Gfe?
 

What do guys look for in a serious gf? If possible please list in order of importance. Duo xie all! Been eyeing this guy for a while now ...

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For me, these are the important things I want in a girlfriend:

Someone attentive, respectful, kind.
Someone who hides nothing, just being herself
A good company, someone whom I can trust.
Someone simple but attractive.
Willing to journey the up and downs of life.
Slim and proportional.

That's all. And I got her already.

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1. Chemistry

2. Communication - If u can't communicate, it be difficult to understand and thus almost no chance to compromise. Blowing up like a Princess once in a while to voice ur thoughts is ok, but don't push ur luck by making it too often.

3. Commitment & Trust - I don't mind my gf having close male friends or eyeing the cute hunk at the bar, as long as she knows where and how to draw the line, and of cos committed to work tgt to resolve any friction btw us.

4. Fun - Most men like to crack crude jokes, so u got to be real acceptive about it. If u feel uncomfortable, at least let him know abt it so that he can be more conscious in future.

5. Intimacy ... Tons of it - Men luvs loads of sex and physical intimacy ... There's a good saying that goes, "Men are like floor tiles, lay them well and u can walk all over them for the rest of ur Life" ;)

All the best Sis !!

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1. understanding
2. have a good temper
3. doesn't really matter if her chee bye is swee or not la. what matters more is her face and figure ... :D
4. sense of humour impt ... must be funny n know how to laugh
5. oh one last thing ... must enjoy sex la ... i dowan dead fish ...

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1. Quality not Quantity time. One sms a day and your life will never be the same again. At least talk to him once a day. even if it ends dead sms, it will be alive cos everyday day is a new day.

2. Committment: If he is for it, go for it!

3. Lil Surprises: i believe the guy will like it when a girl do things for him. Lil cards, deliver cakes, buy starbucks, pick him up after work etc.

4. Be yourself. You yourself will win him over a lifetime, you being someone else only win him temporarily.

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why're you still here then? haha, neeways great for you. :D

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I like what I hear haha :)

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Must be funny ah ... I definitely love to laugh & have fun. How to be funny?

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your courting style damn fierce haha i'm not there yet. more or less still must retain the gu niang position la. :)

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Every guy is different! How much do u know or understand abt him?

Instead of asking in the forum, why not go and understand abt him? Try to know wat his like and dislike! Know him more as a person

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Er.... :D

A good sex, the rest talk later .... :D

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......and there`s no such thing as a sweecheebye

the cheebye is one of the most grotesque looking thing ever created

how can something looking like that can make men go crazy over it , myself included is one of the greatest mystery in the universe

maybe it serves to prove that there is a God after all, cos only He can make something so bizarre looking and yet make men go goo goo ga ga over it .....

:rolleyes:

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Understanding and support is very important.
At least for me..

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hahah one of the most funny posts ever.. bizzare looking yet make men go crazy about it.. looks like abalone!

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We human are selfish being by nature.

True love is not finding someone who can meet your expectation,nor by any fact u could find.

Don't loook for someone u can live with,go for someone u can't live without.

One day u find that u can't stop thinking about a girl even she may not be the best looker,nor having the sweetest character but u find yourself totally in chemistry with her in brain connection.

She's the One.

But then again like I say we human are selfish being.we make ourself self delusional.when we can't get the reaction back from our partner the way we expect it,problem will bound to surface and the heartbroken story start from there.

Being alone is a realistic way of having more peace in life.thou is lonesome and sometime really hard.

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just don't be annoying...

over act cute? Act cute at wrong situation?

Not doing what you should be doing ....
Princess illness ?
complain non stop while not looking at yourself? (this is what I realise from a certain group of girls )

else be at your norm , so let him accept what you are.:D

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I am quite easy to please.

Nice hot looking babe with C cup and wild in bed, does the trick for me.:cool:

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C cup (the right firmness / not saggy) and slim.
C cup but elephant can vomit blood. :D

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below are some advice from Abby for some ladies. if you can are able to do all that, you'll definitely get the dude.

