Originally Posted by onsenmaster (Post 10927928)

I did have one or two relationships with a mistress that can be called romantic. Didn't find it particularly fulfilling long term wise. At first, you will feel like you have achieved something most guys and submissives can only dream of. That's satisfying the egoistic part of me. Slowly, as the relationship developed, I find it increasingly unsatisfying as I am unable to relate to her on a normal level. Yes the sex was simply terrific but at the end of the day all guys need someone to return home to talk about everyday problems. Many of these mistresses are in this line because they have been introduced to it by a friend, and it's another way of making good money. I tend to always take it with a pinch of salt whenever a domme tells me she is in this line due to her interest. The interest is just something that hopefully grew with each passing session until the domme accepts this as a way of life and living. I'm speaking from an Asian perspective. Not sure if that is the view in the west.

Falling in love with a domme or trying to impress her is never wise. Other than to satisfy one self's egoistic tendencies I do not see a reason why these dommes should be treated differently from the FLs or other girls that one goes to for sexual release. Of course I'm not likening dommes to pros. Rather, the same rules of engagement apply. For pros, f and F off. For dommes, enjoy and F off. It really should be a business transaction although most guys will be clouded by self made excuses like...she really knows what I want...so sexy to submit to someone half my age...

I have been thru this stage before so I thought I'm in a better position to comment but of course you are free to think otherwise. Most Japanese men too regard such transactions as business-like. They do bring gifts but these come from the perspective of a tribute. It is easy to get withdrawal symptoms after fantastic sessions in japan. Call it the lack of culture and quality locally. I reckon singapore girls can be just as sexy or sexier than most Japanese girls. It's a pity that they do not pro domme.

Originally Posted by Jimm (Post 10931820)

Hi Guys,

I have a question with regards to Mistress Sayako's services, hope those who know Mistress Sayako well can advise.

I have a fetish for crossdressing and pegging which I would love to experience with Mistress Sayako, I am not into pain or scat or most of the parts that go with BDSM. I know some Mistresses are fine with milder play but not others who are into the more hardcore activities.

Just wanted to find out if anyone can advise if what I have in mind with be suitable with Mistress Sayako's sessions?

Thanks Guys

Originally Posted by Darga (Post 10927329)

That was an interesting read and I agree with previous post. I dont know If I should envy him or feel sorry for him ;).

Originally Posted by blacknyellow (Post 10932644)

Dear Jimm,

I think you will have no problem in living out your pegging & cross dressing fantasy with Mistress Sayako :)

B 'n' Y

Originally Posted by Lundgren (Post 10939921)

Anyone knows anything about this: shanghaigoddess.org or .net. Is it genuine, what about rates, is the operation dodgy, does she have a "manager" etc.? It sure sounds good, but I tried to contact her two years ago on QQ (chinese local Facebook I guess), and at that time she did not reply.

Cheers.

Lundgren

Originally Posted by Schrodinger (Post 10941979)

She is genuine - sessioned with her once maybe a year to 18 months ago. She is independent and I dealt with her directly. My guess is she has a lot of nuisance calls and messages from people who are not serious - at least that's what I sensed in my conversations with her prior to the session.

One thing that was a trifle irritating - she keeps using "I'm very popular" to justify not wasting her time, justify her rates (sorry can't rem exactly what the rates are), etc, even when one does not waste time, does not bargain.

Style-wise she is more of the fast-and-furious tempo type. Definitely experienced and reasonably skilled. Arrived in my requested attire and her trolley bag of tools. Pics are 80-90% of actual person so no worries there.

I did not have a bad experience, but my preference for a slower tempo and sensual style meant that I did not go back to her - plus the fact that there are too many Shanghai dommes I want to session with but just not enough trips there to try them all....

Originally Posted by Schrodinger (Post 10941979)

She is genuine - sessioned with her once maybe a year to 18 months ago. She is independent and I dealt with her directly. My guess is she has a lot of nuisance calls and messages from people who are not serious - at least that's what I sensed in my conversations with her prior to the session.

One thing that was a trifle irritating - she keeps using "I'm very popular" to justify not wasting her time, justify her rates (sorry can't rem exactly what the rates are), etc, even when one does not waste time, does not bargain.

Style-wise she is more of the fast-and-furious tempo type. Definitely experienced and reasonably skilled. Arrived in my requested attire and her trolley bag of tools. Pics are 80-90% of actual person so no worries there.

I did not have a bad experience, but my preference for a slower tempo and sensual style meant that I did not go back to her - plus the fact that there are too many Shanghai dommes I want to session with but just not enough trips there to try them all....

Originally Posted by blacknyellow (Post 10945829)

Dear Bro Schodinger,

I thank you for your views. Most importantly, you are one of the most genuine bro's out there and I think everyone should consider your views on Sayako & Shanghai mistresses....

Originally Posted by Lundgren (Post 10946375)

Hey Bro Schrödinger:

Thanks for the great info!

Lundgren

Originally Posted by otherOne (Post 10955622)

Any more recent FRs on local dommes?