Re: thoughts on chasing malaysian chinese girls working in sg?
 

just my pov, I don't think u should carry on a long term relationship with her but like a condom, u use and can throw away. pretend u still into her but with a mental defensive wall. 'date' her in order to get her in bed. since she wants something out of u and u want sex out of her, fair deal? be that cold heartless man! also take the chance to know her really well lor..

a few experiences from my side is malaysian girls like to 'accept soldiers' 收兵 aka finding men to do things for her for free. got lobang, she won't tell or share with u. only when she got things like move house, buy stuffs, go expensive restaurants etc then call u and say we are friends. normal days u call or text also never reply one.

I kena once when I was still noob, go expensive restaurant, i paid thinking maybe got chance to be her bf. eveyone in same friend group told me, she's very cunning and money minded. on a second date, she go there, eat, take photo of herself, don't even do any wefie with me then post on facebook(still hot then, now ig) and don't even tag u. pte limited on how far u can go liao, i saw that then order expensive sparkling wines and deserts. happily eat them and told her that there's another place that serves more better sparkling wines(which i like also), brought her there. sweet talk her, get her high, told her my place also have a few bottles, bring her home and bang, cream her that every night. next morning, have another round of cream. she ask what relationship are we now, just kiss her and cream her another round. send her home, block her on facebook, whatsapp, line, wechat, kakaotalk.

Malaysian cheapskate kena Singaporean gambler.

Re: thoughts on chasing malaysian chinese girls working in sg?
 

thank you bro greenfrog & titan :

I'll just take this chance to "practice", condition & normalize myself hanging out with her temporary for now, stop taking everything in a emotional standpoint. Afterwards I see if i can manage to conclude anything from a few outings.
If I have more girls can jio liao can jump ship quickly move on and keep trying !
More ever since after the pandemic strikes really long time never mingle, all the crazy romanticizing thoughts come out damn gaolat like never see girl before like that almost take over my mind...... No joke !

to be honest bro titan, besides hearing this from you previous replies some bros mentioned the same thing as well, this is why i'm afraid of this part about malaysian women, sorry to hear all these from you.

However I decide to show my ugly side which is be myself to girls first to let them accept who I am from there I can weed away those superficial/materialistic girls. If those willing to accept me they will stay.
Otherwise I unknowningly tio jiak become backup plan liao.

Re: thoughts on chasing malaysian chinese girls working in sg?
 

Actually what you did is really typical Singaporean. Objective achieved and move on. After chatting with some ladies, I think mostly only Singaporean guys do this.

The Malaysian and PRC guys will agree to be in a bf-gf relationship. Then continue to enjoy sex for as long as possible. Whatever presents she wants or hints, they just ignore. At most she breaks up with them right? By then they would have enjoy more than 1 session of sex with the girl. Alternatively, they will just break off when they have a new target and just give a lame excuse by saying they are not suitable.

And it may be easier for the girls to move on because all along they think they are making love to their bf and not some one night stand who treats them like used tissue and dumps them after the first time.

Re: thoughts on chasing malaysian chinese girls working in sg?
 

Most malaysian girls have bf in hometown. U need a strong heart to chase them.
I would say most malaysian girls treat guys better then locals do.

Re: thoughts on chasing malaysian chinese girls working in sg?
 

lol bro, your description is spot on. but sometimes, I do feel disappointed as i know her for 10 years. i thought we evolved to being friends.

Side track a bit, i work in manufacturing industry. so for the past 11 years, i faced Malaysians every single day. In a way, i understand them.

Malaysian guys ? to be honest, i think nothing much of them. A lot of them are just uneducated punks. sorry if i am blunt.

Malaysian girls? i feel they make good gfs. wife ? i reserved my comments first.

Re: thoughts on chasing malaysian chinese girls working in sg?
 

Nothing wrong with pump and dump. Unless, you like late 20s and early 30s looking for marriage and having children. Having a relationship is a total waste of time in the fast paced society like SG.

You seemed to put all women on the pedestal (simp). It's men like you who are enablers of women with bad attitude to flourish in SG.

Re: thoughts on chasing malaysian chinese girls working in sg?
 

There's a term for these type of men, they are called "beta orbiters". I used to be one of them harbouring such thoughts. Just imagine the mental effort and time spent, one would have gotten another woman by then.

Re: thoughts on chasing malaysian chinese girls working in sg?
 

Pump and dump can be any reasons. Since when are we riding the high horse moral ground in a meat market forum? It can be even be as trival as looking for a reason to release, despite the women being not a suitable GF material.

Seriously, who are we to judge other men's action when it doesn't concern us? What that guy articulated in his words are simply simping. No 2 ways about it.

Re: thoughts on chasing malaysian chinese girls working in sg?
 

that is harsh and true.. :D:D:D

but if only finding someone is so easy.

Re: thoughts on chasing malaysian chinese girls working in sg?
 

I realize that too, can't agree more on this !

Re: thoughts on chasing malaysian chinese girls working in sg?
 

If you are relatively young, say under 35. As long as not fat or too short (under 1.7m), know how to butter up women abit, usually is not problem.

But that was my gen around the start of social media (early 2000s). Now, idk. I don't bother and too old as well, $ more important.

Here, sg chinese, cannot. Try malay, malay cannot, find mixed, mixed cannot. Find indian (keling or baiyee, up to you)
Singaporeans cannot, find PRC. PRC cannot, find VN. Vn cannot, find Thai. Thai cannot, find Indo. Indo cannot, god bless you. (Oh, i almost forgotten abt Pinoy) :D

Re: thoughts on chasing malaysian chinese girls working in sg?
 

My adivce to TS is dun waste your time with that lady. See her in the office just say hi and then walk away to do your job

Re: thoughts on chasing malaysian chinese girls working in sg?
 

I married a malysian woman who spent almost 95% of her life in sg and yet her malaysian values stick to her like glue. Malaysian women will ask man to pay for everything in family when married. Avoid at all cost. They are parasites who do not believe in marriage vows. They they feel they cannot milk more out of you, they will get a divorce and then collect a lot in maintenance.

Also, most of them crave attention from men. They will do so after marriage as well. Marry at your own risk.

Re: thoughts on chasing malaysian chinese girls working in sg?
 

When you mention men. As in other men?

Re: thoughts on chasing malaysian chinese girls working in sg?
 

I literally hear the exact same spot on pointers you've mentioned here when I was meeting my prospects. There are more negative traits that outweights the positive ones !