Q: My husband to be still pines for his old girlfriends. I'm afraid he will not be faithful.
A: A man's capacity to love is boundless. It has been proven to increase with the number of sexual partners. Thus, by having a few other women, your partner is really increasing his love for you. Best thing to do is to buy him a nice, expensive present, cook him a nice meal, and give him a blow job and don't mention this aspect of his behavior.

Q: My husband has too many nights out with the boys.
A: This is perfectly natural behavior - and it should be encouraged. The man is a hunter and he needs to prove his prowess with other men. Far from being pleasurable, a night out with the boys is a stressful affair, and to get back to you is a relief for your partner. Just look back at how emotional and happy the man is when he returns to his stable home. Best thing to do is to buy him a nice, expensive present, cook him a nice meal, and give him a blow job and don't mention this aspect of his behavior.

Q: My husband wants to experience three-in-a-bed-sex with me and my sister.
A: Your husband is clearly devoted to you. He cannot get enough of you, so he goes for the next best thing - your sister. Far from being an issue, this will bring all of the family together. Why not get some cousins involved? If you are still apprehensive, then let him go with your relatives, buy him a nice, expensive present, cook him a nice meal, and give him a blow job and don't mention this aspect of his behavior.

Q: My husband continually asks me to perform oral sex with him.
A: Do it. Sperm is not only great tasting, but has only 10 calories a spoonful. It is nutritious and helps you to keep your figure and gives a great glow to the skin. Interestingly, a man knows this. His offer to you to perform oral sex with him is totally selfless. Oral sex is extremely painful for a man. This shows he loves you. Best thing to do is to thank him, buy him a nice, expensive present, cook him a nice meal, and give him a blow job.

Q: My husband doesn't know where my clitoris is.
A: Your clitoris is of no concern to your husband. If you must mess with it, do it in your own time. To help with the family budget you may wish to video tape yourself while doing this, and to sell it at car-boot sales. To ease your selfish guilt, buy your man a nice expensive present, cook him a nice meal, and give him a blow job.

Q: My husband goes straight to sleep after making love - we have no time to talk.
A: Sex is an extremely difficult task for a man. Afterwards he needs rest. In fact, the more he loves you, the more hard work his love-making is, and the more rest he needs. Stop putting pressure on him. Buy him a nice, expensive present, cook him a nice meal, and give him a blow job.

Q: My husband's efforts at lovemaking only last 30 seconds.
A: Your husband loves you very much. He is so turned on by you that he cannot control himself. In fact, the shorter the 'effort' the more he loves you. Return this love by buying a nice, expensive present, cooking him a nice meal, and giving him a blow job.

Q: My husband is uninterested in foreplay.
A: Foreplay to a man is very hurtful. What it means is that you do not love your man as much as you should - he has to work a lot to get you in the mood. Abandon all wishes in this area, and make it up to him by buying a nice expensive present, cooking a nice meal, and giving him a blow job.

Q: My husband has never given me an orgasm.
A: The female orgasm is a myth. It is fostered by militant, man-hating feminists and is a danger to the family unit. Don't mention it again to him and show your love to him by buying a nice expensive present and don't forget to cook him a nice meal and give him a blow job.

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TS, it's very easy. Looks, no bad breath, a sense of humour and a not too desperate attitude. Then you're halfway there.

LOL. Not forgetting, it can smell like Calbee and taste like raw bittergourd at the same time!

But you know, we will always want something we don't have. As they say in Cantonese, WH4!

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i almost died laughing reading this stuff , note the part where she said that oral sex is painful for a man but she advocates giving the man a blow job at the footnote of every paragraph.

this abby woman probably never had a man in her whole life
:p

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1) Sweet looking
2) Shorter than 160cm, and proportional or slim (not slim till boney type)
3) Can communicate well
4) Feel comfortable and enjoy each other company
5) HSD? :D

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1) cup size > C cup
2) pretty face
3) not fat