No luck with single men

[bellagerger]

Hi All,

Jus joined SBF not long ago... this forum is really interesting as there's so much stories to read from most gentlemen n few ladies here.;)

I will like to get suggestions from guys here on how to get myself attach with single men? I think some of the guys here will think I'm asking weird question.

But seriously, I have no luck with single men... majority of men that are going after me are either attached or married....:(

I'm in my late twenties... but yet still single...:(

hope i can hear some advice and suggestions soon...

Thanks in advance!!! :)

[ranger21]

Do something about your physical appearance (exercise, get quality clothing etc). Join activities that allows you to meet new friends (book clubs blah blah blah)

Or alternatively, just go to clubs! Zouk, Mink or Butter.

[darkice]

Hi All,

Jus joined SBF not long ago... this forum is really interesting as there's so much stories to read from most gentlemen n few ladies here.;)

I will like to get suggestions from guys here on how to get myself attach with single men? I think some of the guys here will think I'm asking weird question.

But seriously, I have no luck with single men... majority of men that are going after me are either attached or married....:(

I'm in my late twenties... but yet still single...:(

hope i can hear some advice and suggestions soon...

Thanks in advance!!! :)

Ask yourself why are only attached and married men after you ? could it be that you are too shy and need time to open up ? Or is it you only feel comfortable with married guys as you think that they will not go after you, unconsciously by opening up to them letting them get attracted to you ?

[RealEstateGuy]

Hi All,

Jus joined SBF not long ago... this forum is really interesting as there's so much stories to read from most gentlemen n few ladies here.;)

I will like to get suggestions from guys here on how to get myself attach with single men? I think some of the guys here will think I'm asking weird question.

But seriously, I have no luck with single men... majority of men that are going after me are either attached or married....:(

I'm in my late twenties... but yet still single...:(

hope i can hear some advice and suggestions soon...

Thanks in advance!!! :)
Sistah, we need more information. Looks inevitably matter (just like you want a handsome guy), your educational background, family background, etc. Your demeanor counts. For all guys, the "sweet element" can trump some of the other variables. Are you a sexy gal? Know how to treat a man and not the bitchy type (which is a major turnoff)? Are you good in the bedroom? Willing to use sex to hook a man? Sometimes to get a guy you need to make him constanly want it and want it from you only so bedroom skills are a must. Do you have common interests with the guy you want? For example some SG mean would want to talk about global topics. Are you well versed? Other SG men might only be interested in sports and gambling. Are you well versed?
Post a pic and we can give you an evaluation. Sistah, don't be shy!

[ktcabi54]

very soon u will have yr mailbox flooded with lots of PM ... as there sure alot of SINGLE guys out here ... hahaha

[thrush]

I think most of the good guys of suitable age range are already taken.

[lonereth]

at times i wonder, are we already in the era here that, girls are more than guys liao?

[muscularman]

Hi All,

Jus joined SBF not long ago... this forum is really interesting as there's so much stories to read from most gentlemen n few ladies here.;)

I will like to get suggestions from guys here on how to get myself attach with single men? I think some of the guys here will think I'm asking weird question.

But seriously, I have no luck with single men... majority of men that are going after me are either attached or married....

I'm in my late twenties... but yet still single...

hope i can hear some advice and suggestions soon...

Thanks in advance!!! :)


me single and muscular, any chance to hook up :D

[kensheeh89]

i guess i said it all in my msg to u.... oh well it really depends on fate tts wat i feel...

[Dsolsz]

I am single :)

Anyway to answer your question. Try dating agencies. Especially SDU recognized ones. They have to ensure that all members are single (else their membership are void)

[JulianLuther]

Hi All,

Jus joined SBF not long ago... this forum is really interesting as there's so much stories to read from most gentlemen n few ladies here.;)

I will like to get suggestions from guys here on how to get myself attach with single men? I think some of the guys here will think I'm asking weird question.

But seriously, I have no luck with single men... majority of men that are going after me are either attached or married....:(

I'm in my late twenties... but yet still single...:(

hope i can hear some advice and suggestions soon...

Thanks in advance!!! :)


Firstly do you know what type of men you are looking for ?

[guess67]

TS, list down yr criteria so that the guys will know if they should send in their resume to u...

Good luck!

[unsung80]

Wow TS your PM box is flooded. Type a long one but got rejected.

[2526242]

Wow at least you ge to know more guys now. Knowing them is ok but at least enjoy yourself to the fullest. Happy Chinese new year cheers

[Demonkin7]

As the old saying.
The very good one r dead n buried.
The better ones r married.
The not bad ones r attached.
The rich ones r very old.
The sensitive ones like guys.

So hard to find a good one that is single n aren't broken.
Sister slowly find u r still young.
So many guys after u hopefully some single n like ur character will court u.
There r also single guys who r player.
So just relax n choice wisely dun rush.

