[Real] Was my gf a virgin? (and advise)

[GirlsMaster]

Hi guys,

Recently, I had sex with my girlfriend for the first time. Before we had sex, I asked her if she is a virgin. She said she isn't. During our first time, I couldn't see whether her hymen was intact.

My fingernails were well cut and short. I fingered her vigorously and I noticed blood on my fingers when I pull it out of her vagina. But we thought nothing about it as she said that her period is around that period/day. So I went to wash away the blood and had sex with her.

After cumming, I pulled out my penis and saw blood. Then I switched on the light and OMG. There was a big patch of blood on the bed.

Do you think she was a virgin before it? She said that her period was around that time. But the worrying thing is it has been a month and she said her period has not yet come.

She has bough pregnancy test kit, but the results have been negative.

[Apocalypse]

If that was virgin, I must have deflowered a lot of virgin. Unfortunately the truth hurts. That's not virgin blood. :D

[sinner1234]

Dear bro girlsmaster,

to answer yr q and put you at ease the answer is. ..... No.

Also yr gf 99.9% not pregnant as the result of the preg kit is neg.

The blood discharge could be the period itself. Thus the next period is abt one mth later. Some ladies do encounter skipped period. My wife has tht.

If u r still sweating over it. Bring yr gf to a gp bah.

I felt yr concern is tht is if she is preg.......thus yr thread should be titled whether is she preg?

I feel being virgin or not in current times should not be conisdered a factor at all. My 1cts worth though.

[simple2kee]

yes, the discharge was likely due to her period. :D

[2centsworth]

If you finger her vigorously, it is likely that your finger nails have broken the skin of the inner walls of her vagina. She is bleeding as a result. Please treat the inner walls of the vagina with more care in future. When the skin tears, she might get infections easier.

[Big Sexy]

have u actually seen menses before??? i guess not...:D


After cumming, I pulled out my penis and saw blood. Then I switched on the light and OMG. There was a big patch of blood on the bed.

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[evo5speakers]

blood from breaking of hymen and mensus blood is of different shade! my virgin gf bled when we first had sex and bled the second time as well.. heard from her that there are occurences of second-time bleeding as well for virgins.. not too sure! experienced sex with 1 virgin and the trouble is enough!

[TupacShakur]

Definately from the menses

[LovePotion]

If you finger her vigorously, it is likely that your finger nails have broken the skin of the inner walls of her vagina. She is bleeding as a result. Please treat the inner walls of the vagina with more care in future. When the skin tears, she might get infections easier.

very true...


try not to be too rough and cause any internal bleeding of the vagina walls... she should be enjoying not in pain :rolleyes:

[Alantino]

wah TS, y not you try finger your nose vigorously.

woman's virgina is very delicate one lei. dun learn too much from jap porn. fast doesn't mean shiok.

[alan0338]

since she already told u she not virgin, then she is not virgin la, still need to ask meh? :confused: :rolleyes:

[Regirock]

Dear bro girlsmaster,

I feel being virgin or not in current times should not be conisdered a factor at all. My 1cts worth though.


i still think everyone should try a virgin once in their life though

[1bbcd5]

Also yr gf 99.9% not pregnant as the result of the preg kit is neg.

[LovePotion]

TS, 1 question.


did you cut and file your fingernails not?? :p

[LauBuaya]

About 10 years ago, I met this girl. She claimed that she was a virgin and she would not have pre-marital sex. After a few dates, I brought her to a budget hotel to stay overnight, she was delighted.

That bloody night when I was trying to insert my penis into her vagina, she kept screaming “wah, pain, pain, wah, pain”. At time, the amplitude of her screaming could shake the whole building. It sounded like somebody was slaughtering a pig.

After an hour of trying, I almost wanted to give up. I sought a last confirmation with her, “Do you want to be fucked or not?” She mumbled, “You just insert lah!”

So, I ignored her shriek and pushed my penis all the way in. Then I noticed no blood at all.

