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TonyMontana 18-03-2009 08:52 PM
Re: Marrying a ex Gaylang Girl
 
Quote:
Originally Posted by mike1304k (Post 3568044)
Bro,

I also do not know what you are planning. But if you marry overseas, unless you are marrying an under-age girl or something, there will usually not be any involvement of embassies and so on. Just go to local council or whichever government council that does this sort of thing and you present your passport, she presents her i/c and the Justice of Peace asks a few questions and you are married. It is the same in Singapore mah... Which government so free so and check who marry who where.

But like I mentioned, I would advise you not to do anything funny as polygamy is an offence. And if you get found out, you are in a world of grief.

I wish you luck and clear thinking.

noted. just wondering how pple did it without getting caught...

any bros here married a thai girl? they appear very loving, know how to take care of their man and of cos beautiful...

owen10 19-03-2009 01:40 AM
Re: Marrying a ex Gaylang Girl
 
Hmmm .. it's interesting tis thread is rekindled. i thk tis is a very gd discussion cos it sums up d current situation of many s'porean men, mostly d older ones n some of d younger folks too.

in fact for myslf, sometimes i do feel attracted to tt sweet talking n demure hooker in GL, or tt innocent looking, ever smiling Thai masseuse or tt easy going chio hairdresser n thk if 1 day i wd ever marry 1 of them. mayb it's their simplicity tt makes us feel at east tt doesnt come as a package in sporean gals. being single perhaps made me feel tt way but deep down in my heart, of cos i knw there's a lot of social stigma, incl d countless tales tt d gal will run away wif yr $$$ 1 day.

but marriage is 1 big gamble isnt it? i had many friends who had enviable marriages - sporean wives, chio n capable - but ended up in divorce later. on d other hand there r also fairytales (1 army fren n 2 other samsters) which d guys are happily married to some FLs/masseuse with children. saying is easier than done. as Sam commented in pg 1: 'How would you like your friends and collegues to describe to you how good a fuck your wife was.' i guess d social stigma is there as long as u remain in spore, scruntinised under d microscopic eyes of family, relatives n frens. maybe migrating overseas will make it psychologically less burdened.

mike1304k 19-03-2009 10:59 AM
Re: Marrying a ex Gaylang Girl
 
Quote:
Originally Posted by TonyMontana (Post 3569703)
noted. just wondering how pple did it without getting caught...

any bros here married a thai girl? they appear very loving, know how to take care of their man and of cos beautiful...

Bro,

The question is whether you got the "right one" or not... Most Thai girls are pretty and nice... They will wipe your plate and forks and spoons... They will also ask you not to serve them and they will serve you... That is where your little ego gets swelled and your heart melts.. But even my wife says that she respects the Thai's for how they treat their men... (FYI.. most Sg girls who know my wife alreadt respect her for treating me so nice... So you can see how much better they are).

But then in response to your question of how do some guys get 2 marriages under the belt and get away with it... If they are smart and cool about it... anything is possible.. And as long as the other side does not suspect...

But again... I say it very clearly and very forcefully, do not try to have multiple marriages in multiple countries. You may think that you can handle it, but it will eventually boil out. Imagine you having to support 2 families? If one side the child falls sick how? Some more, it may seem fun or even exciting.. but the consequences of getting caught? Nowadays Thai girls are not as stupid as many think. They are internet savvy and also able to do searches. If they go into ROM and search your name and you are found out... then you will see the other side of a Thai lady.... They are not people to be screwed with.. You will be in a rice pady feeding the fighting fish and helping to grow the Fragrant Thai Rice faster than you can even blink... If you do so bro... please tell me and I will swear off Thai rice for the time being hor.

FL Lover 20-03-2009 11:06 AM
Re: Marrying a ex Gaylang Girl
 
Bro, in Thai. Anything is possible.

There is no need to legally marry a thai ger if you are already married in Singapore. In thai, as long as you hold a custom marriage in the village, you are consider married even though you do not have the paper. Most of the thai gers I know of are OK with this kind of arrangement,

If you ask me y. I tell you the reason. NO STRINGS ATTACHED. If one day they get sick of you and wants to OFFICALLY MARRIED TO ANOTHER GUY, they are allow to do so without any issues.

