unhealthy sperm

[darylcch]

recently just got a checkup from doctor and said that I have unhealthy sperm..
and my wife doesn't wish to have sex with me becos she said that I am unhealthy...
double blow...

[jerrystockton]

What do the doctor mean by unhealthy sperm ? Kindly elaborate...

[louis2002]

Unhealthy sperm maybe due to work stress or health problem....

Have a good rest (go for a holiday) and take plenty of tonic...

It helps...... at least for my case lor......

My 2 cents worth........

[hang37]

if you not planning for baby then not much an issue...
if yes then see how the doc can help you lor...

[liberatte]

Change your diet bro... I think Oyster should be nice to build sperm. I should assume that the doctor is just saying that you have a low sperm count that's all... Try to take Oyster raw (with lemon)....

[aczeta76]

Unhealthy sperm .... guess the doc is trying to say that your sperm have low energy.. Nothing to do with "clean" or "unclean"..

Go wiki it and tell your wife not to kay siao.

[monster98]

recently just got a checkup from doctor and said that I have unhealthy sperm..
and my wife doesn't wish to have sex with me becos she said that I am unhealthy...
double blow...


Unhealthy sperm and low sperm count are 2 different issue. Since you already consulted your doctor, I believed that your doctor should have gave you some medicine to cure it. Not to worry, everthing shall be alright after your medication......

[tanmikel]

recently just got a checkup from doctor and said that I have unhealthy sperm..
and my wife doesn't wish to have sex with me becos she said that I am unhealthy...
double blow...

next time she has a cold or a fever , tell her the same thing :mad: what a bitch

[SBFextra]

Hmm, unhealthy ... can have so many meaning ... tainted or weak .. or low sperm count .... doctor may be trying to say something different, cannot be just tell you like that :confused:

[aczeta76]

Hmm, unhealthy ... can have so many meaning ... tainted or weak .. or low sperm count .... doctor may be trying to say something different, cannot be just tell you like that :confused:

Oh yah.. if your wife was there with you, maybe doc dare not be too truthful...

:D

[D I E D]

Actually even so, the doc is suppose to say how it can be transmitted, assuming it is from sexual activities ...

[Ho-Lee]

Try not to wear tight jeans and underwear....:)

[darylcch]

Ya..the doc said is low sperm count and gave me some medication.
Even though low sperm count, I still have the urge to make love to my wife, I still can have erection, why she treat me like I am sick...

[thisisme]

recently just got a checkup from doctor and said that I have unhealthy sperm..
and my wife doesn't wish to have sex with me becos she said that I am unhealthy...
double blow...

Hey bro .. unhealthy sperm can be cure.
Mostly due to work stress. Exercise more.
But what I don't understand is why ur wife refuse to have sex with u due to unhealthy sperm. Does not make sense ...

[EtherC]

Do you work with radiation sources? Ie microwave/radio wave/x-ray
Do you work with chemicals? Ie pyridine
Do you wear tight briefs?
Do you wear tight jeans?
Do you exercise regularly?
Do you eat your vegetables like Mama asked you to?
Do you take hot showers?
Do you have obesity problem?
Do you take medication on a regular basis?
Do you smoke heavily?
Do you drink heavily?

The above mentioned situations are usually possible causes of unhealthy sperm which can be changed. Eliminate the causes you have and you might improve your sperm quality. Btw I think your wife is a bitch. So much for "in sickness and in health". I wish you good health and luck! Try to stay optimistic!

[colins]

recently just got a checkup from doctor and said that I have unhealthy sperm..
and my wife doesn't wish to have sex with me becos she said that I am unhealthy...
double blow...

What's unhealthy sperm? Besides us, does your wife understand what it means to have 'unhealthy' sperm? Sounds like she's got misconception, bro. I mean, hard to visualise someone so close to you saying they dun want to associate with you because you're sick. Not as if its AIDS right?

So sorry to hear that...

[VanHouten]

...
Do you eat your vegetables like Mama asked you to?....
EtherC is right. Must eat vegetable.

[jedycity]

EtherC is right. Must eat vegetable.

