Re: What is she thinking?
 

Still same answer from me. To elaborate further, she is simply thinking if it's a good bet to use her expensive eggs to hatch your cheap sperms. This is the most generic thinking any family-oriented women can have, given the general question you ask.

If you can assure her of a "future", then there is a "future". At this juncture, you've done nothing for her to make her (or any women) willing to go all out to be with you, so there's no "future" to talk about ;)

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You are soooo... wrong from the scientific point of view. Genetic diversity is a plus, not a minus. The very opposite of genetic diversity is inbreeding -- that is why there is a natural taboo against incest in practically all human communities.

Inbreeding mutlitplies the chances of harmful genes manifesting themselves and is therefore not advisable. But marrying people from a different gene pool -- that actually makes great genetic sense because it will increase the chances of survival of whatever offspring produced.

Re: What is she thinking?
 

it does not matter what she thinks, think about your future. ;)

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She is KCing or Fishing you ! beware . lots of chances here . step out before its too late .

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bro ts, i can only wish u well cos it's almost impossible to maintain overseas relationship. had tried twice! :o all the best...

my humble 2 rmb worth... :)

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@sgjoey

I do agree with you concerning genetic diversity & its reduction of having less desirable off spring.

However, I believe Sam Boss is thinking that "she's" a WL and hence likely to produce less desirable descendants.

Re: What is she thinking?
 

Genetic diversity is a good thing. Breeding from a defective gene pool is not.

Re: What is she thinking?
 

If currently u contacting once a week, meeting once per 6 months....

Future, you might be contacting once a month, meeting once 1 year...

Is there a future foreseenable in that kind of circumstances?

Love may be blind, but it does not mean you don't need to see your "GF".


Ask yourself: who is she seeing during the rest of the time not with u?

Re: What is she thinking?
 

I would think that all of us carry a proportion of defective genes. As such there is no such thing as a defective gene pool. Or rather, all gene pools are defective to some extent.

The best chance of ensuring genetic diversity is to marry a foreigner.

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Speak for yourself. :rolleyes: I certainly wouldn't choose to start a family with someone who carries the defective gene that causes Haemophilia, Huntingtons, Cystic Fibrosis etc. It would be most irresponsible.

For the sake of the next generation, men should seek partners which carry the best chance of producing bright, confident offspring.

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ouch !!!!!!!!!!! Oooops !!!!!!!!

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Very simple.
Just ask yourself the following questions:
Would you visit you favourite WL more than once a week?
Would you chat wif a good friend more than once a week?
What answer you seek is all in these 2 very simple questions!
She doesnt want to come over bcos:
1) She got a sugar daddy who's giving her more than u
2) She got a BF there so she cant find the excuse to come over
3) She has more than just U 1 option so she can weigh and gauge which one is worth sacrificing for
4) She's just keeping you as a spare tire

If someone wants to be wif you, die die u dun wan her to come find you she will also die die find a way to see you! PERIOD!

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Alamak.... you still don't geddit, do you?

Who doesn't want good genes? It's a no-brainer. It's also unavoidable that every one of us carry some defective genes.

The best chance of ensuring that these defective genes do not manifest themselves is to marry a foreigner, that is, someone whose gene pool is very different from ours.

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If you insist on going down the "genetic diversity" route, you should advocate that Singapore chinks marry Ang Mohs, Blacks or Latinos.

Marrying a foreign chink is risky. The couple may find that they're actually related.

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You actually know zilch about genetics. We are ALL related, to a greater or lesser extent. Around 50,000 years ago (give or take a few thousand years), a small band of Africans migrated out of Africa. We -- each and every one of us -- are their descendants.

I advocate that people be allowed to marry who they wish -- except for their close relatives because genetically speaking, that would be hazardous should they decide to have children.