What do you want to comment about her?
1) Give her the benefit of doubt, she was a virgin.
or
2) She was a slut in disguise. Act virgin to gain points.

[flamenomore]

Nah, she's not a virgin. Happened to me before with my boyfriend. Shocked the hell out of him when the bed was stained with blood. Thought it was menses blood but it wasn't.

Sometimes when the guy is too rough or too passionate, it'll hurt inner walls of vagina, especially if she's hasn't had her time of the month yet.

So be gentle~

[newyorker88]

About 10 years ago, I met this girl. She claimed that she was a virgin and she would not have pre-marital sex. After a few dates, I brought her to a budget hotel to stay overnight, she was delighted.

That bloody night when I was trying to insert my penis into her vagina, she kept screaming “wah, pain, pain, wah, pain”. At time, the amplitude of her screaming could shake the whole building. It sounded like somebody was slaughtering a pig.

After an hour of trying, I almost wanted to give up. I sought a last confirmation with her, “Do you want to be fucked or not?” She mumbled, “You just insert lah!”

So, I ignored her shriek and pushed my penis all the way in. Then I noticed no blood at all.

What do you want to comment about her?
1) Give her the benefit of doubt, she was a virgin.
or
2) She was a slut in disguise. Act virgin to gain points.


Not all gals bleed the first time having sex. the hymen may tear, but not necessary blood.

Usually first time, alot of pain, that is true. and for the guy, it takes a bit of hard work to insert. The feeling is terrible for the gal and you can feel the tightness of the pussy.

Anyway, having sex with a virgin is not always fun and can be messy.

[naan1974]

If she's wet and she enjoy the session then 100% not a virgin .
All virgins felt like being rape during first penetration. I have never had a virgin
who was wet during the first penetration. Pain Pain Pain!

[5ag1_Boar]

Menses lah. If it was your fingernails she would have experience pain when you were fingering her. Very sensitive in there, you know?

Like crime, low flow does not mean no flow. At the start of menses, there may be little flow... but sex will usually cause the blood accumulating in the uterus to be released. Happens to me often when I do my gf during the start of her menses.

Secondly... sex during menses does not automatically equate cannot get pregnant. Sperm stays a live in the vagina/uterus for 3 days. If near the end of her menses and an ovum is released while the sperm is still alive, there is chance of pregnancy. Although... probably not the case here, since you did it at the start of her menses.

Sometimes I think nature play punk with us, or the female body react to the semen... a few times, when I do raw first time with my gfs, they will have late menses... damn stress while waiting.

[Constable]

She had already told you that she is not. Do you still need to verify it?

[GirlsMaster]

Yup she was wet when we did foreplay. Hm now I also think it might be menses blood. Because subsequent times when my fingers was a little longer and I wanted to finger her, she keep say pain.

I dont think my nails tear her walls in her vagina. Because the blood is really alot leh. One very big patch of blood.

[Apocalypse]

Its not menses.

Its the condom is not well lubricated and the cock is pounding hard, causing the inner walls to bleed.

If u were fingering her and she kana already means the way you finger her is wrong. U probably dig her love canal like u r digging your nose and trying to dig for gold. After the first round she is already bleeding, u dun give her time to recover, you ram the already weaken inner wall of cos there be blood. Doesn't take a genius to figure this out. Go easy on her. Dun dig so much. Play with her clit instead.

Find a position she wun bleed. For me, most girls I do in missionary will bleed so I avoid missionary.

[apemcc]

Can't comment if your gf is/was a virgin... Perhaps it was a trail of her menses or perhaps due to your "vigorous" fingering you could have scratched her vagina walls. She was probably bleeding... Please treat the "holy hole" with care and TLC. Anyway, we shouldn't make a fuss about gf/wife being virgins or not... If guys are going round enjoying with FL/WL/other gf or wife, lets just love the one we are with now instead of questioning their past :D