Originally Posted by yahiko (Post 19034425)

I've thought long and hard if i should post this.

This is my FR on Princess Yura.
Recently, I engaged and had my first session with her and it went terribly wrong. I felt she was unprofessional and she did not abide by safety protocol. I was injured. There was no pre-session chat. I did requested for a no safeword session and hard domination.

Originally Posted by otherOne (Post 19036506)

To comment further on bro yahiko's predicament:

I think we all have to be careful about what we request from dommes. The "pro" in pro-domme means "professional", but apart from the fact that they are paid in exchange for services, Singapore's pro-dommes are generally not "professional" at all.

Those in Japan for example are trained by older dommes, so there's decades of tradition behind their practices, and they know what to do and not do.

In Singapore however, most of these 20-something dommes are party girls who are introduced to BDSM by their fellow party girls, who told them it's a good way to make money on the side.

It's up to us to be protective of ourselves, and make sure the dommes here don't do anything with us that's above their pay grade.

Originally Posted by yahiko (Post 19036874)

The 2nd session was a complete opposite of the 1st and was more focused on sensual domination with no risk of injury and she won't be hitting me. She offered me a free session, I might as well take it. But my FR still holds true, the trauma I experienced still lingers.

I actually made 3 requests to her for a session. To be fair to Yura, I did emphasized some points in bolded and capital letters and that might have made her think that she needs to play the part of a very sadistic girl but the thing is she should have read and internalised what was written. I think she only picked out the part she got excited about and went about doing it her own way which resulted me in getting hurt in the process. Since some of you asked for it, I will extract the core points of my requests. Hey, everyone got their own fantasy so here goes..



The things I don't appreciate was that
Firstly, she wielded a hard implement frm the start which was a rattan cane not even specifically mentioned in my request. And I did not want a cane to be swinging dangerously close to my cock because the impact will be much painful compared to a flog. I figured the injury sustained was because of this. She was swinging it anyway she wanted with max force and I know from the start it was very dangerous.
Secondly, she made little to no reference to the 'rule'. I did not appreciate that she kept repeatedly hitting my pelvic area/cock with the cane and paddle for the majority duration of the session right from the beginning. It was torture. Caning to the cock was a hard no-no for me. She could have hit me somewhere else.
Third, there wasn't any teasing involved at all. It was until towards the end of the session when she started to get sensual. By then, I was alrdy hurt and screaming non-stop.
Fourth, I saw my cock bleeding and that was really over the line.

The only conclusion I had was that she got carried away.
These made me angry and upset at her for conducting the session this way. I cannot really get over how much I had to fork out for the treatment if this had not happened and the injury has not healed after close to a week.

Originally Posted by yahiko (Post 19036874)

The 2nd session was a complete opposite of the 1st and was more focused on sensual domination with no risk of injury and she won't be hitting me. She offered me a free session, I might as well take it. But my FR still holds true, the trauma I experienced still lingers.

I actually made 3 requests to her for a session. To be fair to Yura, I did emphasized some points in bolded and capital letters and that might have made her think that she needs to play the part of a very sadistic girl but the thing is she should have read and internalised what was written. I think she only picked out the part she got excited about and went about doing it her own way which resulted me in getting hurt in the process. Since some of you asked for it, I will extract the core points of my requests. Hey, everyone got their own fantasy so here goes..



The things I don't appreciate was that
Firstly, she wielded a hard implement frm the start which was a rattan cane not even specifically mentioned in my request. And I did not want a cane to be swinging dangerously close to my cock because the impact will be much painful compared to a flog. I figured the injury sustained was because of this. She was swinging it anyway she wanted with max force and I know from the start it was very dangerous.
Secondly, she made little to no reference to the 'rule'. I did not appreciate that she kept repeatedly hitting my pelvic area/cock with the cane and paddle for the majority duration of the session right from the beginning. It was torture. Caning to the cock was a hard no-no for me. She could have hit me somewhere else.
Third, there wasn't any teasing involved at all. It was until towards the end of the session when she started to get sensual. By then, I was alrdy hurt and screaming non-stop.
Fourth, I saw my cock bleeding and that was really over the line.

The only conclusion I had was that she got carried away.
These made me angry and upset at her for conducting the session this way. I cannot really get over how much I had to fork out for the treatment if this had not happened and the injury has not healed after close to a week.

Originally Posted by _listless (Post 19037422)

Originally Posted by Fmcane (Post 19037696)

@yahiko Please be fair to Yura, you asked and she delivered or perhaps you have no idea what you are asking for... Since so scare and upset why still ask for free session after that :confused:

Originally Posted by Zzun (Post 19038029)

Dont think is entirely her fault due to the nature of request. Just gone wrong from expectation. Play safe bro. Thats why i always avoid cbt also.

Originally Posted by Havanna Slicks (Post 19038042)

she delivered way beyong wad was asked bro, not pointing or siding but have to be fair to both sides, a sub ask for sadist but no blood, go in the domee start cutting him and make him bleed, also sadist ma right?

there is a difference between pushing limits and breaching it, breach is not respecting limits already, in that case basically every session also same just do what she likes since the limit is like non existent...

agree going back for the free session is like accepting her apology so case closed there, but at least have to compensate the medical for the damage she done, else she think everyone she can dish out the same damage then after that nothing is going to happen, have to be responsible for one's actions...

sorry no offense to u but discussing to the topic on hand, nothing against u bro... ;)