[erictanyili]

I Guess most good looking or eligible bachelors are well sought after similar to pretty and demured ladies. This is what is happening in my group of friends, the 2 childish guys keep tackling new ladies to no avail. But the same guy(unfortunately neither handsome nor rich) keep getting the attention of the ladies. You might just take some initiative to chat up with the single guys. & happy CNY. :)

[blaze85]

My name is Jayson and i m single n available... Care 4 a chat?? 92267348 or [email protected]

[onegoal]

Why not consider spending some money on simple plastic surgery.
It will make you look more attractive and more singles guys will come knocking on you.

Many celebrities has done it.
Xiaxue is one of them.

From a ugly duck, to someone better looking.

[itguide]

Hi Hi,

Just a thought,... Perhaps starts with non-single and see what man really want and then apply it on singles.

I hope you find someone. Have fun,
IT Guy

[devilbiker]

I'm still single.. So can try luck??

[watmidoin]

i m a single male. we meet in this forum now. can i apply? :D

[drahcir]

Take your pick from the large pool of guys here.

I myself have not meet anyone from this forum. But We try, everything have to try, before you know it.

[arsenal_84]

if TS need a strolling companion, i'm all ears.
no doubt cny can be a bothersome period for singles, after this period, things will return to normal.

[chnhubby71]

Hi Sis, it is not the LUCK that you are referring, it should consider Fate & destiny in your life.

Some gals that I came to know till date are still Single even tough they have the Look and Figure. But fate is not with them that all.

Just let nature take it place and do not worry too much. Just enjoy whatever it comes along in your way will do. Cheer!

[xia0benxi0ng]

23male, looking for long term flings..
chinese
ht 172 wt 58
if interested please send mi private msg ur contact thanks.
nt interested in changing cloth type :p

[hotstuffm8]

trolololol

[evil_cult]

i agree with u sis. i'm a single guy and most of my friends (guys n gals) are all married, and yet i don't seem to have any luck coming across girls who are single. and i'm not even ugly!

[sedulous]

As the old saying.
The very good one r dead n buried.
The better ones r married.
The not bad ones r attached.
The rich ones r very old.
The sensitive ones like guys.

So hard to find a good one that is single n aren't broken.
Sister slowly find u r still young.
So many guys after u hopefully some single n like ur character will court u.
There r also single guys who r player.
So just relax n choice wisely dun rush.

Very true and apt too.

[Ben225111]

Hi sis, your inbox is full already, can try shanghai dolly la, my auntie also chong there to make frenz. i also late twenties somemore is the very end of the twenties =.='', my auntie jio mi go there to get to noe more ppl. left e clubbing scene beri along already !!!! lol.... the crowd there is mature crowd like u and mi :)

[auntygranny]

This thread reminds me of a girl friend.

Sexy with cute seductive face. But men just want to fuck her and go... Sad right?

She just has to open her eyes wide.

[Tai_zi21]

This thread reminds me of a girl friend.

Sexy with cute seductive face. But men just want to fuck her and go... Sad right?

She just has to open her eyes wide.

How often is love at first sight? prob it lust at first sight i guess?

Without understanding the person and u choose to have sex with him,sometime you can only blame urself i guess isn't it?

[bellagerger]

Dear All,

Really appreciated with all suggestions and pm... some of the suggestions from samsters here quite interesting :p

Maybe I shld provide more informations about myself in order to receive better suggestions from samsters here.

Basically, why I have no luck with single men is due to my work... Majority of the men I know in my area of work is ALL attached or married...:( sad right????

And due to my hectic workload and very frequent out stations (normally 2 weeks I'm out of sg).. Its make it more difficult for me to know new guy friends..

But normally nobody will think I'm still single... because I not that bad looking BUT not drop dead gorgeous but sure not ugly.:o

hoping to receive more suggestions :p

[bellagerger]

By the way... I'm still under moderation so my reply and pm with be REALLY REALLY REALLY SSSSS LLLLLL OOOOOO WWWWWW.....:(

Please bear with me......

[solamesio]

hey there, personally i feel, to find a fling is very easy to find someone who is single and getting together for long term is another thing. U can try dating more guy and also join activity that u like. Common Interest is very important. IF sex is a common interest well u can just find a fling first because i belief relationship is more then that but of cos it can't do without sex.
feel free to write out what u do and etc so single guy here can get to know u more also and they can take try thier luck to jio u

[Highjoys]

This is not the place to look for decent guys as bf. Unless you wan sexual experiences but of cos must remember to do with protection

Regards
Sam

[jasdude]

Single men! lots of them in here! however there will be impostors as well. Impromptu meetings at night on weekends will filter many married and attached men away.

[BiRd13]

Dear TS,

Probably you will like to state your requirement in looking for the other half... And of course, some more details about yourself (Best provide with a pic).

I believe you have received tons of pm right now.

Agreed with some bros here... Most good man are already taken.. While some bad guy are left behind... Feel proud of yourself that attach/married are interested in you... And do not feel sad that none is single guy...

Once again, wishing you best of luck... =)

[geckoSG]

Sis, no worries... I'm sure you'll find someone, dun forget... Good men are
taken as soon as someone finds their virtues.

The thing is, know what you are expecting, most single guys may not want
to settle down if that's what you are looking for... If you are seeking guys
from SBF, make sure you are mentally prepared for the worst scenarios and
pin small hope for good long terms RS (if that is wat your ultimate aim is)

Good luck in your search for your single men, confidence is what you really
need.

