Valuesman
05-06-2006, 11:40 AM
This myself true story and now i getting a lawsuite over it. i knew this gal on 2003 at one of spore ktv. it was love at first sight, though she was a ktv gal but i did not look down or despise her. so after knowing each other for a year we started a relationship for around 1 and half yrs. in begaining of our relationship she did take drug and i did stop and advised her not to continue. she did promised me that she would not take anymore but it always and empty promise. so i had seriously consider wheather is it sensible to continue our relationship. but each time when i ask for a break up she would use killing herself or get harsh from stopping me. but at the point of time i still love her very much. after sometimes i really dont want to continue it anymore coz we really cant get along. though she is 2 yrs older then me but she is very emotional and paranoid. each time when we had a fight and i dont want to answer her call she would call every of my friends and colleagues to ask where am i and sometime when they felt annoyed they would just not to answer her call. she would just call for the whole day or making nusiance call to them. i did not gave any of my friends nos to her and she had never ask it from me before. she would just quitely took my hp and see it so i felt she is intruding my privacy and show no respect to me. so i cant take it of her behaviour anymore.
i am very trouble of all this shits that she had done to me. so there one time when i go out with one my guy friend without telling her and i MIA for a night, the following day she called me and whe had a very heated arugment on phone. before she hanged up the phone she asked me to wait for her at my place in a very threating manner. so i would anticipated of what she will do next, either she would hurt herself or me. so i was alert and waited for her at my place. i had thought of making police report to leave for them to solve it but after i give it a thought maybo it not the best solution. so i just wait for her after around half an hour she arrived with a very agitated manner. so i just open my door and let her in and at a point of time she just slip into her bag and trying to take a penknife out. i quickly stopped her by grabbing her hand but she is very persitence of what she is doing. so i slapped her but thing get out of control so during the struggle i had made her blue black on her arms. but after sometime i had manage to cool her down and i told her that what she done is wrong. after that thing get calm and she left my place on the same day.
On the following day evening, she called me and i was having dinner with two of my guy friends and she called me. we had argument again becoz she asked me why i keep company my friend. everthing just repeat like yesterday and she asked me to go back home and wait for her and i remeber this time round she said she would kill me. i am very disappointed and angry of her behaviour. so i told her i would go down to police station to file a report of what she had done and said. so i asked one of my friend to drive me to cantoment police hq to make a report. so while on the way to police station she keep calling me and plead me not to report against her.
So when i reached police station i had reply of what had happen to the police officer over there. police officer asked me of what i want to do to her so i just said that i hope police would not proscecute her but just give her a warning or counselling.
And i was informed that she did report me of i had slapped her and her reporting officer called me and i explain to him what had happening and i did made a report and asked him to refer to it. a month later both of us went to police station and we was given a verbal warning for both of us. and i thought that thing had been settled.
But after few month latter i had received a magistrate complaint letter from court and i was informed to appear on court on this specified date. so as i was expected what was happening.
On the day, i met her there but we did not exchanged a words. she was acompanied by her lawyer. i see the judge at chamber and the judge told me she want a compensation of $5000 and i need to pay for her legal cost at around $1500-$1800. i told the judge that in her complaint letter is not a full fact of what really had happening. she did not mentioned that what is sparking cause of all this incident and she bought a knife to my place. so why do i need to pay for all this???? judge told her that or why dont i pay for her legal cost and ask me to do some donation to charity. i reply to him that i can make $1000 donation to charity but not a single cent to her legal cost. becoz she is the one who wan to sue me so she should pay for her own legal cost. but i was prepared that she would not want...
So this whole case got put on trial in near future and i had engagged a lawyer to fight for me.
so is this so called revenge love?? or what she really want???
i am very trouble of all this shits that she had done to me. so there one time when i go out with one my guy friend without telling her and i MIA for a night, the following day she called me and whe had a very heated arugment on phone. before she hanged up the phone she asked me to wait for her at my place in a very threating manner. so i would anticipated of what she will do next, either she would hurt herself or me. so i was alert and waited for her at my place. i had thought of making police report to leave for them to solve it but after i give it a thought maybo it not the best solution. so i just wait for her after around half an hour she arrived with a very agitated manner. so i just open my door and let her in and at a point of time she just slip into her bag and trying to take a penknife out. i quickly stopped her by grabbing her hand but she is very persitence of what she is doing. so i slapped her but thing get out of control so during the struggle i had made her blue black on her arms. but after sometime i had manage to cool her down and i told her that what she done is wrong. after that thing get calm and she left my place on the same day.
On the following day evening, she called me and i was having dinner with two of my guy friends and she called me. we had argument again becoz she asked me why i keep company my friend. everthing just repeat like yesterday and she asked me to go back home and wait for her and i remeber this time round she said she would kill me. i am very disappointed and angry of her behaviour. so i told her i would go down to police station to file a report of what she had done and said. so i asked one of my friend to drive me to cantoment police hq to make a report. so while on the way to police station she keep calling me and plead me not to report against her.
So when i reached police station i had reply of what had happen to the police officer over there. police officer asked me of what i want to do to her so i just said that i hope police would not proscecute her but just give her a warning or counselling.
And i was informed that she did report me of i had slapped her and her reporting officer called me and i explain to him what had happening and i did made a report and asked him to refer to it. a month later both of us went to police station and we was given a verbal warning for both of us. and i thought that thing had been settled.
But after few month latter i had received a magistrate complaint letter from court and i was informed to appear on court on this specified date. so as i was expected what was happening.
On the day, i met her there but we did not exchanged a words. she was acompanied by her lawyer. i see the judge at chamber and the judge told me she want a compensation of $5000 and i need to pay for her legal cost at around $1500-$1800. i told the judge that in her complaint letter is not a full fact of what really had happening. she did not mentioned that what is sparking cause of all this incident and she bought a knife to my place. so why do i need to pay for all this???? judge told her that or why dont i pay for her legal cost and ask me to do some donation to charity. i reply to him that i can make $1000 donation to charity but not a single cent to her legal cost. becoz she is the one who wan to sue me so she should pay for her own legal cost. but i was prepared that she would not want...
So this whole case got put on trial in near future and i had engagged a lawyer to fight for me.
so is this so called revenge love?? or what she really want???