Of course, I have seen cases whereby the thai gers already know that the guy have a wife or gf in singapore but still have babies with him. My advice, IF YOU HAVE THE $$ and can support 2 FAMILIES, GO AHEAD. :D

mm_guy 27-03-2009 12:42 PM
Re: Marrying a ex Gaylang Girl
 
HI pussyman72,

DID u manage to marry ur tirak thru the proper channel??? pls let me know... cuz i seems to hv a similar issue with u...but shes a PRC yellow card holder

SO if therez any BROs kind enough to share all those vital infos to get an ex-yellow card holder to come over here n married......i would be greatly appreciated it alot.....:)

i know therez also alot of bros out there who dun agree that we shd marry a wls or crazy....i appreciated those bros concern....... but things in the heart is sometimes difficult to understand......so pls come forward n share ur infos :) will appreciate it greatly.........thanks

DO_YOU_BJ 27-03-2009 02:27 PM
Re: Marrying a ex Gaylang Girl
 
In the 1st place, what's a Yellow Card??????

mm_guy 27-03-2009 03:38 PM
Re: Marrying a ex Gaylang Girl
 
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Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ (Post 3597074)
In the 1st place, what's a Yellow Card??????
its some sort of work permit only issued to those workin legally in sg nia :)

DO_YOU_BJ 27-03-2009 04:02 PM
Re: Marrying a ex Gaylang Girl
 
Tot now is W or S pass only???????
Yellow card is old sys or wat?
Anyways, no need to reply hahahaha
Bo liaozzz questions only
Can ask me bros during drinking sessions

BUOYANTLESS 27-03-2009 04:15 PM
Re: Marrying a ex Gaylang Girl
 
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Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ (Post 3597360)
Tot now is W or S pass only???????
Yellow card is old sys or wat?
this yellow card is a document issued to all legal wls workin in singapore eg:cat 50 thais,cat150 malaysians/prc.

DO_YOU_BJ 27-03-2009 04:16 PM
Re: Marrying a ex Gaylang Girl
 
Ah so des.....
Kumxia...like that how to get PR status......

pussyman72 28-03-2009 01:18 AM
Re: Marrying a ex Gaylang Girl
 
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Originally Posted by BUOYANTLESS (Post 3597401)
this yellow card is a document issued to all legal wls workin in singapore eg:cat 50 thais,cat150 malaysians/prc.
Yellow card = MOH. There is no such things as work permit.... they never work here and never legal to work here in the eyes of the ICA that is why they are temp banned or indef banned after 1 to 2 yrs duty.

That is btn AV and ICA arrangement is to let the gers to work in geylang for a period of time what i can said is that much.

pussyman72 28-03-2009 01:28 AM
Re: Marrying a ex Gaylang Girl
 
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Originally Posted by spermmyboy (Post 3599016)
This topic is always mai mao mai dai...:(
well this topic is always very touchy. so it all up to the person to decide what he wanna do... we can advice alot some even go to the extreme to insult. anyway it still up to the person.

nobody decide for his life how he wanna walk. so long he know it very well what he is in for then he answer to his future....

nobody dare to said the road is wrong or right cos they are not god.... they cant predict the future. so let the guy decide it. there is no point zappings, cursing the person marrying a whore... i dont see any reason doing this kind childish way....

FL Lover 30-03-2009 12:44 PM
Re: Marrying a ex Gaylang Girl
 
quite hard to get marry and officially rgister your marriage in ROM. You can try a few methods but the thing is that.. its up to ICA to even allow her to step into sg..

The only few cases I came across are those who married their ger in their hometowns and they actually moved over there to settle with their loved ones... Big risks and you might end up with nothing if the ger is playing with your feelings.

Better consider properly before you make that big steps. Ask yourself this qns... ARE YOU SURE THAT SHE IS THE ONE FOR YOU? If yes, how far would you go for her? If you are having some thoughts on that, my advice to you... YOU ARE STILL NOT READY FOR HER.

pussyman72 30-03-2009 04:57 PM
Re: Marrying a ex Gaylang Girl
 
Quote:
Originally Posted by FL Lover (Post 3605698)
The only few cases I came across are those who married their ger in their hometowns and they actually moved over there to settle with their loved ones... Big risks and you might end up with nothing if the ger is playing with your feelings.

Better consider properly before you make that big steps. Ask yourself this qns... ARE YOU SURE THAT SHE IS THE ONE FOR YOU? If yes, how far would you go for her? If you are having some thoughts on that, my advice to you... YOU ARE STILL NOT READY FOR HER.
Totally agree with you on the above posting. better think twice or 3x 4x or even 100x better sit down and think it properly whether the path ahead is the choice you really wanna make.... it not a ez road and there is alot of upz and downs...

Just like bro FL lover said If you are having some thoughts on that, my advice to you... YOU ARE STILL NOT READY FOR HER.

calvintan 04-02-2012 12:32 AM
Re: Marrying a ex Gaylang Girl
 
Bro salute to you..

but i really need to ask.. so how do you know how long is she ban from coming to sg? just apply for a visitor pass and then go see ICA officer?

and isit true that all girl from GL cannot come back to sg forever for wadever reason?(current law)

mrsg 04-02-2012 01:03 PM
Re: Marrying a ex Gaylang Girl
 
Quote:
Originally Posted by pussyman72 (Post 1489716)
Hi All

I like to check anyone have been involve with a ex gaylang girl or your friend that have been involve and successfully get married here in singapore, also getting a long term visit pass or PR.

well i got involved, she used to work in GL 5 yrs ago. i have check with the AV and they said they got nothing to do with it anymore after she have terminate the permit. They ask me to check with ICA

I have gone down to ICA and check, ICA officer told me that normally girl working in this line after they gone back home . there is a restriction for this girls to come in singapore. restriction could be 1, 2 to 3 yrs or even indef. The officer will tell them the rules before they go back home.

