Lady Samsters - Questions on Fcukbuddy

[scott999]

I like to seek the opinion of our female forumers.
Constructive feedback are also welcomed from fellow male samsters.
'Destructive' ones also can, but must be very funny lor so that more ladies can come in and read/share.

Q1) Under what circumstances would you consider to have a F***buddy (FB).
Q2) Who do you usually pick as a FB? (Eg, Colleagues, classmates, ONS etc)
Q3) What do you look for and/or expect from a FB?
Q4) If you already have FB(s), what usually pisses you off big time about him/them?
Q5) If you or your FB starts to get serious in love with each other but both of you are attached or married, do you have any backup plans/solutions?

I will also share my reasons for this opinion poll later during the thread and maybe also my experience with FBs. :D

[femm_e]

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Q1) Under what circumstances would you consider to have a F***buddy (FB).
Q2) Who do you usually pick as a FB? (Eg, Colleagues, classmates, ONS etc)
Q3) What do you look for and/or expect from a FB?
Q4) If you already have FB(s), what usually pisses you off big time about him/them?
Q5) If you or your FB starts to get serious in love with each other but both of you are attached or married, do you have any backup plans/solutions?

I will also share my reasons for this opinion poll later during the thread and maybe also my experience with FBs. :D


Q1 = when BF not longer interested to bonk me 5 time a week
Q2 = ONS
Q3 = must be good in bed, if not rather stick to BF
Q4 = asking for $$$
Q5 = FB is fuck and forget.. no long term commitment.

[scott999]

Q1 = when BF not longer interested to bonk me 5 time a week
Q2 = ONS
Q3 = must be good in bed, if not rather stick to BF
Q4 = asking for $$$
Q5 = FB is fuck and forget.. no long term commitment.

I must applaud your swift reply.
Thank you for being the 1st lady sharing with us your precious views/experiences.

[NeoGuy]

Q1 = when BF not longer interested to bonk me 5 time a week
Q2 = ONS
Q3 = must be good in bed, if not rather stick to BF
Q4 = asking for $$$
Q5 = FB is fuck and forget.. no long term commitment.

Yeah i agree with her,
And for the last answer its true for a true FB it needs to be like that, Until now i've unable to get FB to be like that :(

[ChuiTaLan]

Q1) Under what circumstances would you consider to have a F***buddy (FB). - when sex life gets bored n new temptations sets in....

Q2) Who do you usually pick as a FB? (Eg, Colleagues, classmates, ONS etc) - Online, random hp no. (ti-kum ti-kum 5% chances of success)

Q3) What do you look for and/or expect from a FB? - interested in SEX n SEX n SEX n nothing else

Q4) If you already have FB(s), what usually pisses you off big time about him/them? - Gets sticky & possessive

Q5) If you or your FB starts to get serious in love with each other but both of you are attached or married, do you have any backup plans/solutions? - switch off pre-paid HP, or change pre-paid card no. dissappear from her life asap!

[scott999]

Yeah i agree with her,
And for the last answer its true for a true FB it needs to be like that, Until now i've unable to get FB to be like that :(

After all, women and men are all human beings, flesh and blood with feelings.
Feelings/Passion just go out of control sometimes.

I have met FBs that make me feel like, "Hey this is really my kind of gal that i have been looking for!"
Although the physical contact has stopped (this particular one settled down), we became best of pals instead.

Likewise, I have also gotten a shock 2 years back when another ex-FB wanted to cancel her ROM just to be with me.
We only get it going for a month and it sure caught me unexpected.

We must learn to see the warning signs of the other party;
+ constantly remind each other the nature of the FB relationships.

[scott999]

Q5) If you or your FB starts to get serious in love with each other but both of you are attached or married, do you have any backup plans/solutions? - switch off pre-paid HP, or change pre-paid card no. dissappear from her life asap!

Thank you for sharing with us your answers.
Feedback from the male gender will help to shed more insights on this F***Buddy topic.

[ChuiTaLan]

Q1) Under what circumstances would you consider to have a F***buddy (FB). - when sex life gets bored n new temptations sets in....

Q2) Who do you usually pick as a FB? (Eg, Colleagues, classmates, ONS etc) - Online, random hp no. (ti-kum ti-kum 5% chances of success)

Q3) What do you look for and/or expect from a FB? - interested in SEX n SEX n SEX n nothing else

Q4) If you already have FB(s), what usually pisses you off big time about him/them? - Gets sticky & possessive

Q5) If you or your FB starts to get serious in love with each other but both of you are attached or married, do you have any backup plans/solutions? - switch off pre-paid HP, or change pre-paid card no. dissappear from her life asap!

Damn...these sch holidays.....which part of my post here siad im a female???
r these bastards so damn horny that they also want a guy???

see the PMs i got...

HI,
thanks for your speedy input to sex budy thread, do keep me in mind if there are any needs to be satisfied. 24 m here decent looking....
Enjoy your new year's eve and hope to hear frm soon.....

yandoaguy, if u're so fucking horny, go GL n pay $40 n fuck ur brains out! N for FUCK sake, do ur homework b4 posting/PMs any bros here!:mad:

Very impressed with your straightforward and honest
answers !

Haha...I wish I was one of your 5% ones !!

Anyways wish you a Happy New Year !

Regds
Andy

Andy, u wana be the lucky 5%??? u into homo or wat? like ur ass fuck or wat? But too bad im not interested in any male ass's. however, if u still like to b the 5% (make it 100%) i mentioned, i can recomend my gay frens to u, jus PM me ur hp no will do. :D

[the_e_ones]

Bro ChuiTaLan, this is funny, i can't help but laugh (and laugh...). :p

[scott999]

Damn...these sch holidays.....which part of my post here siad im a female???
r these bastards so damn horny that they also want a guy???
see the PMs i got...

ChuiTaLan,
If you already gotten such pms, i think femm_e who posted earlier would have receive even more.
Knew such a thread would also invite along unnecessary attention,
but im sure our lady samsters know how to handle sex spammers.

I think guys who dun bother to read; make lousy bed partners.
If they can't be bother with minor details, chances are they dun care about their partners' needs too.

yandaoguy84 & Singaporn,
Just like going to the loo - Pls 'aim' properly before you 'shoot'.
Best of luck!

[gilagila100]

clap clap clap ...

Really respect the samstress tat did post here lahh ... respect their opinions and their courage for risking their pm boxes full of crap from stoopid lurkers :mad:

As for the samsters tat f**k the stoopid lurkers ... respect respect oso ... ;)

[dirtyhairy]

[QUOTE=scott999;2495078]I like to seek the opinion of our female forumers.
Constructive feedback are also welcomed from fellow male samsters.
'Destructive' ones also can, but must be very funny lor so that more ladies can come in and read/share.

Q1) Under what circumstances would you consider to have a F***buddy (FB).
A1) In hotel line, F&B means Food and Beverages...so when hungry then go for F&B..so when hungry for sex, me look for FB
Q2) Who do you usually pick as a FB? (Eg, Colleagues, classmates, ONS etc)
a2) FB oso means Fabulous Body..so I will pick anyone with a good FB..question is will she let me?
Q3) What do you look for and/or expect from a FB?
A3) FB...Fabulous, fantastic, frequent bonks what else do u expect?
Q4) If you already have FB(s), what usually pisses you off big time about him/them?
A4) When she pisses on me when I do a cunninlingus!
Q5) If you or your FB starts to get serious in love with each other but both of you are attached or married, do you have any backup plans/solutions?
A5) No problem...I will just move on to Dubai, convert to Islam and enjoy privilege to have 4 wives...which means two more akan datang....hehehe:D

[charmicky12]

Not so many lady samsters here leh :confused:

[natsuki]

Happy 2008~~


Q1) Under what circumstances would you consider to have a F***buddy (FB).
Q2) Who do you usually pick as a FB? (Eg, Colleagues, classmates, ONS etc)
Q3) What do you look for and/or expect from a FB?
Q4) If you already have FB(s), what usually pisses you off big time about him/them?
Q5) If you or your FB starts to get serious in love with each other but both of you are attached or married, do you have any backup plans/solutions?


Q1) When i'm not in a mood for money or love... (not possible lo.. lol~)
Q2) FB is long term de rite? Hmmm.... Friends lor... But sadly, i dun like having male frens....
Q3) Handsome and good in bed? Lol....
Q4) When money/love gets involve....
Q5) FB gets seriously in luv with each other??? I tot FB r only frens? Cross tat line, den it's already not FB le ma... Then it's another Level le mah....

Damn...these sch holidays.....which part of my post here siad im a female???
r these bastards so damn horny that they also want a guy???

see the PMs i got...




Cuz u nver stated ur gender in the first post + they r too lazy to read and check ur profile/ postings... ~~ Lol~~~

[inez]

Q1) Under what circumstances would you consider to have a F***buddy (FB).
The last time I had a Full-time FB was the last time I broke up with my then BF. It's been said alot here that women need sex as much as men and there's no reason to stop when single.

Q2) Who do you usually pick as a FB? (Eg, Colleagues, classmates, ONS etc)
I'm quite sociable and being still in Uni, I tend to pick friends 2 orders removed e.g. Friend of a friend of a friend. I do flirt well so I'll get them to ask my number within a 5 minute chat. I did source the last one on my flight here to Australia. An SIA cabin crew. It's great as you'll always have a nice hotel room to do it in. I never take FBs home either. It's either at a hotel or their place.

Q3) What do you look for and/or expect from a FB?
NSA and one who doesn't talk much to others. The last FB I had was perhaps my ideal FB. He had a GF. Travels extensively so I get nice gifts from the world over and yes as cliche as it is: a big cock.

Still though silence on their part is golden.

Q4) If you already have FB(s), what usually pisses you off big time about him/them?
I've had 3 FBs in my life and none of them have never pissed me off.

Q5) If you or your FB starts to get serious in love with each other but both of you are attached or married, do you have any backup plans/solutions?
My father cheated openly and so I'd never get a married man as a FB. My backup plan has always been my dildo but I usually keep a mental list of other guys in the wings. I have always chosen my FBs so as to be certain I'd never love them seriously. My current BF is the complete antithesis of my last FB. If you ask me who's been my best screw, I'd say my FBs were all head and shoulders above my 3 ex-BFs.

[y7u8i9o0]

i enjoyed reading ur earnest reply...welcome to SB forum

cheers
y7

[AfA_hmor]

fuck buddy or ons.
just remember to use condoms and get tested regularly.
take it as a preventive measure, to avoid the hassle of pregnancy, STIs, HIV/AIDS, etc.. :)

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[lacoruna69]

fuck buddy or ons.
just remember to use condoms and get tested regularly.
take it as a preventive measure, to avoid the hassle of pregnancy, STIs, HIV/AIDS, etc..


You are wasting your time. Using a condom is consider low-class and dirty for them.
Unlike me (a low-down dirty uncouth Sinkie male who had to resort to paying $ for sex with equally considered as low-class pros), I always use a CAP. Not just any brand, must be my trusted D***X brand.:D

[everywhere]

durex is definitely the most steady one. but my favourite is the one not available in singapore (or is it available now?)... TROJAN! the super thin version is damn good, as if not wearing any.

i only had 1 fuck buddy in my life, and she was a primary school classmate. she went overseas for studies many years ago but comes back regularly for vacation. since she went overseas, she became very sexually liberal and one thing led to another, we became fuck buddies whenever she came back. we stopped doing that a while ago already, apparently she found a part-time boyfriend, who is the best friend of her sister's boyfriend (yes they have very complicated relationship). but it was good while it lasted. i'm planning to write the whole story down soon in a new thread.