[Greendevil]

Sis, men ard you whom are attached or married are still going after you, could it be a case of giving out the wrong signal unintentionally?

[fb0407]

Hi All,

Jus joined SBF not long ago... this forum is really interesting as there's so much stories to read from most gentlemen n few ladies here.;)

I will like to get suggestions from guys here on how to get myself attach with single men? I think some of the guys here will think I'm asking weird question.

But seriously, I have no luck with single men... majority of men that are going after me are either attached or married....:(

I'm in my late twenties... but yet still single...:(

hope i can hear some advice and suggestions soon...

Thanks in advance!!! :)

Hi ts, some point of views :

Probably your dressing? Married and attached guys probably attracted to your way of dressings, ESP married men.

Probably what your mind is always thinking too. I call it the universe. This universe in everybody's mind will respond to your call someday.

Lastly, relax abit. Sometimes the unexpected will just pop up in your life without you noticing it.

Best of luck ts

[Xgenre]

Basically, why I have no luck with single men is due to my work... Majority of the men I know in my area of work is ALL attached or married...sad right????

And due to my hectic workload and very frequent out stations (normally 2 weeks I'm out of sg).. Its make it more difficult for me to know new guy friends..

But normally nobody will think I'm still single... because I not that bad looking BUT not drop dead gorgeous but sure not ugly.:o

hoping to receive more suggestions

Try not to date within the same industry. It could be awkward meeting your ex if the relationship fails. Some couples even think... will we be retrenched together if our industry suffers from a downturn? Things you need to plan if you are thinking of long term goals like marriage and kids.

You definitely aren't treading on new ground. A lot of older women (married to work, normal calibre girls) face your problems when they were at your stage in life. Why not consult the girls 5-10 years older than you and ask them how they find their partners? It's better advice than to consult guys lurking in a sex forum right?

Here's what I will do if I were you. Have you met single guys who are great husband material? Responsible, loving but you have no connection with for whatever reasons (maybe too tall, looks don't suit you, don't have common interests). Quite a waste of a good man if he remains single. Quite a waste of a good woman if you remain single as well.

Why not gather a few good single ladies and organise an event (BBQ, go sing K, concert in the park, cycling in ubin, watching things in esplanade, go weekends flea market, potluck, go visit sex toys shop together, at night drive through the geylang lorongs to eee and wah at the china girls standing by the street)? Please tell the guy you are inviting that you aren't dating him, you just want him to tag along to a fun event. Most guys are dumb enough not to know they are being invited to a match-making event. :p So if 10 girls bring 10 guys, each girl knows she has 9 confirmed single guys, who are vetted by 1 girl in the group, to choose from. If 1 girl brings a rubbish guy, she gets 'banned' from future events so each girl then must do some homework to weed out the weirdos.

You know some of the events I suggested are jokes right? ;)

[owl888]

TS, u sure wanna find bf here in SBF? I m sure there are dating websites more appropriate than SBF:confused:

[HCKing]

Dear All,

Really appreciated with all suggestions and pm... some of the suggestions from samsters here quite interesting :p

Maybe I shld provide more informations about myself in order to receive better suggestions from samsters here.

Basically, why I have no luck with single men is due to my work... Majority of the men I know in my area of work is ALL attached or married...:( sad right????

And due to my hectic workload and very frequent out stations (normally 2 weeks I'm out of sg).. Its make it more difficult for me to know new guy friends..

But normally nobody will think I'm still single... because I not that bad looking BUT not drop dead gorgeous but sure not ugly.:o

hoping to receive more suggestions :p

got to socialise more to know new guys. most of my female friends got attached thru group outings where fellow friends will jio their friends and friend's friends together and mix around. not only its fun but also easier to gather info on the party that u r interested to know more.

[boy_2910]

My name is Jayson and i m single n available... Care 4 a chat?? 92267348 or [email protected] lame.................................old school....CARE 4 A CHAT???HAHAHAHA:D

[Krazzie]

Congrats, you have just gotten plenty of single guys' resumes in your mailbox, take your time to pick through them just be careful of any guys who are faking their status ;)

Or you can try SDN or related agencies, people who take part have to be single and they do background check to make sure everyone involved are single, went to a few before and its quite interesting just ignore any stigmas you may feel about going to a dating agency.

One last thing, you may have the "playful" or "just out to have fun" vibe that repel single guys and attract the attached and married ones, try asking close guy friends if you give off that vibe which maybe causing you all this troubles :)

[Krazzie]

My name is Jayson and i m single n available... Care 4 a chat?? 92267348 or [email protected]

Bro too much personal info out in the open!

:eek::D

[mclovin]

just sit back and relax :) no need to rush, time will come :)

[cocobun]

out station 2 weeks every month!! wow!! if you manage to find a guy here, he's damn lucky to have the chance making out with other women while you are away...

wonder who will be the lucky man....