So long the girl obey the rule n regulation. After the restriction she should not have a problem coming back to singapore for a visit.

I ask the officer how about getting married in singapore after 5 to 6yrs. they said it not their problem, there is no rule saying they cant get married here. the only problem is the short and long term visit pass.

ICA may not approved her visit pass but it base on case to case. Officer told me, they will check on my work n income also check on her before deciding whether to give her the pass.

she stress that i had to be prepare to live seperately if the pass is not approved, but i can try again in another few yrs and maybe they will approved it but this also depend on case to case. she still stress that my girl may not be able to get it approved.....

Big Headache for me..... can anyone share with me their experience. i wanna bring her back here and stay with me and i really wanna know the rules and regulation that the girls have sign when they come to singapore and when they go back what did the officer tell them..

Cheers
PM72

I see too many of these cases, nvr work out. why dun you follow her to her country and settle there then.

mrsg 04-02-2012 01:06 PM
Re: Marrying a ex Gaylang Girl
 
Quote:
Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ (Post 3597074)
In the 1st place, what's a Yellow Card??????
Card which is yellow

BS KTV 11-08-2012 12:31 AM
Re: Marrying a ex Gaylang Girl
 
A old reference :)

asdfghjkl 11-08-2012 12:41 AM
Re: Marrying a ex Gaylang Girl
 
Quote:
Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ (Post 3597074)
In the 1st place, what's a Yellow Card??????
something like a Green Card is the US. :o

ChokDeeDee! 11-08-2012 02:44 PM
Re: Marrying a ex Gaylang Girl
 
Bro PM72, you're lucky the ICA even bothered to answer your inquiries. The ban can vary in duration, most of the time is 3 years. There is a green chop on their passport when they get deported. Changing a new passport is useless, the immigration already has her records, they'll just re-stamp it every time she enters with a new one. Never ever think of changing names or attempting anything deceitful in her passport, 90% she'll end up in the immigration lockup and be slapped with a seriously longer ban. Don't forget, the immigration has samples of all her 10 fingers, and they won't hesitate to have them verified. If she is completely honest, she commits no crime, worst case scenario is they reject entry and ask her to buy a ticket for the next flight home.

Marriage to an ex-WL in SG is very difficult but not impossible. Yellow card holders are made to sign a declaration form stating that they understood the entry ban and that they aren't suppose to marry any Singaporean PR or citizens.

Despite that being said, I've still seen many cases of successful Singaporean and ex-WL marriages in Singapore. Its a tough road. Good luck bro :)

owen10 11-08-2012 03:57 PM
Re: Marrying a ex Gaylang Girl
 
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Originally Posted by ChokDeeDee! (Post 7600236)
Bro PM72, you're lucky the ICA even bothered to answer your inquiries. The ban can vary in duration, most of the time is 3 years. There is a green chop on their passport when they get deported. Changing a new passport is useless, the immigration already has her records, they'll just re-stamp it every time she enters with a new one.
Interesting advice from a seasoned bro here. I learned something new. Thanks! :)

ChokDeeDee! 11-08-2012 04:10 PM
Re: Marrying a ex Gaylang Girl
 
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Originally Posted by owen10 (Post 7600573)
Interesting advice from a seasoned bro here. I learned something new. Thanks! :)
Welcomed bro, and thanks for the up :)

sammyboyfor 11-08-2012 04:23 PM
Re: Marrying a ex Gaylang Girl
 
Quote:
Originally Posted by ChokDeeDee! (Post 7600236)
I've still seen many cases of successful Singaporean and ex-WL marriages in Singapore. Its a tough road. Good luck bro :)
Why anyone would want to marry a whore is beyond me. :rolleyes:

No wonder the quality of the Singapore gene pool is rapidly going downhill. :eek:

In a decade or so, there won't be any need to import whores from abroad anymore. There'll be loads of local born girls who can learn how to become whores from their mothers.

BS KTV 11-08-2012 09:33 PM
Oh no
 
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Originally Posted by sammyboyfor (Post 7600720)
Why anyone would want to marry a whore is beyond me. :rolleyes:

No wonder the quality of the Singapore gene pool is rapidly going downhill. :eek:

In a decade or so, there won't be any need to import whores from abroad anymore. There'll be loads of local born girls who can learn how to become whores from their mothers.
In Singapore, mostly are old men or very fat men that cannot find decent girlfriends then they resorted to find foreign whores to become life partners.

