Isit a loser to be a virgin?
 

Just a question do the bro here lose their virgin to their gf or to fl?

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I give to a fl when I was 16. At first I was paisai about it. But it was an exciting experience because first time. When I grew older, I notice it was normal. Many of my friends are the same. No gf then how. Keep until have one meh. Cannot be what

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Nope . Cheer up bro

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I think better not to think about it too much. Male virginity not worth much anyway so lose to gf or lose to FL is only as big of an issue as you make it out to be.

Anyway if you really wanna rationalize both got pros and cons. Maybe you do it with your gf and both of you don't know what you're doing and you have a terrible experience for your first time, or you have the emotional connection and have mind blowing sex. If you do with FL she probably knows what she's doing so your first time will probably be enjoyable. But then maybe you feel guilty afterwards.

Point is it's up to how you view it and how you yourself think. If you think you gonna have a problem with losing to FL then don't go lor. PCC and wait for gf

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Now what year already ah boy? Year 2020 and u think it a loser to be a virgin? Or first time give FL is loser is it?

The truth is no one give a damn abt it.. my suggestion is if u really Wan go find 1 pls spend some time reading FR and pray the session goes out well... ;)

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I see so many men with gfs and wives. These men behave like their women's slaves, carry their handbags, listen to their boring complaints and put up with a whole lot of nonsense. All for what? So that if their women are happy, those boys can get a round of sex in return. Just like how dogs are rewarded with a treat when they roll on the floor upon their owners' command. THIS IS WHAT I CALL LOSER.

So long as you are fucking on your own terms, you are already better than a whole bunch of useless soft dicks. Doesn't matter whether it is FL or gf. Anyways, FLs are much cheaper than gfs. If you want to train your skills, you are better off starting with FLs. Will save you a whole bunch of money. And lets face it, the more money you have, the better quality gf you can attract. And the skills you picked up will make her want to stay with you and submit to you. Nothing like a good hard fuck to make girls know what a real man is. That is why men's virginity are not worth anything. That is why girls prefer experienced men :cool: Fuck enough FLs and you will also realize what kind of women you prefer. When I was young and inexperienced, I thought I liked slim girls with small boobs. They looked cute on the outside. But I realized I'm actually a boob lover after trying out a few women. And you also learn things like spotting flabby tummies before the clothes come off. I once told a friend his dream girl got flabby tummy. He didn't believe me, say he saw her in jeans and she looked ok. After their first night together, he was asking how I knew. All these and many other things you will learn with experience. And experience will help you avoid buyers' remorse when you finally unwrap that gf you worked so hard to chase ;)

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You're only a loser if you see yourself as a loser. As long as you have self-confidence, a clear conscience and peace in your heart, who cares what others say?

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It's common to be a virgin.

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Tia gong if you virgin got a red glow around you when you walk about.

Also as one bro said he fucked over 2000 times with FL and 50+ with gf/etc , he got a score on top of his head saying 2000+ / 50+.

My score only 0/30+ . I think lose a lot of face sia like that.

#fact


:rolleyes:

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Hmm... I lost mine to a hookup basically... 😂 She is my sister's acquaintance, daring , much more experienced.

For every guy's first time, I think they should wait until they find someone that would take care of them, at least for the intimacy part. Be it your gf, your fl, or your hookups.

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No. Take it from a lonely, wimpy loser like me. Never had a gf and stayed a virgin till 25 years old. Last year decided I’ve had it and met a Jap FL. Was it great ? Yes. Did it change me ? No.

Whether you’re a virgin or not does not determine if you’re a loser. I was loser before I had sex, I’m still a loser after.

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Just book an escort to lose it

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Nice share bro :D

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Not a loser at all. We were all once virgins too.

In fact today I still virgin. ;)

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i think a guy should lose it to someone with experience. can you imagine your girlfriend finally allow you to take her virgin and you have zero experience and not knowing what to do despite watching porn countless times.

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Wanna fuck, just fuck. Dunno wanna fuck then fuck it. What loser not loser. Dun be a loser lah.

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Do you die regardless if you are a virgin or not? So why you have to care so much?

I lost mine to laksaboy thai FL during 18yo.

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A lot of "hard truths" content packed into this comment. I experienced some of these personally also.

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If you let that question bothers you, chances are you're bothered by other things actually.

It's likely not just simply becoz you're a virgin that you're bothered.

Maybe you're bothered by your own lack of confident or something else.

Therefore, even if you're not a virgin tomorrow, I don't think you'll suddenly be happy.

Think about it.

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Guys thanks for your inputs here. I am a virgin too!

Recently I video chatted (naughty) with a malay girl on a dating app. I'm chinese. Shes 5 years older than me according to her dating profile. She told me got at least 3 guys have fun with her before.

In our video chat she never showed her face though, just lower body. No way to verify she is the actual person I see in her pics.

If we really meet and have fun, is there any signs I should look out for any possible problems? E.g. she has std or not?

Or any signs to tell she could be setting a trap e.g. some other guy come and blackmail me say why I fuck his daughter/wife threaten report police unless I pay up or do sth illegal for him

Please teach me what to do/look out for?

I'm still searching for answers to that haha

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Always thought will find the right one who will be perfect but end up give to my 1st gf who i know from the start will not be the one. She's from another country and i dont want either of us to move so i know it wont last. But we gave each other our 1st time. Aft that been going around with FLs while still finding new gf. To me actually first time sex didn't feel like a big deal. But i wouldnt have given it to FL. Actually miss doing it with gf, the difference between sex with gf (mutual attraction) and with FL (more mechanical, they not so into it) quite noticeable. Who knows maybe i just havent find FL with good enough service yet.

To all those still virgin and feeling demotivated, dont worry many guys have been in your shoes. Just work on yourself, pick up a hobby or sport, sure can find gf. At the same time you improve your overall life quality aswell. Use dating app but dont see it as finding gf is the only goal. Sometimes you make more female friends and keep in touch, even if not dating compatible, you also practice being comfortable and confident in talking to girls. Everything helps :)

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lol can relate. First time with gf we both virgin, i dont know how to pace. Also never realized sex was so tiring, hard to maintain thrusting nonstop. Need practice a few times to find a good rhythm that you both like.

I found out she using fake pics... lucky nevet meet up lol

Thanks for sharing man

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lol how you find out

Reverse image search. Took some time effort n luck

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NO la... u not loser if u virgin... is not race oso... life is not like the movie fast n furious

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Md just give to fl and it came out way too fast and I feel nothing at all