[block11]

i guess most of the girls don't dare to reply. scared their pm will explode. hahaha..... maybe they can pm their feedback to the TS and he post here? :D

[scott999]

[COLOR="magenta"]Q1) When i'm not in a mood for money or love... (not possible lo.. lol~)
Q2) FB is long term de rite? Hmmm.... Friends lor... But sadly, i dun like having male frens....
Q3) Handsome and good in bed? Lol....
Q4) When money/love gets involve....
Q5) FB gets seriously in luv with each other??? I tot FB r only frens? Cross tat line, den it's already not FB le ma... Then it's another Level le mah....

Thank you for sharing with us your views.

Based on yr thread of 80 pages of FRs, dun think you will ever need a FB.
And if you do, i think you can get a different one every other Monday, Tuesday, Wedne......

[Safsa]

TRs, dun think you will ever need a FB.
And if you do, i think you can get a different one every other Monday, Tuesday, Wedne......

And best is still got $$$ to collect. :D
But sometime do pity those lady... when guy horny, there are so many options for him to go release his sperm, GL, HC, TN, FL..
But for lady, not much option.
In Taiwan, there is the famous DUCK SHOP, dunno when will Singapore have a Duck Shop :D

[scott999]

Q2) Who do you usually pick as a FB? (Eg, Colleagues, classmates, ONS etc)
I'm quite sociable and being still in Uni, I tend to pick friends 2 orders removed e.g. Friend of a friend of a friend. I do flirt well so I'll get them to ask my number within a 5 minute chat. I did source the last one on my flight here to Australia. An SIA cabin crew. It's great as you'll always have a nice hotel room to do it in. I never take FBs home either. It's either at a hotel or their place.


Enjoyed your comprehensive answers.
It is with delight and pleasure to be able to 'hunt' and get 'hunted'.

[scott999]

fuck buddy or ons.
just remember to use condoms and get tested regularly.
take it as a preventive measure, to avoid the hassle of pregnancy, STIs, HIV/AIDS, etc..

I totally agree with you on this point.

One of my previous FB and I went to test for STD and HIV just to set our mind at ease.
It was one of the best decisions made.

After test results, we were both 'careful' and 'honest' with each other, should we have new partners.

If only both sexes are liberal enough to seek mutual consent to regular checks.

[scott999]

i guess most of the girls don't dare to reply. scared their pm will explode. hahaha..... maybe they can pm their feedback to the TS and he post here? :D
Based on the feedback and pms so far,
you will be surprised to know that our fellow lady samsters are not that vulnerable or intimidated easily.

Definitely not our typical/average type of sg gals who are predictable and often incomprehensible (esp. when they always say one thing but mean another).
If they (resident female forumers) want to Fcuk, you dun need to score the highway code just to read their signs.

I must say that our ladies here are bold, selective and have similar needs like everyone of us.
Just that they prefer to take a 'back seat' and let the man do all the 'driving' sometimes.

Well, luckily i like to 'drive'. :D

[AfA_hmor]

In Taiwan, there is the famous DUCK SHOP, dunno when will Singapore have a Duck Shop :D

Are you sure you want to service old fat aunties with smelly hairy pussy? and sagging tits? wrinkly skin? for $40? and she must cum?

[thisisme]

Q1) Under what circumstances would you consider to have a F***buddy (FB).
>> when life seems so normal, and hit by temptation.

Q2) Who do you usually pick as a FB? (Eg, Colleagues, classmates, ONS etc)
>> ONS - YES YES
>> Colleagues - NO NO (had bad experience)
>> classmates - maybe

Q3) What do you look for and/or expect from a FB?
>> nothing, only SEX

Q4) If you already have FB(s), what usually pisses you off big time about him/them?
>> asking me if I love them

Q5) If you or your FB starts to get serious in love with each other but both of you are attached or married, do you have any backup plans/solutions?
>> never cross the line. no back-up plans.

[thisisme]

Damn...these sch holidays.....which part of my post here siad im a female???
r these bastards so damn horny that they also want a guy???

see the PMs i got...
:D

greatest joke of 2007

[ahpaul25]

But for lady, not much option.
In Taiwan, there is the famous DUCK SHOP, dunno when will Singapore have a Duck Shop :D

Singapore actually have...it shown in tv ma....there a agent for it, I remember it $300/2hr...In china,beijing also have sure duck agent...I also have their pic, very normal looking leh, somemore is popular duck, can't believe it, the standard.....aaaaaaaaaa...nothing to say. :D

[scott999]

Sorry for the late reply to pm(s);
just got back from overseas.

Those who pm me to share my new Fcukbuddy,
sorry i cunt.

To me, FB is just like a gf minus the commitment.
No one shares their own gf with others rite?
Same here.

Unless she wants a threesome, then maybe its a totally different thing altogether.
But it will be a f-f-m instead of a m-m-f combination instead. :D

[medicheng]

I have 2 fb... haha... please say first i am a GUY.

One is a married woman who is never happy with her sex life, and one is a post poly graduate...

All no commitment, if they wan I will practically jus ignore. Coz the rule one for FB game, no commitments...

[tissue]

Q1) Under what circumstances would you consider to have a F***buddy (FB). If sex with regular partner is not satisfying or gets very routine and boring or no sex for an extended period of time
Q2) Who do you usually pick as a FB? (Eg, Colleagues, classmates, ONS etc) Never ONS because there is no guarantee of returning the favour i.e, not ensuring the lady comes 1st before they come. Sometimes friends, sometimes acquaintances, depending on who is available at that time.

Q3) What do you look for and/or expect from a FB? Good sex, pure heavenly mind blowing, lip smacking, sweat dripping, heart thumping sex!
Q4) If you already have FB(s), what usually pisses you off big time about him/them? Trying to make the FB relationship more than what it actually is.

Q5) If you or your FB starts to get serious in love with each other but both of you are attached or married, do you have any backup plans/solutions? End the relationship. No families should be hurt while the individuals are having fun. The individuals should suffer, not the family or partners.


DO NOT PM ME. ALL SLEAZY PMs WILL BE PUBLISHED HERE!

Cheers

[Scotchlite91]

To now, i only have 1 FB. But we both know that its impossible to be together. I am married, she is attached. But recently she broke off with her bf. I become abit cautious abt my presence as too much care and concern might end up the WRONG WAY.

So to protect myself, i cut down smses and meetup. But everytime we met, we def make out in the hotel.

At least now i am still sure that she is mature enuff to know WE ARE IMPOSSIBLE. hahaa.....

Phewsss.

[scott999]

DO NOT PM ME. ALL SLEAZY PMs WILL BE PUBLISHED HERE!
To Tissue and fellow ladies who are generous to share your views + vocal guy samsters,

Allow me to up my +3 humble points to u; one at a time.

Do publish the nicks here; should u get any form of soliciting.
I will not hesitate to zap.
(Honestly i rather upz ppl for positive contribution, so dun waste these points)

Thank y'all once again for sharing with yr FB comments.
I am constantly relearning how to be a good fcukbuddy.

Hope so have you. :)

[Eternity_Gal]

Q1) Under what circumstances would you consider to have a F***buddy (FB).

Is that FCUK BUDDY a real Buddy? In no circumstances would my buddy try to get into my pants. I would want that FB to be a good friend instead.

Q2) Who do you usually pick as a FB? (Eg, Colleagues, classmates, ONS etc)

Why should I pick from these pple like colleagues, classmates? Why not they come and pick me as a FB?

Q3) What do you look for and/or expect from a FB?

Intiative to Help. Kind like a Rabbit. Expect them to do volunteer works, like offering their help to elderly and orphanages.

Q4) If you already have FB(s), what usually pisses you off big time about him/them?

NIL....

Q5) If you or your FB starts to get serious in love with each other but both of you are attached or married, do you have any backup plans/solutions?

Serious in Love? That's good, and end my singleton.. haha

[shag_fest]

Hi bro TS,

I juz started a thread on my FB experiences and found this thread u started...
but FIRSTLY, b4 i get unnecessary PMs, im a 30 year-old GUY. TYVM!

a lil info abt me. ive had 3 FBs so far n i still maintian 1 rite now. the 3 "silent understandings" of a FBs for me are -

1. both are in it to pleasure each other with mutual consent
2. u can hv yr own partners ie. steady bf, husband etc... n i can hv mine too
3. don get jealous, start develop feelings & etc betwn us

n bro, here r my ans....

Q1) Under what circumstances would you consider to have a F***buddy (FB)
wen she comes back for more, never ask abt us gettin into a rship, enjoys pleasuring each other with no strings attached...


Q2) Who do you usually pick as a FB? (Eg, Colleagues, classmates, ONS etc)
my 1st one was frm an internet networking, 2nd was an old sec sch mate, current one i met in a club...


Q3) What do you look for and/or expect from a FB?
to agree with my 3 "silent understandings" as above


Q4) If you already have FB(s), what usually pisses you off big time about him/them?
my 2nd one started to be sticky, calls me up more often n started to be jealous of me wen i go out wif other gals...dat was it. got to end it :o


Q5) If you or your FB starts to get serious in love with each other but both of you are attached or married, do you have any backup plans/solutions?
N.A to me. im single ;)


i hope i contribute in keeping this thread goin... Thx bro Scott999 :D

[evilknight]

Hi

Such an interesting topic but too bad not many contributions from the ladies.
i don't quite like term FB though sounds crude and makes us sound like some bitch. can anyone come up with an alternative term.

myself, very limited experience
basically, the same stuff as most of the people here.
no committment, colleagues, don't talk too much, asked for money...
this sort of stuff. very standard.

a good day to all of you.

[scott999]

a lil info abt me. ive had 3 FBs so far n i still maintian 1 rite now. the 3 "silent understandings" of a FBs for me are -

1. both are in it to pleasure each other with mutual consent
2. u can hv yr own partners ie. steady bf, husband etc... n i can hv mine too
3. don get jealous, start develop feelings & etc betwn us



Thank you for your valuable contribution.
Masculine view points are also essential to this informative thread.

Not only the men here can learn and understand FB relationships better,
lady samsters can also get to know the guy's views on this matter.

[scott999]

i don't quite like term FB though sounds crude and makes us sound like some bitch. can anyone come up with an alternative term.

Us sound like some Bitch???

Eh, how about FB change to = Playmate?:D

[shag_fest]

Us sound like some Bitch???

Eh, how about FB change to = Playmate?:D

playmate sounds good. not crude at all. or PP - Pleasure Partner :p

[tomvoyeur]

PP - Pleasure Partner

PP = Play Pal?? :)

[s1.w3n.b41.l31]

Hi

Such an interesting topic but too bad not many contributions from the ladies.
i don't quite like term FB though sounds crude and makes us sound like some bitch. can anyone come up with an alternative term.

myself, very limited experience
basically, the same stuff as most of the people here.
no committment, colleagues, don't talk too much, asked for money...
this sort of stuff. very standard.

a good day to all of you.

well, the common term to use will be "Friends with Benefits".

