thomas11 |
07-02-2012 06:38 PM |
Re: Chu Chu(1654A)
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Originally Posted by MushroomHead101
(Post 6855537)
Just an opinion: maybe it's not really about the money for him, his pride and ego had been shattered by the rejection, so he did what he did... so i agree with you bro nato17...
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Perhaps we should not use the word, "pride" or "ego", here. Any man with pride or ego will not report a WL to AV because he was rejected by her. If you ask me, this is as low as a man--or a humanbeing--can go. Pathetic people, even if we can call them people.
In any case, it is not a good idea to date a working lady. Actually, being rejected by a WL is not the worst thing to happen. On the contrary, it is a blessing. I dated a room salon hostess (a Korean version of KTV) a few years ago while I was working most of my time in Seoul. She didn't accept any money from me (other than some occasional presents), so I guess I can call this a relationship rather than a business transaction. I dated her for more than 1 year. It was good while it lasted. Having a 23-year old pretty girl friend was the best trophy a guy in his late 30s can think of, and I was genuinely happy. Unfortunately, I couldn't continue the relationship because MRS was getting suspicious. So I broke up with her (it really hurt, but a man gotta do what he gotta do, right?). Then, all the hell broke loose. She called me 20+ times a day, sent 30+ SMS (often nonstop for 1 hour), called me early in the morning (completely drunken), and occasionally waited for me in front of my office for hours! I did everything (offered money but rejected; apologized on my knees; took her to a luxury "goodbye" trip to Hokkaido; even threatened her) but nothing worked. She even threatened me she would report me to the police for rape! Of course, this wouldn't have flown in the court, but imagine what would have happened to my reputation (whatever is left at that point, it is). This lasted for more than 2 months! Fortunately, she stopped and moved on (Perhaps she got a new boyfriend. I don't know, but she just stopped after a while). But the 2 months were a living hell. I even got an irritable bowel syndrome due to stress, seriously. Thinking back, I believe she was psychologically unstable. So I feel very luck that I didn't lose my family. She could've done a lot more damage.
So brothers, learn from me, and NEVER think about dating a WL. It could completely destroy your life. Don't tell me that I didn't warn you...
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