[Ravenzou]

Sis TS, I always believe in Fate, so when Fate somehow brought a guy infront of you, try to reach out and give a try rather than waiting for Fate to grab you. Relationship is also like a road trip you will encounter good and bad, so don't be discourage and also don't set yourself too high standards as sometimes things are not always appear as they seems to be.

Just my 2 cents. Don't Give up :D

[siaolang17]

No luck with single men


alamak ... i tot i m the only one that no luck with single gal or women :(:confused:

all my frenzz was bout ah soh type sia ... wtf ... i tot cny holidays over liao???:p

[bellagerger]

Dear all,

I really appreciate tons of suggestions given by samsters here.
Actually, I'm not seeking for flings or ONS here.. Yes I know this a se forum after all. But I feel I'm still able to make decent frzs ard ya??? (correct me if I'm wrong)

I'm kind of longing for real, serious rs... But no fate or chance.. I know most samsters here said time will come, sit back and relax let's fate do the job... Etc

But I feel I need to do something to stand a chance to be e chosen one from SINGLE man... I do try outings n stuffs... but it does not helps much as I not in sg for 2 wks every mth!!!

I even tried online website.. But most of the guys there r looking for fun.... :(

[Xgenre]

but it does not helps much as I not in sg for 2 wks every mth!!!

If you are serious about finding love, why not change your job to something more permanent here? Seems like your constant absence is unsettling on your personal life and love life. Am I right? Are you under contract, which is why you can't quit yet? Air stewardess?

[bellagerger]

Not air stewardess... Yes I agreed with ur statement my job kill my social life.. N I'm planning to find another job which dun require me to travel that often..

If you are serious about finding love, why not change your job to something more permanent here? Seems like your constant absence is unsettling on your personal life and love life. Am I right? Are you under contract, which is why you can't quit yet? Air stewardess?

[tromba]

sis
just relax
even this is a sex forum
we are still human
=)

[onlyhuman]

Dear all,

I really appreciate tons of suggestions given by samsters here.
Actually, I'm not seeking for flings or ONS here.. Yes I know this a se forum after all. But I feel I'm still able to make decent frzs ard ya??? (correct me if I'm wrong)

I'm kind of longing for real, serious rs... But no fate or chance.. I know most samsters here said time will come, sit back and relax let's fate do the job... Etc

But I feel I need to do something to stand a chance to be e chosen one from SINGLE man... I do try outings n stuffs... but it does not helps much as I not in sg for 2 wks every mth!!!

I even tried online website.. But most of the guys there r looking for fun.... :(

U can try PM me and start dating me for a starter.:D

[bellagerger]

Thks I suppose u r joking...

U can try PM me and start dating me for a starter.:D

[bellagerger]

That's y I'm here seeking suggestion :)
Men in sex forum still human :)

sis
just relax
even this is a sex forum
we are still human
=)

[josperm]

That's y I'm here seeking suggestion :)
Men in sex forum still human :)

but still men in sex forum looks for sex more then other thing.

[hornyfcuker]

TS, wrong place to seek advice for issues of the heart...but here's one piece i can give...dun ever compromise on what you seek...just open your eyes wide...sometimes that person is already in your life or he's just around the corner...and most importantly if it's meant to happen, it will...u cant stop it no matter what...

:)

[blaze85]

Bro too much personal info out in the open!

:eek::D

Oppx... Sorry abt tat... Thanx 4 ur reminder...

[dk1903]

at your age, there are probably quite a few social events like wedding, house-warming and even baby showers. lots of good and available men go to such events. a lot of single gals tend to shy away from such events, for fear of answering awkward questions like how come u r still single, etc.

i have female friends who are frequent travellers too. when they r in town, they go to pubs to chill. they end up with lots of phone nos, but none of these men are available or looking to settle down.

so sister, what it comes down to is where r u going to look for single men, location, location, location - that's the key! church, restaurants and friends/colleagues' homes - these r your best shots! :)

[DO_YOU_BJ]

hi all,

jus joined sbf not long ago... This forum is really interesting as there's so much stories to read from most gentlemen n few ladies here.;)

i will like to get suggestions from guys here on how to get myself attach with single men? I think some of the guys here will think i'm asking weird question.

But seriously, i have no luck with single men... Majority of men that are going after me are either attached or married....:(

i'm in my late twenties... But yet still single...:(

hope i can hear some advice and suggestions soon...

Thanks in advance!!! :)

你有没有想过，你的命，可能就是二奶命呢？
Actually, your current lifestyle, i.e all that zooming around is already a big prob to get into any serious relationship.
Even if you did, you'll be so worried your other half might go seek RELEASE elsewhere since you're not around half of the year.
All you want is to hv someone around when you're back correct?
Honestly, your current status is totally not to your advantage.
But, if you're looking for a fling or even a married man who can be there for you when you ARE around, I think you'll be better off.
Go looking when conditions are rite, but looking when conditions are not rite are a perfect recipe for a disaster!