A matter of personal opinion, I thought ONSes don't really count as FBs, as they are really just fire-and-forget. To me, FBs are long-term, no strings attached kinda relationships.

Just my 2 cents. :D goodnight

[_AXL_]

PP = Play Pal??

later end up paypal...:p

well, the common term to use will be "Friends with Benefits".

someone is watching boston legal...:D

biggest issue of a playpal, friends with benefits, pleasure partners is that it will become emotional after a while... thus, dont think it would be a good idea to have a regular one. but then again, maybe it is just me. cheers.

[js0n]

Shall share my point of view with regards to this questions, as i jus acquired a buddy. I am a 27 male. Hope my answers wouldnt piss any1 off. :)



Q1) Under what circumstances would you consider to have a F***buddy (FB).
Ans: When small head rules the big 1.

Q2) Who do you usually pick as a FB? (Eg, Colleagues, classmates, ONS etc)

Ans:Some1 who enjoys sex with me?but b4 going to bed..hmm..Long hair n nice body..no odour?

Q3) What do you look for and/or expect from a FB?

Ans:She ned not possess a degree in sexology or able to finish a sex marathon...basic needs = jus love sex.Just do it. =)

Q4) If you already have FB(s), what usually pisses you off big time about him/them?

Ans:When she start to ask me out when i am attending meetings in office!!

Q5) If you or your FB starts to get serious in love with each other but both of you are attached or married, do you have any backup plans/solutions?

Ans:Time to say Good bye.Kudos!

[lustsDevils]

Q1) Under what circumstances would you consider to have a F***buddy (FB).
Ans: When I'm Single, can't get good sex or I'm down in mood and need someone to hug and kiss.

Q2) Who do you usually pick as a FB? (Eg, Colleagues, classmates, ONS etc)

Ans: I would prefer someone whom I know from elsewhere surely not colleagues.

Q3) What do you look for and/or expect from a FB?

Ans: Just purely Hugz , Kisses and Sex

Q4) If you already have FB(s), what usually pisses you off big time about her/them?

Ans: Do you love me? (Already say FB le mah so can't have love involve. At Times , I believe FB is also sometone you can have a shoulder to lean on when you are down)

Q5) If you or your FB starts to get serious in love with each other but both of you are attached or married, do you have any backup plans/solutions?

Ans: Nv think before cos nv have a FB experience before.


Overall , I believe most people have FB here except me I believe so I can't comment much on this. But in my own opinion, I still want my FB to be discreet. Hope I will have one, one of these days too. Good luck to me then.

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[Almond]

Sorry...
Fuck Buddies not my cup of tea.
Have had a few in the past but always ended up wanting to get emotionally involved..... One sided.
Therefore stopped doing that.

ONS... not my cup of tea either...

[singexpat]

Us sound like some Bitch???

Eh, how about FB change to = Playmate?

hw abt 床友?

sounds more harmless..:D

[bangbangben]

I think... most woman won't wanna be classed as a Fcukbuddy, vice versa.

I think... a "companion" is the norm word. But how intense this companionship gets is another issue.
:D

[Rocko2008]

Hi ladies, just curious, if a gal knows that u are married and yet mentioned that she is ok with going out with a married man, does it mean she is interested? Also, does it mean sex is on the card if she does not reject meetin u up late at night at some quiet spot? Thks a lot

[XboxSG]

I think... most woman won't wanna be classed as a Fcukbuddy, vice versa.

I think... a "companion" is the norm word. But how intense this companionship gets is another issue.
:D
Companion is definitely a better word than FB

[scott999]

Sorry...
Fuck Buddies not my cup of tea.
Have had a few in the past but always ended up wanting to get emotionally involved..... One sided.
Therefore stopped doing that.

ONS... not my cup of tea either...

So its FL or HC now?

Emotionally involvement was why i quit FBs 2 years back.
Went for FLs instead - Pay, shoot and thats about it.

But now, going back to FB again.
Found a good one.

[shag_fest]

Hi ladies, just curious, if a gal knows that u are married and yet mentioned that she is ok with going out with a married man, does it mean she is interested? Also, does it mean sex is on the card if she does not reject meetin u up late at night at some quiet spot? Thks a lot


firstly, im NOT a lady...n im not married. juz a bro who wana share my own experiences...to yr questions, both are yes. i have a gf n my FB knows dat but she still wana meet me n carry on our liaisons... n 2ndly, if a gal doesn't object to u bringing her to a quiet spot, means she's OK with it n the idea of sex/quickie... hope i shed some light for u... my 2 cents. cheers~:cool:

[Redeemer81]

I think... most woman won't wanna be classed as a Fcukbuddy, vice versa.

I think... a "companion" is the norm word. But how intense this companionship gets is another issue.
:D

Normally I call them "bed-warmers". You can't get emotionally attached to your lava lamp or heater can you?

[shag_fest]

I think... most woman won't wanna be classed as a Fcukbuddy, vice versa.

I think... a "companion" is the norm word. But how intense this companionship gets is another issue.
:D

wel bro, my currenf fuckbuddy doesn't mind being labelled as an FB. she calls me her FB too... i knw its a bit crude, but in reality, we meet to fuck n we r definitely close like best frens n thus, buddies... juz my sharing ;)

[tomvoyeur]

wel bro, my currenf fuckbuddy doesn't mind being labelled as an FB. she calls me her FB too... i knw its a bit crude, but in reality, we meet to fuck n we r definitely close like best frens n thus, buddies... juz my sharing

Thats a real FB. Its like a male buddy but with 'bedwarming' functions. ;)

[scott999]

Think it would be appropriate to revive this thread for Valentines Day.
Sometimes it is really hard to celebrate this special day with so many special ones. :D

To those who are single, fret not.
You have the whole species as your menu; you can choose and pick.
Like i have said before, "It is good to hunt than to be hunted."

To those who are stuck with someone you dun really want,
read this whole thread; contribute, share & learn at the same time.

I like to seek the opinion of our female forumers.
Constructive feedback are also welcomed from fellow male samsters.
'Destructive' ones also can, but must be very funny lor so that more ladies can come in and read/share.

Q1) Under what circumstances would you consider to have a F***buddy (FB).
Q2) Who do you usually pick as a FB? (Eg, Colleagues, classmates, ONS etc)
Q3) What do you look for and/or expect from a FB?
Q4) If you already have FB(s), what usually pisses you off big time about him/them?
Q5) If you or your FB starts to get serious in love with each other but both of you are attached or married, do you have any backup plans/solutions?



To those who contributed and i haven up, sometimes just couldnt get yr latest post.
Pls pm me yr latest post; happy valentine's day to y'all!

[best123]

I have to spend this day with my wife.....

[tomvoyeur]

To those who are single, fret not.
You have the whole species as your menu; you can choose and pick.
Like i have said before, "It is good to hunt than to be hunted."

M&A logic has a totally different saying bro - its better to be hunted than to be the hunter. ;)

[natsuki]

M&A logic has a totally different saying bro - its better to be hunted than to be the hunter. ;)

Hahah... Yes agree on the highlighted words above.... Hunting for targets around might make it jus seems to be so despo.... Be hunted is better bah... At least not so tiring... I think... :)

[Heavenly Sword]

Sometimes it is really hard to celebrate this special day with so many special ones. :D


You said it! Sometimes it is best not to get attached but easier said than done after all we are mere mortals.

Even 2 special ones also damn hard to decide sia. Lucky for me this year all not in town! :D

[tomvoyeur]

Hahah... Yes agree on the highlighted words above.... Hunting for targets around might make it jus seems to be so despo.... Be hunted is better bah... At least not so tiring... I think...

Being a hunter does not mean despo la, I like women making the 1st move instead of acting coy. Demostrate to me that she knows what she wants. Confident woment oozes sex appeal. :)

[lonelybro]

I think both parties must know what they want and what it is, just pleasure & company. not the clingy & sticky stuff.

[scott999]

Being a hunter does not mean despo la, I like women making the 1st move instead of acting coy. Demostrate to me that she knows what she wants. Confident woment oozes sex appeal. :)

Great minds think alike! :D

[lglg666]

Btw....I am a guy hahaha and thanks to the TS and those who contributed their views and experiences here in this thread, I now realised that I have crossed the line for on Question 4 and 5 for being a FB to my close friend ( a married lady )...for falling in love with her and getting jealous whenever she didn't drop me a line for a few days ( 3 to 4 days and my mind goes crazy ). Guess...I must have pissed her off by my actions - "cringy / jealous / prosessive" if she does these to me, I will be damn pissed too.

No wonder too....my mood is so rotten lately becoz she was so tied down with her work ( btw she is a sec sch teacher - already a tough job plus the fact she has 3 children to worry about )

Thanks to this thread....now I know that it is my fault for being cringy / jealous / prosessive :o and that I am a lousy FB to her and that I better "wake-up" my ideas before losing her altogether.

My FB....is like a soulmate to me for the past 3 years, we can share everything until lately.

Not too late...to wake up and take control of the situation before it gets worst and out of my hands!!!

[natsuki]

Being a hunter does not mean despo la, I like women making the 1st move instead of acting coy. Demostrate to me that she knows what she wants. Confident woment oozes sex appeal. :)

Yes, i get ur point. However, sometimes some guys wanna be a hunter yet their behavior works the opp way... And yes, confident may make some things work out. However, one couldn't be too confident. Sometimes the person who is confident may just seem to behave well (to themselve), but they wun know wad others(referring to those tat they wanna hook) will think or see them as/in.... :)

[tomvoyeur]

Great minds think alike!

Cheers mate! :)

Yes, i get ur point. However, sometimes some guys wanna be a hunter yet their behavior works the opp way... And yes, confident may make some things work out. However, one couldn't be too confident. Sometimes the person who is confident may just seem to behave well (to themselve), but they wun know wad others(referring to those tat they wanna hook) will think or see them as/in....

Overconfidence is arrogance. Thats always a big turnoff for most ppl. But I believe what u r refering to is insensitvity. Confidence does not necessarily means insensitivity. They r 2 diff traits and may not overlap.

Overall, I prefer ppl who do not take themselves too seriously. Confident and fun-loving creatures who r out to enjoy life. That does not apply to most locals n perhaps thats the reason why I m stuck in single lane....;)

[ChuiTaLan]

Hmm....another lazy bastard who dun OPEN their fucking eyes when they read...

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from dn360

hi

Nice post... Can i be your FB?
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here's my reply for dn360 in PM

Sure! provided u have a piar of at least B size boobs, a nicely shave pussy, and allow backdoor entry.

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O, this reply/requirement is oso for all who wana pm me to b my FB, make sure u have all those b4 u pm me. :D
Accepting PMs now. :D

[Bronco]

Bro, upz ur pts...hahahaha..:D

Hmm....another lazy bastard who dun OPEN their fucking eyes when they read...

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from dn360

hi

Nice post... Can i be your FB?
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here's my reply for dn360 in PM

Sure! provided u have a piar of at least B size boobs, a nicely shave pussy, and allow backdoor entry.