As far as i know as below :o,
1. Do not go Sauna
2. Wear loose pants
3. Prevent laptop putting on lap
4. Eat more eggs.
5. Reduce stress

[Macallan12]

Ya..the doc said is low sperm count and gave me some medication.
Even though low sperm count, I still have the urge to make love to my wife, I still can have erection, why she treat me like I am sick...
She should be supportive of you at this time of your life, not despise you.

[frolick]

I think threadstarter should have ask the doctor and questions he has instead of not asking the doctor and coming here to ask .... maybe after asking he can come you and inform us and educate us ....

[pocketrocket]

Unhealthy sperm maybe due to work stress or health problem....

Have a good rest (go for a holiday) and take plenty of tonic...

It helps...... at least for my case lor......

My 2 cents worth........

I agreed. If problem persist, then go see your GP :)

[CADA]

Pity you bro TS, low sperm count and she treat you like sicko .... anyway, din the DR suggest remedies or something.

[sammyboyfor]

my wife doesn't wish to have sex with me becos she said that I am unhealthy...
double blow...

She's probably getting her needs fulfilled elsewhere and is using this "unhealthy sperm" stuff simply as an excuse to avoid having sex with you. :rolleyes:

[singexpat]

bro,

u gotta change ur lifestyle abit liao..

more exercise, more fruits n veges
less alcohol, smokin,

Hope u recover fast fast ya!!:D

[darylcch]

Really feel very touch after reading all those replies...
The doc already given me 2 medical and will go for a checkup end of this month..hopefully ..cross my finger..

I think it is mainly due to my stress in work.
I tried to force myself to go exercise every sat...
Sex is a good exercise right? ==> too bad she just don't wish to do it..

I think she is too obsess with getting another kid. Last time, she only make love out of her fertile period. The last moment was about 4 months back and it was a "you want then do now..quick..i want to sleep liao.."..

[bunnytease]

no alchohol, smoke.
more protein like eggs and lean meat.
reduce ur fatty food intake.
drink more water.

and excercise. :)

[monster98]

Ya..the doc said is low sperm count and gave me some medication.
Even though low sperm count, I still have the urge to make love to my wife, I still can have erection, why she treat me like I am sick...






Low sperm count doesn't mean that you cannot errect. Your urge of making love is still the same as normal people. Just that the chances of having a baby is lower.. 75% lower than normal people..... But again.... medication can be able to solve this problem. When you intend to have a baby, consult the doctor and they will prescribe some medicine for u, advice is to start the 1 month medicine but need to stop all sexual activities (hj, bj and fj). Reason was to accumulate your sperm count and you will realise that the very 1st shot after 1 month is "superman":D

As for your wife issue, you can explain to her that low sperm count doesn't mean that you are dirty. If necessary, your can even bring her to your doctor and ask your doctor to explain to her.... For her to avoid you due to low sperm count is not logic..

[monster98]

She's probably getting her needs fulfilled elsewhere and is using this "unhealthy sperm" stuff simply as an excuse to avoid having sex with you. :rolleyes:






Do you need to pichak people's lobang over here even if this is the truth ?????? :p Wonder when will we see some encouragement "advice" from u?

[Intel Ops]

She's probably getting her needs fulfilled elsewhere and is using this "unhealthy sperm" stuff simply as an excuse to avoid having sex with you. :rolleyes:

Boss, you say like that will break his heart you know. :p

[KingBong]

Whats the problem? As long as u got healthy dick.

recently just got a checkup from doctor and said that I have unhealthy sperm..
and my wife doesn't wish to have sex with me becos she said that I am unhealthy...
double blow...

[darylcch]

We just have a heated quarrel ...
And she told me that she does not have any desire anymore...and she is only mid 30s...
She even said that she feel a hassle making love as she need to clean up after that...what reason???
I think her perspective is very different..
sex to me is intimacy and bb is a bonus
for her
sex with bb is a NO NO...is a hussle...
Should we guys just need to understand gals and let everything just be what it is now or should we fight for our rights?

[ANDYSIAO14]

We just have a heated quarrel ...

She even said that she feel a hassle making love as she need to clean up after that...what reason???