I cannot imagine in a decade, young SG girls becoming nightclub singers, KTV hostesses or social escorts. Very scary to think that their mothers (foreign whores) prefer their daughters to earn fast high income thru commercial sex :eek:

We can marry local or foreign ladies but not those WL in commercial sex ;)

ChokDeeDee! 11-08-2012 11:30 PM
Re: Marrying a ex Gaylang Girl
 
Quote:
Originally Posted by sammyboyfor (Post 7600720)
Why anyone would want to marry a whore is beyond me. :rolleyes:

No wonder the quality of the Singapore gene pool is rapidly going downhill. :eek:

In a decade or so, there won't be any need to import whores from abroad anymore. There'll be loads of local born girls who can learn how to become whores from their mothers.
Some people like Red meat with Red Wine, some White meat with White Wine, some Raw meat with Sakae and some Roast meat with Beer. All I can do is tell the truth and its up to them to choose what meat with which kinda wine, I'll be neutral in this case. ;)

ChokDeeDee! 11-08-2012 11:31 PM
Re: Oh no
 
Quote:
Originally Posted by BS KTV (Post 7601842)
...We can marry local or foreign ladies but not those WL in commercial sex ;)...
Yeap there are ample choices around :p

BS KTV 12-08-2012 09:12 PM
Re: Oh no
 
Quote:
Originally Posted by ChokDeeDee! (Post 7602268)
Yeap there are ample choices around :p
Bro ChokDeeDee,

I can vouched what boss sam said is true. 2 years I visited my PRC WL hometown and to realize that her mother run a chain of foot massage shops that has young girls providing sexual services to customers. My PRC WL used to work in high end KTV in SG and earned about SGD 12,000 net for one month on social visit pass here. Her auntie (mother's sister) heard that the money is good to earn in high end KTV in SG immediately asked her cousin a young pretty girl to quit her shop assistant job and to follow her to SG to work in KTV despite knowing that her daughter has to sleep with with strangers to earn money.

Recently a friend told me a PRC mama-san working in a high end KTV here had arranged her younger sister (blood related) to overnight an old man which is her ex-customer for SGD 5,000.

For me, I will never sell my daughter or younger sister for any amount of money. No matters how poor is my situation is. I will still work hard and save up the money to support my daughter in getting a paper of qualification and also educate her to be good woman with good virtue.

I hope SG men can wake up and never marry a whore (including those xiao san).

rawpenis 12-08-2012 11:37 PM
Re: Marrying a ex Gaylang Girl
 
bro, its possible for you to marry her. and get ltvp. however the journey is going to be long and tedious .Are you ready to go through countless mp appeal , appeal to ica, facing rejected appeal . making countless trip to thailand and meet your mp sessions. And is she going to walk this journey together ?
if your answer is yes, please follow your heart cos i personally witness my best friend walk through all these and now his wife is here on ltvp.
However the whole bloody process for her to stay in singapore takes 3 years.that's right. 3 bloody years! and are you sure she won't change during those time when you are in singapore cos if she decide to gives up inbetween the process after all you have done.you gonna have a mental breakdown.
so please think carefully .
for me i also marry a kon thai but she not an ex gl. Many people was also against my marriage just bcoz she's a foreigner but i just follow my heart.now we are happily married for 2 years and she just give birth to a baby boy.
God bless u

PhariseesYeast 13-08-2012 01:31 PM
Re: Marrying a ex Gaylang Girl
 
Boss, I can understand your passion of discouraging people from marrying a WL, but must you use such rhetoric?

Quote:
Originally Posted by sammyboyfor (Post 7600720)
Why anyone would want to marry a whore is beyond me. :rolleyes:

No wonder the quality of the Singapore gene pool is rapidly going downhill. :eek:

In a decade or so, there won't be any need to import whores from abroad anymore. There'll be loads of local born girls who can learn how to become whores from their mothers.
Sound a bit elitism, don't you think? Not all is interested to learn how to be WL.

sammyboyfor 13-08-2012 02:03 PM
Re: Marrying a ex Gaylang Girl
 
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Originally Posted by PhariseesYeast (Post 7609599)
Boss, I can understand your passion of discouraging people from marrying a WL, but must you use such rhetoric?
The truth may be painful and offensive to some but it needs to be said.

Who in their right mind would want a prostitute to be the mother of their children.

The problem is that they don't think about what's to come and the consequences of their actions 10 years down the road when the infatuation is gone and stark reality replaces a perceived fairytale "romance".

The cheebye juice from their beloved whore has clouded their brain cells and all they can think about is the next fuck.


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