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O, this reply/requirement is oso for all who wana pm me to b my FB, make sure u have all those b4 u pm me. :D
Accepting PMs now. :D

[scott999]

Before ChuiTaLan or any other female samsters get another soliciting pm,
Please note that this thread is suppose to be informative and not applicative.

Maybe i should start another thread on "How to get Fcukbuddy".
Pm-ing 'ChuiTaLan' will definitely get you nothing unless u got a pussy. :D

[scott999]

Thanks to this thread....now I know that it is my fault for being cringy / jealous / prosessive :o and that I am a lousy FB to her and that I better "wake-up" my ideas before losing her altogether.

My FB....is like a soulmate to me for the past 3 years, we can share everything until lately.

Not too late...to wake up and take control of the situation before it gets worst and out of my hands!!!

Thanks for sharing with us your FB experience.
Hope things will work out the way you want it to be.

I leave you with this personal quote of mine,
"Enjoy while it last and enjoy while you can."

[ChuiTaLan]

Before ChuiTaLan or any other female samsters get another soliciting pm,
Please note that this thread is suppose to be informative and not applicative.

Maybe i should start another thread on "How to get Fcukbuddy".
Pm-ing 'ChuiTaLan' will definitely get you nothing unless u got a pussy.

Bro....no wonder those PM stop coming in....Thxs for the clarification.
hmm....ok...AS LONG AS U HAVE A REAL PUSSY (NOT HUMAN-MAKE TYPE), PLS PM ME IF U NEED A FB :D

[lightning]

[QUOTE=scott999;2495078]I like to seek the opinion of our female forumers.
Constructive feedback are also welcomed from fellow male samsters.
'Destructive' ones also can, but must be very funny lor so that more ladies can come in and read/share.

A5) No problem...I will just move on to Dubai, convert to Islam and enjoy privilege to have 4 wives...which means two more akan datang....hehehe:D

Sure or not you wanna get ur cock skin cut off and not eating pork 4 ur rest of ur life? worth it or not but i also want 4 wives, not at the expense of these 2 privlieges:D

[scott999]

Bro....no wonder those PM stop coming in....Thxs for the clarification.

And if you do get another soliciting PM,
I think many of us will be really Chui-Ta-Lan (Hokkien for dumbfounded). :D

Somehow i just got a feeling that PMs to you will not stop one...
Your Avatar too seducing liaoz... We'll see... hehe

[ChuiTaLan]

And if you do get another soliciting PM,
I think many of us will be really Chui-Ta-Lan (Hokkien for dumbfounded). :D

Somehow i just got a feeling that PMs to you will not stop one...
Your Avatar too seducing liaoz... We'll see... hehe

Arr....now i know y im getting all the wrong attention/PMs....
mayb i sud replace my avatar wif a guy in that same position...wif a brief
will tat get sistas samsters to sent me PMs asking me to b their FBs? :D

[alligator]

[QUOTE=dirtyhairy;2496413]

Sure or not you wanna get ur cock skin cut off and not eating pork 4 ur rest of ur life? worth it or not but i also want 4 wives, not at the expense of these 2 privlieges:D

Actually those who convert to Islam, some of them still eat prok, just dont let their in-laws know. They convert for practical reasons and nothing else ... not like Cat Stevens.

[hawksbay]

Hmm....another lazy bastard who dun OPEN their fucking eyes when they read...

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from dn360

hi

Nice post... Can i be your FB?
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here's my reply for dn360 in PM

Sure! provided u have a piar of at least B size boobs, a nicely shave pussy, and allow backdoor entry.

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O, this reply/requirement is oso for all who wana pm me to b my FB, make sure u have all those b4 u pm me. :D
Accepting PMs now. :D

i think its ur avatar la ha ha ha ha ha :D can t stop laughing:D

[ChuiTaLan]

Damn...those PMs jus keep cuming in.....
This 1....his hands is faster then his brain... :D
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jrbecker99:

Hi

I like your response re FB and would like to see if we could become FB. No need for you to random dial hp mah.

So what can i say to make you interested? what do you want to know about me?

I love licking pussys and make the girls cum and cum. They tell me i am very good in bed and i am fortunate i got a big cock. no bull , for a chinese its big!

write to me say hullo and see what it leads to. a very good time i hope.

jrbecker99
jrbecker99@*******.***

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ops forget it (my earlier pm) , u are a bloke. sorry

jrbecker99

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Sigh....wats wrong wif these guys????:confused:

[NeoGuy]

Damn...those PMs jus keep cuming in.....
This 1....his hands is faster then his brain... :D
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jrbecker99:

Hi

I like your response re FB and would like to see if we could become FB. No need for you to random dial hp mah.

So what can i say to make you interested? what do you want to know about me?

I love licking pussys and make the girls cum and cum. They tell me i am very good in bed and i am fortunate i got a big cock. no bull , for a chinese its big!

write to me say hullo and see what it leads to. a very good time i hope.

jrbecker99
jrbecker99@*******.***

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ops forget it (my earlier pm) , u are a bloke. sorry

jrbecker99

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Sigh....wats wrong wif these guys????:confused:

Haha you should be happy you now have more choices in your list :D :cool:

[NeoGuy]

I finally decided to contribute my past experience of my FB
i'm a 26 yrs old GUY

Q1) Under what circumstances would you consider to have a F***buddy (FB)
wen i don't feel satisfy with my gf. Plus enjoys the pleasure of having sex with no strings attached...


Q2) Who do you usually pick as a FB? (Eg, Colleagues, classmates, ONS etc)
My 2 FB i had before i came to sg i met them online.


Q3) What do you look for and/or expect from a FB?
Very good in bed and who knows how to sextify me in bed plus totally fine with me being attached. ;)


Q4) If you already have FB(s), what usually pisses you off big time about him/them?
If they started to be jealous of me and try to make our escapade become a serious relation as bf and gf.


Q5) If you or your FB starts to get serious in love with each other but both of you are attached or married, do you have any backup plans/solutions?
Yups time to change FB :D

[SiberianTiger]

the replies to yr post are hiliarious.

so, what hv you concluded :confused:

waiting for u to share.

personally, i think it boils down to chemistry :p

[hornyshitznits]

Young Chinese Male here, do not pm me with your lust, unless you're a girl.

Q1) Under what circumstances would you consider to have a F***buddy (FB).
I had two concurrent fuck-buddies and one of them live two streets away from me.
When I'm horny, and/or bored, no matter what, the pussy is wayyyyyyyy better than Mrs Palmer and her five daughters.

Q2) Who do you usually pick as a FB? (Eg, Colleagues, classmates, ONS etc)
I wished I could pick neighbours, albeit the inconvenience of being too convenient (when she calls, it's more obligatory than not)
But the fuck buddies I had were friends of friends, and classmates. I would suggest or advise against having ONS as a fuck buddy, unless the one time you guys had sex, and it was enough to break your back.

Q3) What do you look for and/or expect from a FB?
SEX?? usually a nice ass, but the bonus here, is chemistry. If there is some form of connection between both parties, I don't see why being a fuck buddy and a friend at the same time would be a problem.

Q4) If you already have FB(s), what usually pisses you off big time about him/them?
When they get too sticky, sex is sex, the emotions should be always kept at bay, or rather, there should not be any emotions above the line to begin with.

Q5) If you or your FB starts to get serious in love with each other but both of you are attached or married, do you have any backup plans/solutions?

The above situation should never happen, both parties should be matured enough to have a FB, whether or not, the line should clearly be drawn.

cheers:)

[Blue_gal]

Q1) Under what circumstances would you consider to have a F***buddy (FB).When the "cat" need to be "fed", especially after 1st time "CAT" "tasted" it, "she" will wanna to have MORE..keke..

but back then Aunt|e used to has 2 FBs very active, now Aunt|e "golden basin washed CAT" liao..no contact anymore..guess all bz with their life :D
Q2) Who do you usually pick as a FB? (Eg, Colleagues, classmates, ONS etc)
From Friends to FB, choose carefully dun wanna to lose a friendship..well, you can tell the differences, once you started to hit it on...
Q3) What do you look for and/or expect from a FB?
LUST
Q4) If you already have FB(s), what usually pisses you off big time about him/them?
NO issue on this as both of us understood what we wanna... very direct...
Q5) If you or your FB starts to get serious in love with each other but both of you are attached or married, do you have any backup plans/solutions?
Never happened, as we know the "GAME RULES"...

tots of the past, its really bring back the LUST memories, well never regretted ..I WAS ONCE YOUNG BEFORE out to PLAY kekekek...

[scott999]

tots of the past, its really bring back the LUST memories, well never regretted ..I WAS ONCE YOUNG BEFORE out to PLAY kekekek...

Well, if your 'CAT' decides to dump that golden basin and start feasting,
i know many samsters here has got loads to feed.

Thank you for sharing with us your tongue-in-cheek experiences on the topic, Blue_gal.

From your answers,
I think you'll be a perfect FB... just like me! :D

[vixxxen]

I like to seek the opinion of our female forumers.
Constructive feedback are also welcomed from fellow male samsters.
'Destructive' ones also can, but must be very funny lor so that more ladies can come in and read/share.

Q1) Under what circumstances would you consider to have a F***buddy (FB).
Q2) Who do you usually pick as a FB? (Eg, Colleagues, classmates, ONS etc)
Q3) What do you look for and/or expect from a FB?
Q4) If you already have FB(s), what usually pisses you off big time about him/them?
Q5) If you or your FB starts to get serious in love with each other but both of you are attached or married, do you have any backup plans/solutions?

I will also share my reasons for this opinion poll later during the thread and maybe also my experience with FBs. :D

Q1- simple when i need to spice up my sex life
Q2- someone online, but must go thorough check of his back ground and personality. Someone whom you can chat with for quite sometime before hitting the sack.
Q3- Pleasing personality, funny, and most of all VERY HORNY
Q4- When he says all of a sudden that he wants you Exclusive, sure i have no issues with that. But it becomes an issue when he doesnt include you in his games.
Q5- Nice question! We rather remain lovers for life, besidesyou have decided to marry someone, so be it, accept your real partners' weaknesses, tantrums and all, marrying someone means you have accepted them into your life, whether they are perfect or imperfect. I would only make plans if both of our partners choose to leave us in a natural way..

[BigInStone]

I am just curious though.How exactly do you go about proposing to a lady to be your FB???

I mean u dun juz walk up and say"hey i think we kinda clicked back there wanna go fuck and see if we can be FB later?"

I keep having the impression that most ladies are turn off with the idea that guys have nothing but sex in their minds.or I am mixing with the wrong crowd??

The ladies i have met are mostly decent women(at least on the outside),the fact that they fuck around is,quite frankly, the last thing that comes to my mind.

On another note,does having a car somehow makes finding a Fb easier?or being a party animal up the chances of finding one??

[sadbuttrue]

I am a guy. Currently feeling down and sad.

Q5) If you or your FB starts to get serious in love with each other but both of you are attached or married, do you have any backup plans/solutions?

Facing this issue now, and it's really not something easy to let go. Hearts are made of flesh after all, not metal.