Should we guys just need to understand gals and let everything just be what it is now or should we fight for our rights?

WOAH!!!
she seems so funny...:mad::mad:
i wish i could write someting bad about her but in marriage affair , i dont want..not nice....;)

wish u the best bro...be strong...
and u must stay healthy... :)

[tanmikel]

We just have a heated quarrel ...
And she told me that she does not have any desire anymore...and she is only mid 30s...
She even said that she feel a hassle making love as she need to clean up after that...what reason???
I think her perspective is very different..
sex to me is intimacy and bb is a bonus
for her
sex with bb is a NO NO...is a hussle...
Should we guys just need to understand gals and let everything just be what it is now or should we fight for our rights?

if my wife like dat , first thing I'll ask her "are you fucking around outside ?" . I don't know how else to be less tackful .

[d_delvoye]

We just have a heated quarrel ...
And she told me that she does not have any desire anymore...and she is only mid 30s...
She even said that she feel a hassle making love as she need to clean up after that...what reason???
I think her perspective is very different..
sex to me is intimacy and bb is a bonus
for her
sex with bb is a NO NO...is a hussle...
Should we guys just need to understand gals and let everything just be what it is now or should we fight for our rights?

Dude, fortunately we r blessed w many "tress" in e forest....
Not to worry, i'm sure things wil turn out rite 1 way or another bro.

[colins]

We just have a heated quarrel ...
And she told me that she does not have any desire anymore...and she is only mid 30s...
She even said that she feel a hassle making love as she need to clean up after that...what reason???
I think her perspective is very different..
sex to me is intimacy and bb is a bonus
for her
sex with bb is a NO NO...is a hussle...
Should we guys just need to understand gals and let everything just be what it is now or should we fight for our rights?

Clearly if she used to like sex, and now she thinks this way, she got real psychological problems. This type of problem is probably worse than unhealthy sperm. In that, you guys need professional counsellor to help talk it out. If she is adamant about it, take it as a strong indication that either your love is much weaker now or she is avoiding sex for very practical reasons (like presence of 3rd party).

Whether its being understanding or like you say, to fight for your rights, will probably aggravate the situation. But maybe you mean either the 'soft' approach or the 'hard' approach. I suggest taking both approaches where required. Soft approach in front of her and her family, seek support for your opinion and action. Hard and practical approach behind the scene. The situation requires you to have much more information, whether it is her lifestyle (stress from work, difference in opinion between you and her) or her preference (social satisfaction from company colleagues and friends, or possibly bf).

Stop any confrontation now, already proved it doesnt help at all. If you treasure her and want to get this right, I sugguest you refrain from taking any leaks outside cos if she or anybody were to find out that you're straying, everything becomes pointless instantaneously.

[nycaloth66]

me thinks your wife is getting her needs satisfied elsewhere or she has fallen for someone else. I mean come on, 30plus woman no sexual needs? UNLESS she has always been like that i.e. low sex drive, never taking the initiative, rather "dead fish" since when she was younger?

[superbia]

Spend some money hire PI follow her ..... just to confirm ..

[titan77]

do u have problem with having baby?

[EtherC]

There are many reasons for aversion to sex eg.

Biological: dry vagina, some women have too little secretion so sex may be painful. No orgasm.

Psychological: she may have widened around the girth over the years and she feels inferior, sick of pretending to have orgasms.

Sociological: extra marital affair

Religious: certain factions demonise sex or require celibacy during certain periods

The best thing would be to talk to her and find out why she doesn't want/like sex. Ask her to be honest about it and let her know its ok to tell you if you're the cause eg you shoot too fast etc. It's not about fighting for rights because it doesn't solve the root cause of the problem. Again good luck!

[darylcch]

We actually has a kid. But she wanted to has another one.
That's the issue...I guessed
It is not I don't want.
Even though we tried for few years, but we only make love 1-2 per month.
Chances of course are reduced...

[EtherC]

I'm sure if you follow your wife's ovulation cycles and improved on your sperm quality it will greatly increase the chance of fertilization. If you want to try for baby then don't masturbate or visit Fl during the period. Sperm quality and quantity are both important. Are you both very stressed out? Maybe try to take a holiday and relax. Once relaxed it will be easier to get into the mood? Good luck man!

