Re: Marrying a ex Gaylang Girl
 

Bro etsys,

Very good analysis....alarm bells? :D

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All bros.. I wonder how WLs can fall in love when they "had" so many men before and likely numb from having too much sex. Had always ponder this question but no answers.

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Bro,

You will be surprised. I am not saying WLs are inhuman. They also have heart. But a twisted heart. When they feel like it they can 'switch on' the love mode, and then suddenly 'switch off' the love mode, and turn into sex machine with no emotion.

I have seen a few foreign talent really fall in love and become broken hearted when their love dump then. Not all are sincere, but few of them very really heart broken.

There was a british woman who was in love with me for a while .. which was not interesting, to be honest. When I pay, she was a tiger in bed. When she start to have feeling, then become like GF type but sort of demanding this and that and what not. The good part is I didnt have to pay her anymore. The bad part is mid night she will call and insist I pick her up from this hotel or there after her 'work' and demand certain food for which I had to go around town for her .. and what not.

I slowly gave up .. and convinced her that this affair will not go anywhere, somemore considering I could pick her vibes - when she meet her countrymen she is all happy and feel very jovial, and when she meet my local friends, feel very much out of place. I made her understand she is better of being with one of her countrymen than a foreigner.

Now who in this world dont want a better life ? A life without having to fk a few unknown guys a day (for lower cat) or atleast one guy a day who she may never know how he look like or behave ?

It is deep rooted pschology. Maybe we should discuss this over a bottle of martell one day .. ha ha.

Take care guys,

Roger

PS: I am not a cold hearted guy .. If you re-read my posting it will be clear that I am sensitive enough ..

Re: Marrying a ex Gaylang Girl
 

All WL I've met including local FL have a distorted view of the world. They view the world differently from the rest of the population.

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I tend to agree with you about the "switching on/off" part because I can feel it too... maybe it got to do with their previous "job" but some gers told me they cannot have sex with guys they don't like... or is it the money temptation is so great that they can overcome this dislike ?

Put the question in another way... what goes inside a WL's mind when she first go on the "job" ?... interesting topic...

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Bro, not everybody get a job they love. They have to start to love the job, or end up with no money. Same goes for WLs I guess.

As for not having sex with guys they dont like, I have seen a minor few, who even if the guy is willing to pay two times or three times they refuse, but normally I find out the reason is they have rejected the guy the first time and dont want to loose face, or the friends give negative feedback, or the girl have other appointment. I am talking of the FLs type who hang out in pubs / discos here.

As for the second question, not all women end up being forced into the business. Some come on their own will, some because no choice, and some initially try as a fun thing, to earn some extra (like the local FLs who appear here .. ).

Small question with a complicated response .. :mad:

Roger

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Making out with guys whom one know just minutes ago.. can understand if its those ONS but for paid sex... does the ger really enjoy the sex or they just go thro the motion ?

Sex to me is an intimate process between two persons in love... but for a WL.. can she really fall in love after having sex like daily meals ? There must be some emotional scar somewhere lurking in the back of her mind after "retirement"

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i agree totally. ktv gers and even those working in pubs... spoke to this girl working in a pub last nite and she was so warped in her own beliefs that what she was doing is not wrong. so she ended up believing the lies she built up herself to justify her own actions... using sex to make those men she knew from the course of her job to buy branded stuff for her... seeing her all decked in designer garb but still dont look like a princess... something fundamental was missing...:( her soul i guess...

bro, u r right about not everyone loves the job they r doing. but how often do u come across women who r forced into it??? most of them i know of r offer such service by their own choice, mostly bcos they were seduced by the ease of which money was rolling in... it is like a drug, once they have tasted the ease of making 4 through that way, they cant go through an honest day's job again... found that out the hard way...:(

i personally feel that society still do offer choices for them, so who r they deceiving when they say they had no choice???

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I believe that FLs tend to be different when they do it with a customer and when they do it with somebody they love ,..,

Personally, I experience a change in the way the FL make love from the first time and the the 8 time ... It is more the intimate love making session, instead of fake moanings ...

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I can see mr pussyman posting in other threads, but how come he not here to answer my queries?:confused:

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I concur that. Majority of them are lost in their own fantasy.

Not sure abt other countries, but in SG, there are limitless opportunities to be in abundance without entering the vice trade.

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actually felt quite sad for them... they have been deceiving themselves to what end??? haiz...

precisely, my ex-gf had to start working after i broke off with her. she was previously working in a ktv. obviously, her new bf is not able to come up with the $ to help her open a beauty salon...:rolleyes:

she started working in a beauty chain in the day and went back to work part-time in a ktv at nite, on certain nites. after like 1 month, she has quit her day job and went back to working in ktv full-time liao... they cant bear the hard work having to work for long hours...:(

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Bro... I fully agree with your opinion... I had seen how these gers try to justify their actions though some do need the money for a better life back home... to each his own in this mortal world.

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In Relative terms bro.

Then again, why do so many people fall for scam here like in other countries ?

if i earn 2k per month and somebody say there are chance to make 4 K per month or more, how many will not give it a try ?

compare to 2k average for secretary, and less than that for sales girls and such, a WL can earn atleast that much in ten days or less, and initially plan to rest or do something else for the free time. As it always happen, then end up working 30 day, to make more and more.

The sad fact sometime is they fall for real scam artist/lover and end up loosing all the hard earned money and go back to square one.

Like the snake and ladder game ..

I seldom see girls retiring ..

I said Seldom, because I have seen few girls, mostly filipino, who really give up working as FL and go back with whatever they earned and give up.

of course some of these who retire come back for action because bad investment or somebody suck all the money off.

Cruel world out there.

Like the saying, there is no fairness in this world. Each person is out to suck money out of another person and end up loosing to somebody else.

Ha ah ..

Better shut up for the day ..

Roger

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they r only lying to themselves... cos they r slowly losing their soul and more importantly, their own self-worth... not that they knew of their existence in the 1st place

at what cost, my friend??? they used their souls to exchange for the $.

the only example is can think of now is lord voldemort of the harry porter fame...:D their soul and humanity gets fragmented and lost through time... which is why u see that they can steal other women's husbands without a tinge of remorse...