I dun even consider her as FB, but more. We love each other and would have been bf/gf or even married now if wasn't for the fact that when we started out years we're both attached. In between, she broke off with her bf and became more dependent on me but she never pressured me to break off with my gf, she just say that if next time i ever become single again she'll be my gf. Both of us treated each other very good (like bf/gf) and the sex was great.

Now I am about to be married and she has just found a new bf which sticks to her like superglue making it impossible for us to find time together. We still love each other and still manage to find some time to meet. But it's hard for both of us now, her accepting that i be married and me accepting that she busy with bf and moving on.

I wish can marry 2 women, but she says even if my gf agree she won't agree, say i greedy want 2 wife, lol.

So to me, having real love can be painful like in this case, but it is also a wonderful experience at the same time, as having someone that love u+care for u+good sex is better than just good sex.

[LilyLim68]

Q1) Under what circumstances would you consider to have a F***buddy (FB).
When my Husband allows.
Q2) Who do you usually pick as a FB? (Eg, Colleagues, classmates, ONS etc)
Pubs.
Q3) What do you look for and/or expect from a FB?
Sex.
Q4) If you already have FB(s), what usually pisses you off big time about him/them?
Bragging.
Q5) If you or your FB starts to get serious in love with each other but both of you are attached or married, do you have any backup plans/solutions?
Don't know.

[LilyLim68]

Q1) Under what circumstances would you consider to have a F***buddy (FB).
When my Husband Allows.
Q2) Who do you usually pick as a FB? (Eg, Colleagues, classmates, ONS etc)
ONS.
Q3) What do you look for and/or expect from a FB?
Sex.
Q4) If you already have FB(s), what usually pisses you off big time about him/them?
Bragging/ Telling everyone.
Q5) If you or your FB starts to get serious in love with each other but both of you are attached or married, do you have any backup plans/solutions?
Nope.

[goodpartner]

hw abt 床友?

sounds more harmless..:D

I think... most woman won't wanna be classed as a Fcukbuddy, vice versa.

I think... a "companion" is the norm word. But how intense this companionship gets is another issue.
:D

Companion is definitely a better word than FB

What about good partner?

Just supporting bro's thread here... haha...good thread.
Upz :D:p

[ekemono]

Q1) Under what circumstances would you consider to have a F***buddy (FB).
Q2) Who do you usually pick as a FB? (Eg, Colleagues, classmates, ONS etc)
Q3) What do you look for and/or expect from a FB?
Q4) If you already have FB(s), what usually pisses you off big time about him/them?
Q5) If you or your FB starts to get serious in love with each other but both of you are attached or married, do you have any backup plans/solutions?


Q1> not attached
Q2> ONS, friends
Q3> good sex, can hold conversation well
Q4> sugerglue, stalker
Q5> not at the moment

My FB's going back to China this October, and she ask me for a baby cos she wants to keep memories of me. WTF :confused:

[funsg]

Young Chinese Male here, do not pm me with your lust, unless you're a girl.

Q1) Under what circumstances would you consider to have a F***buddy (FB).
I had two concurrent fuck-buddies and one of them live two streets away from me.
When I'm horny, and/or bored, no matter what, the pussy is wayyyyyyyy better than Mrs Palmer and her five daughters.

Q2) Who do you usually pick as a FB? (Eg, Colleagues, classmates, ONS etc)
I wished I could pick neighbours, albeit the inconvenience of being too convenient (when she calls, it's more obligatory than not)
But the fuck buddies I had were friends of friends, and classmates. I would suggest or advise against having ONS as a fuck buddy, unless the one time you guys had sex, and it was enough to break your back.

Q3) What do you look for and/or expect from a FB?
SEX?? usually a nice ass, but the bonus here, is chemistry. If there is some form of connection between both parties, I don't see why being a fuck buddy and a friend at the same time would be a problem.

Q4) If you already have FB(s), what usually pisses you off big time about him/them?
When they get too sticky, sex is sex, the emotions should be always kept at bay, or rather, there should not be any emotions above the line to begin with.

Q5) If you or your FB starts to get serious in love with each other but both of you are attached or married, do you have any backup plans/solutions?

The above situation should never happen, both parties should be matured enough to have a FB, whether or not, the line should clearly be drawn.

cheers:)

Hey pal, i don understand why is ONS a bad FB, i tot its just fuck and gone?
You had an "unforgettable experience"?

[spatspit]

Q1) Under what circumstances would you consider to have a F***buddy (FB).
When im feeling horny. and when i feel like doing it with someone else other than my bf

Q2) Who do you usually pick as a FB? (Eg, Colleagues, classmates, ONS etc)
not colleague. probably ex classmates or someone who i dun work with. and that person mus b able to keep secrets.

Q3) What do you look for and/or expect from a FB?
good body, good looking and of coz gd in bed. mus be able to give me gd orgasms. big dick will be great.

Q4) If you already have FB(s), what usually pisses you off big time about him/them?
So far nothing

Q5) If you or your FB starts to get serious in love with each other but both of you are attached or married, do you have any backup plans/solutions?
end it straight. FB is just for the sex and nth else

[StressGuy]

Looking for FB
Reason - i'm don't feel satisfy with my gf. Plus enjoys the pleasure of having sex with no strings attached...

PM Me :)

[leofoo]

1.All the time, thats why i remain single.

2.My hall and cca mates in uni, as i was in the main committee it was easier.Soon it'll be colleagues since ill be starting work this year.:D

3.Must be chio of cos!

4.When she cannot tahan my power in bed :P

5.She'll usually be the one who violates the rule, so ill just move on to another chick.

P.S Any lady samsters interested in a great fb by a 24yo can pm me ok?

[riowilly]

Q1) Under what circumstances would you consider to have a F***buddy (FB).
when i want to have a good fuck with a different lady with no string attached

Q2) Who do you usually pick as a FB? (Eg, Colleagues, classmates, ONS etc)
ever with a lady colleague, not specific, can be someone known new or lady with no string attached

Q3) What do you look for and/or expect from a FB?
average look, average body, good BJ, teaser and not fat of course.

Q4) If you already have FB(s), what usually pisses you off big time about him/them?
So far no FB now, no comments but will prefer to keep to the rules layed
Q5) If you or your FB starts to get serious in love with each other but both of you are attached or married, do you have any backup plans/solutions?
will stop that and only solely SEX.:D:D:D:D

[EricssonMan]

FB should be some1 who's good at Fxxxking, in order to give satisfaction

[sex4LiFe]

Q1) Under what circumstances would you consider to have a F***buddy (FB).
When I no longer have to ask her how much I need to pay to up her. :D kidding la. But for me I feel such things happen naturally. We are only humans after all. If the situation is right, don't think anyone can resist.

Q2) Who do you usually pick as a FB? (Eg, Colleagues, classmates, ONS etc)
So far, my current FB was from irc donkey years ago. The rest are ONS and ONS only which also happen donkey years ago.

Q3) What do you look for and/or expect from a FB?
Discretion. No-sticky. And of course looks.

Q4) If you already have FB(s), what usually pisses you off big time about him/them?
When they ask me whether did i ever love them.

Q5) If you or your FB starts to get serious in love with each other but both of you are attached or married, do you have any backup plans/solutions?
This should never happen in the first place. Both have to be very clear their original aim, which is - to have additional fantastic sex on top of whatever they are already getting.

[redarmy]

if i knows and log in to this forum this thread 8 yrs ago.. think i still have a fcukbuddy.. have no idea of a fb at thattime...:(

[Rattler]

I think those who have FB should hv at least some prowess in bed .... maybe thats what FBs are looking for .... definitely no string attached for FBs, else it is no longer considered as FB, but GF or mistress

[bradpitt968]

Q1 = when BF not longer interested to bonk me 5 time a week
Q2 = ONS
Q3 = must be good in bed, if not rather stick to BF
Q4 = asking for $$$
Q5 = FB is fuck and forget.. no long term commitment.

Yes ... that is the kind of Fcukbuddy I want also ....

I'm a guy .... but the FB i want is
Q1 - Want to have good sex at least once a day
Q2 - Whatever .... best if chio busty flat abs
Q3 - Must be willing to do BBBJ and mutually satisfy each other
Q4 - Same .... asking for $$$
Q5 - Same FB is for physical pleasure .. no long term commitment.

[bradpitt968]

I got a FB last time.

She's good ... BBBJ me and then suck me like no tomorrow ..... she's not bad looking .... and ok figure.

Sad things is that .... now no more liao. *sob sob*

[pussywallower95]

Q1) Under what circumstances would you consider to have a F***buddy (FB).
When I'm single, lonely and horny.

Q2) Who do you usually pick as a FB? (Eg, Colleagues, classmates, ONS etc)
Random hookups online. Colleagues are a no no, no matter how tempting.

Q3) What do you look for and/or expect from a FB?
Sexual satisfaction and abit of chatting thereafter. Minimal contact otherwise.
Q4) If you already have FB(s), what usually pisses you off big time about him/them?
Asking for money/treats/handouts. Or demanding attention.
FBs are supposed to be no maintenance and non-commital.

Q5) If you or your FB starts to get serious in love with each other but both of you are attached or married, do you have any backup plans/solutions?
No, I'll try not to mess around if I'm attached/married.

[scott999]

Thank you fellow samsters, boys and girls, for your valuable posts.
Glad to see this thread still arousing interest and gaining great contributions.

My FB also wanna bye-bye liaoz.
It is time to un-RETIRE??? :D

[skyevanilla]

Q1) Under what circumstances would you consider to have a F***buddy (FB).
we all have our needs. so if no boyfriend or boyfriend/husband cannot satisfy me, then why not?

Q2) Who do you usually pick as a FB? (Eg, Colleagues, classmates, ONS etc)
definitely not colleagues. someone who is not close to me (doesn't exist in my social circles).

Q3) What do you look for and/or expect from a FB?
obviously someone i can feel comfortable naked with. and he has to know what he's doing la, no point having an FB when I have to tell him what to do every single step of the way.


Q4) If you already have FB(s), what usually pisses you off big time about him/them?
too sticky, want to know everything about my life. i mean, you're a fuck buddy, not a real buddy, get a life.

Q5) If you or your FB starts to get serious in love with each other but both of you are attached or married, do you have any backup plans/solutions?
the whole plan is sex with no strings attached right? so if it happens, then its time to say byebye :)

[scott999]

Just seen a video boss had posted in other sub-forum.

Found another link from the same girl taking about Fcukbuddies: -
YouTube - Fuck Buddies (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wQ7Y9OBcos4)

[lightning]

Thks this is another helpful thread to my answers :D

[JIKED D]

from a single male pov

Q1) Under what circumstances would you consider to have a F***buddy.

ANS )Under what circumstances would I NOT consider to have a F***buddy ? <would be a better question for me> I am morally challenged so as long as the situation permits, I will have one. I cant think of any circumstances that I would not have / want one

Q2) Who do you usually pick as a FB? (Eg, Colleagues, classmates, ONS etc)
ANS ) so far I had the most hits during Uni Days:p so classmates is my answer

Q3) What do you look for and/or expect from a FB?
ANS ) Vagina and boobs :D kindy scary if she comes with a dick right? :eek: just kidding ... I don't have any specific requirement for FB, as long as we are clicking, it will be fine for me

Q4) If you already have FB(s), what usually pisses you off big time about him/them?
ANS ) luckly I never kanna the sticky one but what made me quite sian (turned me off big time) was when my FB suddenly get hit by her conscience and wanna do everything till the sex bit ... argh

Q5) If you or your FB starts to get serious in love with each other but both of you are attached or married, do you have any backup plans/solutions?
ANS ) actually my current bed buddy is attached and her bf been bugging her for marriage .... to save our "souls", we planned to eventually end this affair soon and remain as good friends :(

[Angel.Janus]

from male POV....