[Rice Cooker]

This is interesting. How do we classified unhealthy and healthy sperm?:confused:

[blackeagle10]

Unhealthy sperms cannot swim well and may be deformed without tails and generally not capable of fertilisation. Just check yr balls to see there are tubules or veins protruding out. Dirung ejaculation there may be some blockage preventing yr full load to cum inside yr wife's vagina. If that is the case, you may want to consult yr doctor to see what can be done to correct the situation.

If yr organs are intact, then cut down on smoking , drinking and lead a healthy lifestyle. Doctors can prescribed drugs to cure the condition. These tablets are small like bird seed and taken orally after yr meals. You may experience stiffer erection with this drug but this is not Viagra.

Hope you can be a father soon

[Rice Cooker]

Unhealthy sperms cannot swim well and may be deformed without tails and generally not capable of fertilisation. Just check yr balls to see there are tubules or veins protruding out. Dirung ejaculation there may be some blockage preventing yr full load to cum inside yr wife's vagina. If that is the case, you may want to consult yr doctor to see what can be done to correct the situation.


Hope you can be a father soon

Thanks for the great information.

[taikoelectron]

Unhealthy sperms cannot swim well and may be deformed without tails and generally not capable of fertilisation. Just check yr balls to see there are tubules or veins protruding out. Dirung ejaculation there may be some blockage preventing yr full load to cum inside yr wife's vagina. If that is the case, you may want to consult yr doctor to see what can be done to correct the situation.

If yr organs are intact, then cut down on smoking , drinking and lead a healthy lifestyle. Doctors can prescribed drugs to cure the condition. These tablets are small like bird seed and taken orally after yr meals. You may experience stiffer erection with this drug but this is not Viagra.

Hope you can be a father soon

To share my 2 cents:

The stuff like blackeagle and the many other bros here have said are true. One thing i didn't hear mentioned is coffee. I have a friend who is in a similar situation, but his case maybe sperm QUALITY and not QUANTITY. His doctor said it's because of over dependence / addiction to coffee.

My further advice is to massage your balls regularly to improve blood flow / circulation. A doc. said it's beneficial to give the balls some light stimulation. THis doesn't have to be sexually pleasing, but it is quite a good feeling - try it; tap your balls from below, then roll em around ,etc.

Since your rocket still strong and can deliver the vital fluid, most of the system is in good shape, just have to put more ammunition.

Also part of it is "marketing" if you mention to her "unhealthy sperm" normal human reaction will equate unhealthy = tainted = sick = dirty = avoid
So you have to repackage your product in a different light, tell her it's temporarily low volume, but with lifestyle changes, it will be back to normal.

About your wife not being cooperative, it's another issue...maybe you can find out what turns her on? e.g. get in shape? or recall a time when you guys can't stop lusting for each other and find out what was different then...


I am stranger to you so I'm just typing from what i know, and thanks for sharing, never know when I might be in similar situation.

[darylcch]

I think it depends on the doctor you visited.
Mine just gave me a report and told me that my sperm quality is low and there are no help. just go for his ivf procedure...which will cost 7-8k...
this is not professional and sound to me very salesman talk...

Any bros there have similar as mine and any approved remedy?
I really hope to correct my current problem rather than ignore it...

[Love_Me_Tender]

In order to to get pregnant or to avoid pregnancy, it's helpful to understand the basic facts.

1) Sperm exist in any fluid (other than urine) that a guy releases. So whether it's the lubricating fluid of an aroused male or the full ejaculation during sex, there are millions of sperm in each drop.

2) A full ejaculation can contain hundreds of millions of sperm. There can be around 300 million sperm released in the average sex act.

3) Each sperm is shaped like a tadpole, with a round head and a squiggly tail. The sperm's only motivation is to get into the woman's vagina and uterus, to impregnate an egg.

[darylcch]

Anyone tried to sperm tester availabel in pharmacy?
going to the hospital or clinic is a bit too hassle...I would like to do test on my own..
any recommendation?