[BiRd13]

Dear all,

I really appreciate tons of suggestions given by samsters here.
Actually, I'm not seeking for flings or ONS here.. Yes I know this a se forum after all. But I feel I'm still able to make decent frzs ard ya??? (correct me if I'm wrong)

I'm kind of longing for real, serious rs... But no fate or chance.. I know most samsters here said time will come, sit back and relax let's fate do the job... Etc

But I feel I need to do something to stand a chance to be e chosen one from SINGLE man... I do try outings n stuffs... but it does not helps much as I not in sg for 2 wks every mth!!!

I even tried online website.. But most of the guys there r looking for fun.... :(

Are you working as Auditor? I have friend who work as Auditor whereby she traveled very often too. Same as you, usually travel for 1-2 weeks per month. She's currently attached and be marrying soon in June... =)

There's a few ways to find better guy... One is to quit your job like what other bros mentioned... The other way is during your free time, go for some social gathering with friends etc... Or probably ask your friend to introduce some to you... Last resort, to go for those match-making agencies/service... =)

I'm kind of curious... How old are you? The friend I mentioned was 33 before she found her bf/financee...and dated for about 1yr before decided to settle down...

[cocobun]

Dear all,

I really appreciate tons of suggestions given by samsters here.
Actually, I'm not seeking for flings or ONS here.. Yes I know this a se forum after all. But I feel I'm still able to make decent frzs ard ya??? (correct me if I'm wrong)

I'm kind of longing for real, serious rs... But no fate or chance.. I know most samsters here said time will come, sit back and relax let's fate do the job... Etc

But I feel I need to do something to stand a chance to be e chosen one from SINGLE man... I do try outings n stuffs... but it does not helps much as I not in sg for 2 wks every mth!!!

I even tried online website.. But most of the guys there r looking for fun.... :(

valid and reasonable answer. if you have time tomorrow, come join our gathering after office hour. you can chat with guys and there's ladies to make friends with. Details at http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showpost.php?p=6813270&postcount=8690

U can try PM me and start dating me for a starter.:D

你还是人吗? 说这样的话.....:D

When we go drinking again??

[Myrddin]

Huh, actually, I don't really think that not being around half the time is that much of a problem. Not if you play it right. Just be slightly more aggressive, join classes, make friends, ask others out. I recently got a job with shift timing, hence I had to do the same thing. Forum is a great way to make friends, by getting everyone out in a group meeting. Just don't go in with the concept of *i'm hunting for a bf*. instead, think more about making friends, widen your pool of contacts, etc etc. Nature works better with a larger pool. :D

[HunterJ]

I believe looks doesn't play a part, nor do job. Every person will eventually meet someone in their life, no matter is a life long partner, companion, marrying-partner, etc.. Age, profession, skin colour, race, height, weight, all doesn't matter. It is just a personal preference of each individual.

Anyway, good luck in your search for someone who is willing to be part of your life. :)

[bellagerger]

True... locations are IMPORTANT factor.. I dun club so not into flings or ons stuffs...

at your age, there are probably quite a few social events like wedding, house-warming and even baby showers. lots of good and available men go to such events. a lot of single gals tend to shy away from such events, for fear of answering awkward questions like how come u r still single, etc.

i have female friends who are frequent travellers too. when they r in town, they go to pubs to chill. they end up with lots of phone nos, but none of these men are available or looking to settle down.

so sister, what it comes down to is where r u going to look for single men, location, location, location - that's the key! church, restaurants and friends/colleagues' homes - these r your best shots! :)

[bellagerger]

cross finger!!! i dun wan to have 二奶命... but seriously i hv many approach from them... :( I've plan to quit my job and look for job which dun required much traveling...
你有没有想过，你的命，可能就是二奶命呢？
Actually, your current lifestyle, i.e all that zooming around is already a big prob to get into any serious relationship.
Even if you did, you'll be so worried your other half might go seek RELEASE elsewhere since you're not around half of the year.
All you want is to hv someone around when you're back correct?
Honestly, your current status is totally not to your advantage.
But, if you're looking for a fling or even a married man who can be there for you when you ARE around, I think you'll be better off.
Go looking when conditions are rite, but looking when conditions are not rite are a perfect recipe for a disaster!

[bellagerger]

Hi, Im 29 this year... yes i plan to quit my job n stay in sg to look for another job which dun require too much traveling. :o

Are you working as Auditor? I have friend who work as Auditor whereby she traveled very often too. Same as you, usually travel for 1-2 weeks per month. She's currently attached and be marrying soon in June... =)

There's a few ways to find better guy... One is to quit your job like what other bros mentioned... The other way is during your free time, go for some social gathering with friends etc... Or probably ask your friend to introduce some to you... Last resort, to go for those match-making agencies/service... =)

I'm kind of curious... How old are you? The friend I mentioned was 33 before she found her bf/financee...and dated for about 1yr before decided to settle down...

[bellagerger]

I hope I'm able to get SINGLE man and settle down:p

I believe looks doesn't play a part, nor do job. Every person will eventually meet someone in their life, no matter is a life long partner, companion, marrying-partner, etc.. Age, profession, skin colour, race, height, weight, all doesn't matter. It is just a personal preference of each individual.