Q1) Under what circumstances would you consider to have a F***buddy (FB).
Never by choice... but I would not have FB if I'm in a serious relationship.

Q2) Who do you usually pick as a FB? (Eg, Colleagues, classmates, ONS etc)
first FB is intro by internet friend... met up liao, chatted... talked about sex, then had sex by 3rd date... kept as FB until I left UK

2nd one was ex-colleague... she break up with BF, got drunk and horny... we went hotel 81 and did it then... now she married, but we still chat on MSN and meet up very rarely...

3rd one was internet meet up... MILF... but turned very stickly after a month... had to break up with her...

Q3) What do you look for and/or expect from a FB?
need a lot of respect and clear indications...

Q4) If you already have FB(s), what usually pisses you off big time about him/them?
nothing much... except kena sent aeroplanes at last minute... but my temper very fast diffuse

Q5) If you or your FB starts to get serious in love with each other but both of you are attached or married, do you have any backup plans/solutions?
made it very very clear about our expectations and rules... coded sms to info each other... if rules break, relationship ends... but still can remain friends...

[caz08]

Q1) Under what circumstances would you consider to have a F***buddy (FB).
When i'm deprived of sex ( very unlikely~ )
Q2) Who do you usually pick as a FB? (Eg, Colleagues, classmates, ONS etc)
One whom i can trust to keep it discreet. I wouldnt want people around me whom i know asking me for sex. It's a total turnoff.
Q3) What do you look for and/or expect from a FB?
Since it's a FB, the most important thing would be sex right? I guess it'll consists of looks and skills then.
Q4) If you already have FB(s), what usually pisses you off big time about him/them?
Main reasons will be possesive and asking for money. But i believe that when you're not in the mood and the fella keeps asking you for it, it'll be rather irritating too though.
Q5) If you or your FB starts to get serious in love with each other but both of you are attached or married, do you have any backup plans/solutions?
Well, i won't get a FB if i'm attached or a FB who's attached. Just imagine the phone ringing when you're enjoying @.@!!

[scott999]

There have been new 'lady' samsters in the forum lately.

Can we have your views on FB? :D
(See page one for Questions)

[scott999]

*REPOST*

http://www.sammyboyforum.com/adult-discussions-about-sex/79808-lady-samsters-questions-fcukbuddy.html#post2495078

I like to seek the opinion of our female forumers.
Constructive feedback are also welcomed from fellow male samsters.
'Destructive' ones also can, but must be very funny lor so that more ladies can come in and read/share.

Q1) Under what circumstances would you consider to have a F***buddy (FB).
Q2) Who do you usually pick as a FB? (Eg, Colleagues, classmates, ONS etc)
Q3) What do you look for and/or expect from a FB?
Q4) If you already have FB(s), what usually pisses you off big time about him/them?
Q5) If you or your FB starts to get serious in love with each other but both of you are attached or married, do you have any backup plans/solutions?

[destiny24]

Q1) Under what circumstances would you consider to have a F***buddy (FB). when i'm lonely and horny..haha..and single of course..
Q2) Who do you usually pick as a FB? (Eg, Colleagues, classmates, ONS etc) online i guess..colleagues sounds not bad cos can sneak off somewhere to have a quickie in office..haha..:rolleyes:
Q3) What do you look for and/or expect from a FB? no need to be very gd-looking but must be as horny as me and can satisfy me..most importantly must be able to click with me..can chat..:p
Q4) If you already have FB(s), what usually pisses you off big time about him/them? can't think of any..
Q5) If you or your FB starts to get serious in love with each other but both of you are attached or married, do you have any backup plans/solutions? doesn't apply cos I doubt I'll have a FB if I'm attached or worse still married

[BabyJane]

Q1) Under what circumstances would you consider to have a F***buddy (FB). WHEN I AM SICK AND TIRED OF BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP.

Q2) Who do you usually pick as a FB? (Eg, Colleagues, classmates, ONS etc) IT DOESN'T MATTER. WHEN THERE IS CHEMISTRY, IT WILL HAPPEN NATURALLY.

Q3) What do you look for and/or expect from a FB? MUTUAL UNDERSTANDING.

Q4) If you already have FB(s), what usually pisses you off big time about him/them? HAVEN'T BEEN PISSED SO FAR.

Q5) If you or your FB starts to get serious in love with each other but both of you are attached or married, do you have any backup plans/solutions? I WILL NOT HAVE A FB IF I AM IN A RELATIONSHIP.

[Shluya]

I dont need such.

sex is mostly about getting a man to like you anyway for myself I dont need it much ;)

[scott999]

There have been new 'lady' samsters in the forum lately.

Can we have your views on FB?
(See page one for Questions)

Upz! :D

[Batobus]

am a guy...had several FBs experiences previously and I must say something truthfully especially for married man. When you are in the relationship with a FB and she does not know that you are married, you'll try all means to control the relationship. In the end, you could end up being the happy one or the sad one.

Man's nature of being not truthful when you just want to bonk your FBs yet your FBs always thought of a chance of being together as couple (kinda of confusing here).

My last FB is a girl younger than me by 10 years old and met her at a nightspot. In a fashion industry and the relationship went on for 10 months. One day, she popped the question of being together and I was stunned.

Well, I should say that this is not a open case of FB as we didn't commit to any rules of engagement/disengagement. Everytime when we meet, we will go for dinner then to bonking.

In the end (no choice but to leave her), I felt sad because I know that if I'm with her, I'll be blessed as she such a nice girl & esp horny and responsive on the bed. On the other hand, there's no chance of us being together since I'm married.

Q1) Under what circumstances would you consider to have a F***buddy (FB).
Meet for bonk without any commitment (but sometimes this get out of hands)Q2) Who do you usually pick as a FB? (Eg, Colleagues, classmates, ONS etc)
So far my ONS or FBs are from St James
Q3) What do you look for and/or expect from a FB?
No expectation except that when I want to meet her, hope that she can meet me.Q4) If you already have FB(s), what usually pisses you off big time about him/them?
So far, I guess I'm the one pissing them off. Sometimes when they want to meet me, I cannot go meet them
Q5) If you or your FB starts to get serious in love with each other but both of you are attached or married, do you have any backup plans/solutions?
No backup plans. My rule is "Never jeopardize your marriage", hopefully you don't get caught by your FB when out with wife

Recently I met another girl from St James and we had sex 3 times. We just went out for drinks and some healthy activities like strolling or fishing whenever I can make it - so far she didn't demand anything from me except that she asked me the same question like other girls "do you have gf or married" but I just can't answer them that "I'm married"

Guess I'm worried that if I say so, then they will not want to be with me. That's selfish man's nature

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Just to share my experience here :p

[scott999]

Thank you boys and gals, samsters and samtresses for contributing to this thread.

Those whom I have yet to 'upz' +4 rep points,
kindly PM me your latest post.

[kudaliar]

from a male....

Q1) Under what circumstances would you consider to have a F***buddy (FB).
F**k with no commitment. As and when if both are available for sex
Q2) Who do you usually pick as a FB? (Eg, Colleagues, classmates, ONS etc)
I used to have sex with my ex-colleague, whenever we travel together instead of sleeping in different room, we always ended up in one room. But she have since left the company & we are no longer in contact
Q3) What do you look for and/or expect from a FB?
FB has to be someone that makes you feel really shiok when having sex with.Do not expect anything from FB otherwise you break the rule of game
Q4) If you already have FB(s), what usually pisses you off big time about him/them?
Not really as you don't expect too much out of the "relationship"
Q5) If you or your FB starts to get serious in love with each other but both of you are attached or married, do you have any backup plans/solutions?
Hopefully that does not happen. Otherwise, it would be drastic if both parties are already engaged or married

[AngelEye]

Q1) Under what circumstances would you consider to have a F***buddy (FB). When your boyfriend / husband is not able to satisfy my sexual needs.

Q2) Who do you usually pick as a FB? (Eg, Colleagues, classmates, ONS etc)
Anyone who is interested and is on the same sexual frequency, same sexual desires and of cos, both declares that they are safe and free of unwanted diseases. Someone who's fun and willing to try new sexual experiences. Whoes goal at the end of the session is a good, guilt free fuck.

Q3) What do you look for and/or expect from a FB?
As long as the opposite gender is straight in his sexual preference, i guess i dun expect much, other than the usual like being open to all sexual options.

Q4) If you already have FB(s), what usually pisses you off big time about him/them?
Not wearing condoms

Q5) If you or your FB starts to get serious in love with each other but both of you are attached or married, do you have any backup plans/solutions?
Backup plan will be to stay the way we were but fuck with extra-ordinary feelings, guilt free, family and relationship protected.

[marilyn]

good informative post by some female members thanks. learn alot.

never had a fb before. wish i had one cos gf though super pretty but not fuck too good for me.

[scott999]

Upz, any more contributors? :D

[pewpew]

Q1) Under what circumstances would you consider to have a F***buddy.
A1) its hard to find a understanding gf/wife to have same sexual desire.

Q2) Who do you usually pick as a FB? (Eg, Colleagues, classmates, ONS etc)
A2) Have got several Client's secretary as FB

Q3) What do you look for and/or expect from a FB?
A3) Understanding and willing to lend a hear but with no commitment, comes and goes whenever either 1 of us request.

Q4) If you already have FB(s), what usually pisses you off big time about him/them?
A4) When they are busy and you are in hunger for sex... and also forget to buy condom...

Q5) If you or your FB starts to get serious in love with each other but both of you are attached or married, do you have any backup plans/solutions?
A5) Alway state in advance, definition for FB are no string attach, yes we can be very close friend but we will never be together. Have a FB whom got married last year, getting ready to give birth (NOT MY BABY) next month and already agreed to save some MILK for me... hehe :D

[LuanLai]

Q1) Under what circumstances would you consider to have a F***buddy.
A1) I just like to have sex with many different gals. Just want to have the excitement.

Q2) Who do you usually pick as a FB? (Eg, Colleagues, classmates, ONS etc)
A2) Mainly from pubs and clubs.
Did had one part timer from office. Very exciting, when you have a lot touching here and there during work time (those walk past, met in pantry..etc..)

Q3) What do you look for and/or expect from a FB?
A3) got to be very open minded and clear headed.

Q4) If you already have FB(s), what usually pisses you off big time about him/them?
A4) I do not expect much from them. But once appt set, don't fly me areoplane.

Q5) If you or your FB starts to get serious in love with each other but both of you are attached or married, do you have any backup plans/solutions?
A5) i prefer married women as i too have a family. In this case it is easier for both of us to have the common understanding. If true feelings developed, will need to write off immediately.

For me i prefer to come clean with them, i will not hide about my marital satus. Even when i tell them i will not leave my family, younger single gals tends to get emotional.

