That night she posted on her social media feed with the sentence "if need help, there's always the phone directory..... shoulder, where have you been?". It pained me to see what I have become. Message understood. I didn't dare to contact her for a couple of months, until she messaged me asking how I was doing in life where we started to communicate again, and I could sense that this time she's trying to hold back some of herself, probably because she didn't want her feelings to be hurt. Neither do I. |
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I salute those that can stay fuck buddies and friends with benefits with no emotional involvement....[/QUOTE]
Really not that difficult as long as both partiea agree to the terms early and are on the same page. My fbs and I have been going at it for over a year now and its still great. They also know that i have a gf outside. Dont get me wrong, i love my gf but she wants to save herself for marriage so my fbs are my avenues of release until then. Im nice to my fbs and treat them like friends but i always make sure that there can be no emotions. They know that its purely physical and im only usig them for their bodiea, nothing more. I see a few people complaining that this fb r/s gets stale after a while. For me, the good thing about them is that we can experiment and get kinky without feeling too embarassed. Thats the point of them. We constantly share new things we like to try to spice the sex such as roleplays and toys. Managed my fbs to go on the pill several months back and we have been having the best raw sex ever since. Plus get to save hundreds of dollars on condoms. My best tip: once the comfort and ease sets in between both fb parties, hold on to them tight. Not many will come by in our conservative lands |
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My best tip: once the comfort and ease sets in between both fb parties, hold on to them tight. Not many will come by in our conservative lands[/QUOTE] bro great share but a year is hardly a gauge of things to come. I have been with the FB and it went on and this is the 6th year. You mention marriage and gf, so that means you are young and your fb is young too. I reckon 20s? Once they go into 30s, late 30s, 40s, they need different things, wild sex with no strings isn't their game. When you have a FB that's married or with kids, or one who finds after a while that she is reaching the age to get married, or some nonsense about a biologicial clock, that changes the game Ladies hardly stick to rules, they stick to emotions. |
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its because of the good sex, and the feelings, the intense passion that makes us after a while "KC" by the whole relationship can you really fuck without any emotion? or transferring any energy to the other besides fluids? In Chinese TCM and Indian Medicine, there is a transfer of much more. That's why some/many bros after going to the same ML/WL for a while, become KC by the girl. (there's a whole thread on this about falling in love with a FL) If sex can just remain mechanical, and just do it, that's great. But if the person changes his/her mind or start chasing an end or more, that's where the trouble starts. My thoughts are the same as yours, it ends in pain and hurt |
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but on that topic, hey no one has a long term 小三 that they are frustrated with?
haha....I doubt that loh.....maybe the idea of married men owning up to having Xiao san is not a popular thing :D:D |
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I'm curently having something with a FL, she is 21 this year but semi-retired, settling with a few other regulars who she meets and pays her quite abit each time.
We both like each other, and she always likes to meet me just for sex, she refuses money all the time, even getting angry if I sneak some to her or insist. But she says we are just friends, she doesn't want any relationship as she doesn't like commitment and she says she's still sleeping with other guys who pay her so it won't be fair to me anyway. She needs the money so she can't quit that FL job. But she has admitted more than once that she likes me alot, more than a friend but not keen to date at all kind of situation, she even turns away suitors from her school because she says she likes only me. We meet about 5 times a month and we just hang out like friends, talk about her clients and how gross some of them are and how much she gets from each. We will have sex about three to four times, she really likes sex. She does it raw with me and one other client she meets but to protect me she makes sure he does regular check ups and sends me the proof if not she won't do it raw with him. She and I also go for regular check ups, it's been 8 months and so far nothing fucked up. She's really nice, so just wanted to share it, so far no one else knows she exists. I have a steady gf as well, she knows but doesn't mind, she even asks stuff like why do people want to stay commited to each other and stuff. |
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Definition, personal experience
FBS - FBs its simple, you screw and you stay out of each other lives In a way you are also putting up boundaries and the only open one is the dick to hole. You don't share your life, or personal stuff, problems. You might joke about some work related matter, but not telling the person what you do or what you work as. Its a weird relationship but the objective is sex, and the chit chat is just small talk to break ice. - Can be ONS, a few rounds, but when it ends, its okay, have a beer you forget about it. Little 3s 小三 aka mistresses, gfs when you are married - Will and likely involve money - She starts off respecting and knowing you have a wife and says she doesn't want to break you up or come in between - Later she wants more, either money or more of you - She might tell you to get divorced - On your side when it was at FB stage, you just thought about your dick, telling yourself its not going to ruin your marriage, you can pull out anytime. When it moves into GF stage, you still think of the sex, but now it lessens, but the commitment and emotions become more. - When in this stage, your marriage is threatened. - Its painful to let go, its painful to stay on |
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