Anyway, good luck in your search for someone who is willing to be part of your life. :)

[Sporty]

Wat a real surprise to see a gal post such thread.
Nice.
I'm An exact male version of yrs, expect tat I dun nid to travel. Haha.
But, it seems tat I oso nid to knw more gals out ther. ESP, gals lik u whom not into clubbing. Lol.
Good Luck to Both of Us!!

[bellagerger]

Dear All,

I had received lots of pm from friendly samsters here..
and I do received PMs asking for flings and ONS stuffs:(

But actually the reason why i start my thread here is to get more ideas to know more single men... but I'M NOT INTO FLING,ONS.... stuffs.....:(

Maybe I shld make it clear here.. I will like to make new friends with SINGLE men...

Perhaps with some criteria:

Age: 29-38
Race: chinese
Friendly,look presentable
Don ask me for clubbing
Don ask me to drink
maybe short intro abt yourself in ur pm will be good.:o

[cocobun]

Dear All,

I had received lots of pm from friendly samsters here..
and I do received PMs asking for flings and ONS stuffs:(

But actually the reason why i start my thread here is to get more ideas to know more single men... but I'M NOT INTO FLING,ONS.... stuffs.....:(

Maybe I shld make it clear here.. I will like to make new friends with SINGLE men...

Perhaps with some criteria:

Age: 29-38
Race: chinese
Friendly,look presentable
Don ask me for clubbing
Don ask me to drink
maybe short intro abt yourself in ur pm will be good.:o

there's plenty, try the hypermarts, markets, community centers, libraries etc...

[1stTR]

Dear All,

I had received lots of pm from friendly samsters here..
and I do received PMs asking for flings and ONS stuffs:(

But actually the reason why i start my thread here is to get more ideas to know more single men... but I'M NOT INTO FLING,ONS.... stuffs.....:(

Maybe I shld make it clear here.. I will like to make new friends with SINGLE men...

Perhaps with some criteria:

Age: 29-38
Race: chinese
Friendly,look presentable
Don ask me for clubbing
Don ask me to drink
maybe short intro abt yourself in ur pm will be good.:o

Hi TS, maybe u can try those dating services for single.

[lglg666]

Seriously, since you have no luck with single men... majority of men that are going after me are either attached or married....:( Why not go with the flow and meet and make up with these guys first. You might learn something from them too if you have an "open" mind.

Do remember the old saying that "Time and tide wait for no men or women"

[SH149]

Thks I suppose u r joking...

Sis u r wrong !

Bro onlyhuman is really single n available as he is not seeing anyone for quite few years
For this I can vouched for him as we stay nearby and support the same football club

If u r serious of finding a guy to settle down u can consider him :)
Btw his age also suit u ( not like me old uncle Liao )

[bellagerger]

Ic.. But he sounds too direct and I Thot he's joking :)
Thks for the clarification.

Sis u r wrong !

Bro onlyhuman is really single n available as he is not seeing anyone for quite few years
For this I can vouched for him as we stay nearby and support the same football club

If u r serious of finding a guy to settle down u can consider him :)
Btw his age also suit u ( not like me old uncle Liao )

[SH149]

Ic.. But he sounds too direct and I Thot he's joking :)
Thks for the clarification.

Well in any case if he did not pm u n u like to know him better just pm me I sure help u on this ( since he n I stay around the same neighborhood ) :)

[Joyful7]

Dear All,

Maybe I shld make it clear here.. I will like to make new friends with SINGLE men...

Perhaps with some criteria:

Age: 29-38
Race: chinese
Friendly,look presentable
Don ask me for clubbing
Don ask me to drink
maybe short intro abt yourself in ur pm will be good.:o

I look you up not to go clubbing or drink but to RWS counted or not? You can share with me your 6th sense on which numbers I should place my bet. :o

[solamesio]

nnic one joy

[bellagerger]

Huh RWS? I haven hv the chance to visit too.. What numbers u referring to?
4D or toto Hahahaha din think that's what u mean right?

I look you up not to go clubbing or drink but to RWS counted or not? You can share with me your 6th sense on which numbers I should place my bet. :o

[solamesio]

u like to lim teh anot i very free can lim teh talk cock

[Joyful7]

Huh RWS? I haven hv the chance to visit too.. What numbers u referring to?
4D or toto Hahahaha din think that's what u mean right?

The moment I stepped into RWS, I will announce to the whole world or ask yahoo to publish for me because it is my first time there as well. :p

RWS got 4D or toto meh? Placing on numbers mean placing a bet on either 1 or 2 or 3 or 4 or 5 or 6 then wait for the banker to ding ding, lift up the jingle bell then faster faster peep into it & see what numbers are in there among the 3 dices. :)

[Joyful7]

nnic one joy

Don't ever underestimate the senses coming from a lady. :p

[gobal100]

Mix around with friend or ask them intro friends to you. brighten your life. the rest will follow up. don rush things out. you will sure find your way out.

[tokoloshe]

The time will come. Just hang in there and be happy.

[Sapphirez]

Reading this, I think I might have this 二奶命 or I am more attracted in attached or married man. :confused:

I have been around with attached and older guys recently.
Even though I know things won't be anywhere for the both of us,
I still sort of put in my real feelings till one day he has to make his decision to pick either me or her.