[LostALau]

I never had a FB though I would like to have one. Reason is not easy to find one who is open minded, sexually liberal yet faithful to me during the period of relationship. This is because I would like to do her raw, paint her and french her without worrying about STD or other sexually related diseases. As I am born under the wandering star, I will kick her out without loss of a second if she try to restrict or question my freedom of movement. I am also afraid of the other party getting emotional and want a commitment. Last but not least, I am old and ugly. With such stringent demands and qualities, who dare to be my FB huh. :rolleyes:

[geckoSG]

Bro, you are seriously better off with a blow up doll than a real woman

[LostALau]

Bro, you are seriously better off with a blow up doll than a real woman

No need blow up doll lah, very expensive. PCC can liao :D

[veracity]

Q1) Under what circumstances would you consider to have a F***buddy.

When I am single and wish to have a good time, yet not get entangled in a r/s.

Q2) Who do you usually pick as a FB? (Eg, Colleagues, classmates, ONS etc)

Pubs / Clubs.

Q3) What do you look for and/or expect from a FB?

Nothing short of great sex. And yes, the size of the penis does matter.

Q4) If you already have FB(s), what usually pisses you off big time about him/them?

Dishonesty.

Q5) If you or your FB starts to get serious in love with each other but both of you are attached or married, do you have any backup plans/solutions?

I've learnt not to get emotionally attached to FB(s) because nothing good will come out of it. If he starts falling for me, I will make it clear it is not possible. At the very worst, I will just ditch him and stop all contact.

[self_reserved]

I
Q1) Under what circumstances would you consider to have a F***buddy (FB).
Q2) Who do you usually pick as a FB? (Eg, Colleagues, classmates, ONS etc)
Q3) What do you look for and/or expect from a FB?
Q4) If you already have FB(s), what usually pisses you off big time about him/them?
Q5) If you or your FB starts to get serious in love with each other but both of you are attached or married, do you have any backup plans/solutions?


1) if i am single.

2) i think i have no preference.

3) expect myself to be her only FB.physical appearance does not really matter but at least my arms are able to hug her without any difficulty..
and most importantly...she must go for a body checkup,as well as i do.

4) i only had one this year (or rather,in my life),she expected me to pay for her cab fare whenever she came to and fro.she does not like to take bus/train.

5) i would not get myself a FB in the first place if i am attached or married.

[hoosdathu]

huh, i thought TS asked for female input, why so many posts from guys, many of whom don't even have FBs :confused:

[Joanna]

Q1) Under what circumstances would you consider to have a F***buddy (FB). - Meeting him more then 5 times.

Q2) Who do you usually pick as a FB? (Eg, Colleagues, classmates, ONS etc) - Ex bf

Q3) What do you look for and/or expect from a FB? - Safe and clean sex. At least a decent size of dick.

Q4) If you already have FB(s), what usually pisses you off big time about him/them? - I need to be there when he needs me but when i need him he is not there.

Q5) If you or your FB starts to get serious in love with each other but both of you are attached or married, do you have any backup plans/solutions? - If feelings develop i would stop the FB thing.

[jasdude]

Interesting thread ! a must see and read ! will drop anchor and port at this thread !:D

[michaelrocksam]

huh, i thought TS asked for female input, why so many posts from guys, many of whom don't even have FBs :confused:

Bro,

I agreed with you. I just read the thread titled "Lady Samsters - Questions on Fcukbuddy"

Thot I could read the ladies comments on their FB experience, turns out more guys are sharing on their FB experience haha

I have 2 FB but not going to share here.

TS can you start a thread for "Brother Samsters - How to make your FB totally from lessons learnt"

May be sisters you can help to contibute by asking certain questions what u want to know how to get your FB make your more shiok in the other thread

[Tui Tui]

Q1)
Q2) Who do you usually pick as a FB? (Eg, Colleagues, classmates, ONS etc) - Ex bf

Jus curious why FB with Ex-BF ?

I would expect it to be strangers like the red bean soup seller.... bosses of your friends etc etc

[Highjoys]

Q1) Under what circumstances would you consider to have a F***buddy (FB).

Is that FCUK BUDDY a real Buddy? In no circumstances would my buddy try to get into my pants. I would want that FB to be a good friend instead.

Q2) Who do you usually pick as a FB? (Eg, Colleagues, classmates, ONS etc)

Why should I pick from these pple like colleagues, classmates? Why not they come and pick me as a FB?

Q3) What do you look for and/or expect from a FB?

Intiative to Help. Kind like a Rabbit. Expect them to do volunteer works, like offering their help to elderly and orphanages.

Q4) If you already have FB(s), what usually pisses you off big time about him/them?

NIL....

Q5) If you or your FB starts to get serious in love with each other but both of you are attached or married, do you have any backup plans/solutions?

Serious in Love? That's good, and end my singleton.. haha

Wah... seems like your FB is very "Gan Kor" type. need to do volunteer work and be your good friend. :P Also, they must take the "hard work" to pick u not the other way round (too tough a work for u?) Lastly, so fast wan to end your singlehood? Guess u better buy a special lock and "lock" him close to you forever... remember to throw away the key and that solve the problem :P

[Joanna]

Well feel more comfortable with my Ex and partially i have never been engage in ONS or flings. Maybe i am too ugly or fat hence no chance of ONS hahaha

Jus curious why FB with Ex-BF ?

I would expect it to be strangers like the red bean soup seller.... bosses of your friends etc etc

[Ace2006]

hey joanna, what makes you think you are ugly and fat? if you want FB there are alot of us that would be willing to be TAKEN. haha..

[Joanna]

Hahaha well i personally think i am ugly and fat... FB wise not really looking for one cause don't think i have the time. :)

hey joanna, what makes you think you are ugly and fat? if you want FB there are alot of us that would be willing to be TAKEN. haha..

[Blue_gal]

I never had a FB though I would like to have one. Reason is not easy to find one who is open minded, sexually liberal yet faithful to me during the period of relationship. This is because I would like to do her raw, paint her and french her without worrying about STD or other sexually related diseases. As I am born under the wandering star, I will kick her out without loss of a second if she try to restrict or question my freedom of movement. I am also afraid of the other party getting emotional and want a commitment. Last but not least, I am old and ugly. With such stringent demands and qualities, who dare to be my FB huh. :rolleyes:

can i KNOW U?

[ah rat]

can i KNOW U?

Wait Uncle Blue jealous :D

[dec_gal]

Wait Uncle Blue jealous :D



whhaaha... so funny when I read the post above... "Wait Uncle Blue jealous" heez:D

[walklikeaman]

Q1) Under what circumstances would you consider to have a F***buddy (FB).

When I need hot sex with no string attached

Q2) Who do you usually pick as a FB? (Eg, Colleagues, classmates, ONS etc)

Anyone with mutual sexual attraction

Q3) What do you look for and/or expect from a FB?

Ability to enjoy herself with me

Q4) If you already have FB(s), what usually pisses you off big time about him/them?

Unable to see her when I need her

Q5) If you or your FB starts to get serious in love with each other but both of you are attached or married, do you have any backup plans/solutions?

Solution: More Hot Sex

[Blue_gal]

Wait Uncle Blue jealous :D

nah tat WAS "HISTORY" liao...:p

[san_san]

I never had a FB though I would like to have one. Reason is not easy to find one who is open minded, sexually liberal yet faithful to me during the period of relationship. This is because I would like to do her raw, paint her and french her without worrying about STD or other sexually related diseases. As I am born under the wandering star, I will kick her out without loss of a second if she try to restrict or question my freedom of movement. I am also afraid of the other party getting emotional and want a commitment. Last but not least, I am old and ugly. With such stringent demands and qualities, who dare to be my FB huh. :rolleyes:

You are so MAN!!! Can i know you too?

[CyberRod]

I never had a FB though I would like to have one. Reason is not easy to find one who is open minded, sexually liberal yet faithful to me during the period of relationship. This is because I would like to do her raw, paint her and french her without worrying about STD or other sexually related diseases. As I am born under the wandering star, I will kick her out without loss of a second if she try to restrict or question my freedom of movement. I am also afraid of the other party getting emotional and want a commitment. Last but not least, I am old and ugly. With such stringent demands and qualities, who dare to be my FB huh. :rolleyes:

Haha... Bro LostALau... U spoke my mind man... Totally agree with U on the points U listed out...

It's really difficult to look for someone that sexually faithful so as to avoid STD and such. Used to be in the medical industry and seen lots of folks getting STD and HIV. So, cap for me is a must for flings and all. But deep inside me, I'm also looking for a FB so that I can do raw and being sexually attracted to each other. But jus like U, I'm also old and ugly... Haha...

Bro, kopi with U someday and pour our sorrows? :p

PM me if you are keen to meet for kopi... :cool:

[scott999]

Bro,
I agreed with you. I just read the thread titled "Lady Samsters - Questions on Fcukbuddy"

Thot I could read the ladies comments on their FB experience, turns out more guys are sharing on their FB experience haha

TS can you start a thread for "Brother Samsters - How to make your FB totally from lessons learnt"



This thread was initially meant our lady samsters,
but our female species feedback that they are also keen to know more about the male FB kind.

So if you have FBs or planning or wishing for one,
this sole and centralized thread will be useful for one and all.
(instead of a separate one)

Very soon, I will be sharing how my FB made me quit FL from Jan-Sept 2008.

"We all know good things dun last;
enjoy to the fullest while you can".

:D Scott999 :D

[Bigooz]

Before I start posting, the all important note... I'm a 100% straight GUY. You PM me and I'll PM you back with my gay friends number.


Q1) Under what circumstances would you consider to have a F***buddy (FB).

Hopefully before my dick stops listening to me, keep it all cuming!

Q2) Who do you usually pick as a FB? (Eg, Colleagues, classmates, ONS etc)

Except for relatives, close ones, underage girls, gays, lady-boy... I think cannot say what I usually pick, but I can most definitely say what I wouldn't pick!

Q3) What do you look for and/or expect from a FB?

Preferably...
- rich
- famous
- gorgeous
- sexy
- horny
- forgets me the next morning and also a bonus if she forgets her purse on the table

If all else fails...
- pls fuck me
- pls forget me
- pls dun leave anything behind

Q4) If you already have FB(s), what usually pisses you off big time about him/them?

Refusing to share me with her other female pretty friends!

Q5) If you or your FB starts to get serious in love with each other but both of you are attached or married, do you have any backup plans/solutions?

Tell her I am tested HIV positive and she should go check too.
*suggestion is highly workable, but not tested personally YET.*
(tell me if you tried and it works yea?)

[scott999]

Reviving an old thread of mine.
:) Appreciated all opinions & comments from samsters, young and old, male or female... :)

I like to seek the opinion of our female forumers.
Constructive feedback are also welcomed from fellow male samsters.
'Destructive' ones also can, but must be very funny lor so that more ladies can come in and read/share.

Q1) Under what circumstances would you consider to have a F***buddy (FB).
Q2) Who do you usually pick as a FB? (Eg, Colleagues, classmates, ONS etc)
Q3) What do you look for and/or expect from a FB?
Q4) If you already have FB(s), what usually pisses you off big time about him/them?
Q5) If you or your FB starts to get serious in love with each other but both of you are attached or married, do you have any backup plans/solutions?