Yes, he chose her. :(


Anyw ...
I know how you feel sis. We are on the same boat except I am not busy with work. Valentine's day is coming... And I am not liking it. :mad:

Nevertheless, I wish you good luck in finding a perfect single man. :D

[Joyful7]

Reading this, I think I might have this 二奶命 or I am more attracted in attached or married man. :confused:

I have been around with attached and older guys recently.
Even though I know things won't be anywhere for the both of us,
I still sort of put in my real feelings till one day he has to make his decision to pick either me or her.

Yes, he chose her. :(



There is always this term "Inevitability" pertaining to relationship as well as... for example... funds.

1) You have always wished to own a LV bag when you are just that short of $2000. But when you have more than enough to purchase a LV bag, a lot of times, you will in turn not purchasing but admiring it instead.

It is true that you once deeply desired for it. But now... psychologically... you knew that you always have a choice anytime even at the cost of losing the model that you love yet you don't really feel the pain because the next model could be something that worth your patience.

It can be how well you manage your funds. :)

2) You have always wished to have a boyfriend. But when you guys have bonded a more-than-enough friendship, you will in turn appreciate for what you have already been given because he can always be by your side with no pressure, commitment but sincerity.

It is true that you once deeply desired for him. But now... psychologically... you knew that you always have a choice that will boils down to either winning him for who knows how long or losing him for life. Relationship... can be a big word but simple meaning of friendship with loves.

It can be how well you manage your relationship. :)

[bellagerger]

Dear Sapphirez,

dun give up n in future try not to get involved with attached guys it really won't bring you anywhere...

I also wish you good luck in finding a perfect single man. we jia you together!!!

Reading this, I think I might have this 二奶命 or I am more attracted in attached or married man. :confused:

I have been around with attached and older guys recently.
Even though I know things won't be anywhere for the both of us,
I still sort of put in my real feelings till one day he has to make his decision to pick either me or her.

Yes, he chose her. :(


Anyw ...
I know how you feel sis. We are on the same boat except I am not busy with work. Valentine's day is coming... And I am not liking it. :mad:

Nevertheless, I wish you good luck in finding a perfect single man. :D

[Sapphirez]

There is always this term "Inevitability" pertaining to relationship as well as... for example... funds.

1) You have always wished to own a LV bag when you are just that short of $2000. But when you have more than enough to purchase a LV bag, a lot of times, you will in turn not purchasing but admiring it instead.

It is true that you once deeply desired for it. But now... psychologically... you knew that you always have a choice anytime even at the cost of losing the model that you love yet you don't really feel the pain because the next model could be something that worth your patience.

It can be how well you manage your funds.

2) You have always wished to have a boyfriend. But when you guys have bonded a more-than-enough friendship, you will in turn appreciate for what you have already been given because he can always be by your side with no pressure, commitment but sincerity.

It is true that you once deeply desired for him. But now... psychologically... you knew that you always have a choice that will boils down to either winning him for who knows how long or losing him for life. Relationship... can be a big word but simple meaning of friendship with loves.

It can be how well you manage your relationship. :)


Totally agree to your point number 1! I am totally someone like that! You totally see through me! :eek::eek:

Thanks for your advice anyway. ;)

[Joyful7]

Totally agree to your point number 1! I am totally someone like that! You totally see through me! :eek::eek:

Thanks for your advice anyway. ;)

You are always welcome. We are in the world of webs, the joy comes from giving or sharing.

Do note to wear an extra T-shirt on you & preferably accompanied by a checkers' shirt. One side of the sleeves folded up while the other side let it flows. You can even option for the extreme by having your hair real short to see whether you still attracts the same group of grown-up-boys. :p

[bryant90]

same problem with u but different gender. seems that all the girls I'm interested in is attached!

[bellagerger]

Hahaha ur jokes is funny : D


The moment I stepped into RWS, I will announce to the whole world or ask yahoo to publish for me because it is my first time there as well. :p

RWS got 4D or toto meh? Placing on numbers mean placing a bet on either 1 or 2 or 3 or 4 or 5 or 6 then wait for the banker to ding ding, lift up the jingle bell then faster faster peep into it & see what numbers are in there among the 3 dices. :)

[AC_Milan]

Hahaha ur jokes is funny : D

hi, u free on valentine's day ? ;)

[onlyhuman]

Thks I suppose u r joking...

Eh no I m not leh...aiyo instead of reading and receiving tons of pm...why try pming :D

[Joyful7]

Hahaha ur jokes is funny : D

At first I'm wondering why is my neighbors shss... shss... shss... over to me? Now I'm understood. Because they could hear your laughter. But don't worry about that, I will get a set of ear plugs for each of them later on in the day.

Continue to stay cheerful & your luck will come. :)

[bellagerger]

But I do reply ur pm


Eh no I m not leh...aiyo instead of reading and receiving tons of pm...why try pming :D

[bluecola2003]

Hi All,

Jus joined SBF not long ago... this forum is really interesting as there's so much stories to read from most gentlemen n few ladies here.;)

I will like to get suggestions from guys here on how to get myself attach with single men? I think some of the guys here will think I'm asking weird question.