[Panamera]

Q1) Under what circumstances would you consider to have a F***buddy.
Ans1: I’m single and horny all the time, having a 'FB' relationship suits me perfectly, great recreational sex with no heavy love stuff going on with both people understand the boundaries - "why the hell not” ?:p[/COLOR]

Q2) Who do you usually pick as a FB? (Eg, Colleagues, classmates, ONS etc)
Ans2: I have only a little one-syllable four-letter word which has a life of its own to any quality girl - KEENS?

Q3) What do you look for and/or expect from a FB?
Ans3: Someone I am friendly with, socialize with, sometimes sleep with, but don't expect any more from and vice versa

Q4) If you already have FB(s), what usually pisses you off big time about him/them?
Ans4: I will not be piss off big time with any FBs…well, maybe just a little if she wants me over 5 times a week , talks to me all the time, loves my company soooo much, it's obvious she thinks far more of me than just a FB and getting too weirded out, then I will proceed to Ans 5…

Q5) If you or your FB starts to get serious in love with each other but both of you are attached or married, do you have any backup plans/solutions?
Ans5: Well until she starts to get all lovey dovey (and therefore ruining the whole rules of an FB) then it's time to cheese it and find a new one BUT I'll probably continue being friendly to her, meetup for chill or otherwise. I'm optimistic that way,. I don't want it to be just a meat-market, where I can't claim to know the person I sleep with. It’s a basic respect for any women FB or not…

[jefftany]

Notice quite alot of the female samsters here do not want collegues as there FBs, and most prob prefer FB who is not within their social circle.. Hmmm..point taken.. looks like its not really beneficial to be working in environment with hot chicks as ur collegues?

[fishball]

Notice quite alot of the female samsters here do not want collegues as there FBs, and most prob prefer FB who is not within their social circle.. Hmmm..point taken.. looks like its not really beneficial to be working in environment with hot chicks as ur collegues?

Yup. Better not shit in the place u eat.:p Any ladies here looking for a FB? Would be delighted to meet up.. Haha..:p

[emokid]

Sad to say I nv had a FB.. mayb nv realli find or i not of good quality ba.. hehe.. any samtress need 1? pm me.. haha

[lg500wong]

Oh... I thought most of the samsters are male... Never have any FB before too... Any ladies looking for a FB? Im here for you and would be delighted to meet up....

[destiny24]

fbs to girls are somewhat special..it's not a ONS thingy..u gotta really click with that person to have this r/s..of course minus the emotions part too..

i've had a FB proposal by this guy I've known for 6 months..both of us still not ready to meet up..one nite..he confessed to me that he's actually attached all the while and even plan to get married next yr..ask me not to fall in love with him..he claims that he didn't push for us meeting up as he's scared that he's doing the wrong thing..

i'm like :confused:? seriously, i dun wanna be involved with someone who's attached..but i can't deny there's this special feeling I have for him..not love definitely..just a connection i guess..or maybe lust?

any other guys who tries to come on to me in the sexual way and I'll get turned off..but just not him..so it's weird..

[block11]

fbs to girls are somewhat special..it's not a ONS thingy..u gotta really click with that person to have this r/s..of course minus the emotions part too..

....

any other guys who tries to come on to me in the sexual way and I'll get turned off..but just not him..so it's weird..

weird? no laa... you stated the reason for it in your first sentence :D

[sexkitten]

Q1) Under what circumstances would you consider to have a F***buddy (FB). - when the alcohol sets in, and both of us are feeling horny.

Q2) Who do you usually pick as a FB? (Eg, Colleagues, classmates, ONS etc) -probably my colleague, its convenient (and exciting) to have office quickies! especially in the boardroom when no one is around...

Q3) What do you look for and/or expect from a FB? - for me, it would have to be someone who cares about me, and not just interested in having sex alone. of course, being good in bed is a bonus!

Q4) If you already have FB(s), what usually pisses you off big time about him/them? - Gets sticky & possessive

Q5) If you or your FB starts to get serious in love with each other but both of you are attached or married, do you have any backup plans/solutions? - hmm, then I guess I would have to assess if my feelings to my bf or FB is stronger. I would most likely dump the FB for my bf.

[scott999]

I like to seek the opinion of our female forumers.
Constructive feedback are also welcomed from fellow male samsters.
'Destructive' ones also can, but must be very funny lor so that more ladies can come in and read/share.

Q1) Under what circumstances would you consider to have a F***buddy (FB).
Q2) Who do you usually pick as a FB? (Eg, Colleagues, classmates, ONS etc)
Q3) What do you look for and/or expect from a FB?
Q4) If you already have FB(s), what usually pisses you off big time about him/them?
Q5) If you or your FB starts to get serious in love with each other but both of you are attached or married, do you have any backup plans/solutions?

[tookara]

any more feedback. i love my fbs

[inlaw]

fbs to girls are somewhat special..it's not a ONS thingy..u gotta really click with that person to have this r/s..of course minus the emotions part too....

any other guys who tries to come on to me in the sexual way and I'll get turned off..but just not him..so it's weird..

Interesting reading, this is a weird world.

Got one time FB this girl, she want continue but after having sex i dodn't continue, and that is the only fb experience i had before, but i feel bit weird abt myself, maybe still not mature in this area ..

Now no fb, would like to have one to get myself more emotion-less ready hehe:D

[zacarie]

fbs to girls are somewhat special..it's not a ONS thingy..u gotta really click with that person to have this r/s..of course minus the emotions part too..

i've had a FB proposal by this guy I've known for 6 months..both of us still not ready to meet up..one nite..he confessed to me that he's actually attached all the while and even plan to get married next yr..ask me not to fall in love with him..he claims that he didn't push for us meeting up as he's scared that he's doing the wrong thing..

i'm like :confused:? seriously, i dun wanna be involved with someone who's attached..but i can't deny there's this special feeling I have for him..not love definitely..just a connection i guess..or maybe lust?

any other guys who tries to come on to me in the sexual way and I'll get turned off..but just not him..so it's weird..

i agree tt we gotta click..
me and the other guy are both married. just tt in different situation. he still have his family but i'm kinda separated from mine. we've met up and had sex.
i do have this thing for him. not sure what is it called. just a kind of connection i guess. we just feel so confortable with each other and can talk about anything. really everything. it's like he's a good friend.
same here. when we first met i was also having email from others. but just dont have a thing for any others other than him. kind of just get turn on by him.
so sometimes emotions do cross the line. but i guess there nothing much i can do but remind myself constantly....

[CandyceLove]

1) Under what circumstances would you consider to have a F***buddy (FB).

When bf (or future husband) is no longer interested to make love to me on a regular basis

Q2) Who do you usually pick as a FB? (Eg, Colleagues, classmates, ONS etc)

Someone I can trust (No Edison Chen or GARY types!). Not someone in my social circle, but probably a former schoolmate or former neighbour....someone who's just an accquintance and not a friend. Not into ONS.


Q3) What do you look for and/or expect from a FB? -

Besides the obvious - which is good in bed (again, it's subjective, as Samsters always say "one man's (woman's) meat is another man's poison")

Has to be someone who I am relatively comfortable with. Can talk and laugh with the person, but nothing emotional involved.


Q4) If you already have FB(s), what usually pisses you off big time about him/them?

Don't know.......

But maybe you wouldn't want a FB who always turns down your appointment at the last min (for no good reason, probably just managed to hook up with another gal).

FBs who treat us gals worse than FLs or WLs... as in, just pick you up, f*** in the car and just dump you back at your house. $20/30 hotel fee and a $30-60 casual dinner is deemed to be too "expensive" for a bonk.


Q5) If you or your FB starts to get serious in love with each other but both of you are attached or married, do you have any backup plans/solutions?

No, not possible for me.

[8387]

Only happened to me once. it was the lady who initiated. she was a good friend. it started as a joke in several conversations -- a what if we? At first, I was uncomfortable when she showed some serious interest. We are both married. Then one time, she said: "I am not looking for love, just sex. And rather than fcuk a stranger, why not a friend who I know will not take advantage of me." It is hard to turn down a lady when she asks, right? It was all cerebral and carnal -- no alcohol involved. It went on for a year and a half. And it was always out of town. It was good while it lasted. Honestly, I missed it, and still hope a similar opportunity will come. Well, good things come to those who wait.

[scott999]

I like to seek the opinion of our female forumers.
Constructive feedback are also welcomed from fellow male samsters.
'Destructive' ones also can, but must be very funny lor so that more ladies can come in and read/share.

Q1) Under what circumstances would you consider to have a F***buddy (FB).
Q2) Who do you usually pick as a FB? (Eg, Colleagues, classmates, ONS etc)
Q3) What do you look for and/or expect from a FB?
Q4) If you already have FB(s), what usually pisses you off big time about him/them?
Q5) If you or your FB starts to get serious in love with each other but both of you are attached or married, do you have any backup plans/solutions?

Upz for an old but interesting thread. :D

[viviankoh]

After all, women and men are all human beings, flesh and blood with feelings.
Feelings/Passion just go out of control sometimes.

I have met FBs that make me feel like, "Hey this is really my kind of gal that i have been looking for!"
Although the physical contact has stopped (this particular one settled down), we became best of pals instead.

Likewise, I have also gotten a shock 2 years back when another ex-FB wanted to cancel her ROM just to be with me.
We only get it going for a month and it sure caught me unexpected.

We must learn to see the warning signs of the other party;
+ constantly remind each other the nature of the FB relationships.

Its tough rite ??? We are all humans with feelings...

[redhun]

Can I ask if your fb gave you std ( curable) would you still see him/her after you are both treated and well?

[Blue_gal]

Q1) Under what circumstances would you consider to have a F***buddy (FB).
- just started to "taste" lust...just like "D"..u gets it started u can't STOP it after trying .. hahahha...so once u met a dude can click...once a WEEK.. also not enough.. hahahhaa...

Q2) Who do you usually pick as a FB? (Eg, Colleagues, classmates, ONS etc)
- ONS and then turn to MNS... hahahaha

Q3) What do you look for and/or expect from a FB?
- psychical FIT and must be able to click and both "LUSTFUL" at that time ... hahahahaa...

Q4) If you already have FB(s), what usually pisses you off big time about him/them?
- when U NEED HIM.. he nowhere to be FOUND...hang out DRY Lah....

Q5) If you or your FB starts to get serious in love with each other but both of you are attached or married, do you have any backup plans/solutions?
- Not applicable....Both know its just for LUST...

my 20yrs ago STORIES... hahahaha...

[MoodyBlues]

Only happened to me once. it was the lady who initiated. she was a good friend. it started as a joke in several conversations -- a what if we? At first, I was uncomfortable when she showed some serious interest. We are both married. Then one time, she said: "I am not looking for love, just sex. And rather than fcuk a stranger, why not a friend who I know will not take advantage of me." It is hard to turn down a lady when she asks, right? It was all cerebral and carnal -- no alcohol involved. It went on for a year and a half. And it was always out of town. It was good while it lasted. Honestly, I missed it, and still hope a similar opportunity will come. Well, good things come to those who wait.

Wish I had such a friend :)