But seriously, I have no luck with single men... majority of men that are going after me are either attached or married....:(

I'm in my late twenties... but yet still single...:(

hope i can hear some advice and suggestions soon...

Thanks in advance!!! :)

Ahh.... that makes that two of us then! I can't seem to get into a relationship as well! Reading your thread is, I must say, quite interesting.

Alot of other bros here have made some interesting and do-able suggestions. However, my personal opinion is, if you like your job (or the industry you are in) why change it? Being happy with what one is doing is paramount to your personal well-being.

Good luck in your search. And sincerely wishing that you'll find the best person for you.

“Luck is what happens when preparation meets opportunity.” - Seneca (Roman philosopher, mid-1st century AD)

[bellagerger]

Thks!!! I do like my job alot but not e traveling.. Well cannot get best of both world so need to decide what I wan in life..

I dun wan to be alone when I'm old.. N looking forward to hv kids too


Ahh.... that makes that two of us then! I can't seem to get into a relationship as well! Reading your thread is, I must say, quite interesting.

Alot of other bros here have made some interesting and do-able suggestions. However, my personal opinion is, if you like your job (or the industry you are in) why change it? Being happy with what one is doing is paramount to your personal well-being.

Good luck in your search. And sincerely wishing that you'll find the best person for you.

“Luck is what happens when preparation meets opportunity.” - Seneca (Roman philosopher, mid-1st century AD)

[cocobun]

Eh no I m not leh...aiyo instead of reading and receiving tons of pm...why try pming :D

Do you want kids.......hehe

[goodmassage]

I know this chap that possesses the following criteria:
- 186cm / 6'2"
- 86kg (when in NS, back in 1998)
- Tertiary Ed
- 6"
- Single if relationship with you works out:D

I jest...

Wrong place to look for a guy lah.

Imagine you intro to your friends...

gfs: SOOoooooo.......pray tell, how you yáll meet?
you: Sammyboyforum...
gfs: what's that? Online chat?
you: Yeap, its an online sex forum...
gfs:*silence...

:p

[bellagerger]

Thks :)u r really "joyful"


At first I'm wondering why is my neighbors shss... shss... shss... over to me? Now I'm understood. Because they could hear your laughter. But don't worry about that, I will get a set of ear plugs for each of them later on in the day.

Continue to stay cheerful & your luck will come. :)

[bellagerger]

Thks.. We but I more of looking for suggestions...

I know this chap that possesses the following criteria:
- 186cm / 6'2"
- 86kg (when in NS, back in 1998)
- Tertiary Ed
- 6"
- Single if relationship with you works out:D

I jest...

Wrong place to look for a guy lah.

Imagine you intro to your friends...

gfs: SOOoooooo.......pray tell, how you yáll meet?
you: Sammyboyforum...
gfs: what's that? Online chat?
you: Yeap, its an online sex forum...
gfs:*silence...

:p

[Dsolsz]

Generally, social circle won't be as wide as in school after you start work.
So really need to participate in other social activities outside of work to expand your social circle.

[lostheart]

if you ok and not fat .. i don't see why u can't get attached cheers ! :)

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

.. Well cannot get best of both world so need to decide what I wan in life..

I dun wan to be alone when I'm old.. N looking forward to hv kids too

We marry when the time is right. Women marry when the guy is right. ;):p

[sadsky18]

if you ok and not fat .. i don't see why u can't get attached cheers ! :)

bro , doesnt mean plump people cannot find true love .
The word "fat" is abit hurting .

We call it plump , cute , bah bah .

I find this type of girls will treasure treasure their boys more than those slim type ( they always thought they hve tons of suitors )

[sadsky18]

Dear All,

I had received lots of pm from friendly samsters here..
and I do received PMs asking for flings and ONS stuffs:(

But actually the reason why i start my thread here is to get more ideas to know more single men... but I'M NOT INTO FLING,ONS.... stuffs.....:(

Maybe I shld make it clear here.. I will like to make new friends with SINGLE men...

Perhaps with some criteria:

Age: 29-38
Race: chinese
Friendly,look presentable
Don ask me for clubbing
Don ask me to drink
maybe short intro abt yourself in ur pm will be good.:o

Dear Sis ,

Why dont try those dating agency ?
Got professional guys to chose from .

I mean in a sex forum ? erm ..... you might end up getting a .............. you know :")

[superoy]

google IRC and join lo...sure can find single men

[SH149]

But I do reply ur pm

Sis he these 2 days din log in I already inform him that u pm him Liao

[bellagerger]

We marry when the time is right. Women marry when the guy is right. ;):p

Hahahaha quite true... hmmmmmm:rolleyes:

bro , doesnt mean plump people cannot find true love .
The word "fat" is abit hurting .

We call it plump , cute , bah bah .

I find this type of girls will treasure treasure their boys more than those slim type ( they always thought they hve tons of suitors )
hmmm i'm slim BUT i will treasure my man if i can find one:p

Dear Sis ,

Why dont try those dating agency ?
Got professional guys to chose from .

I mean in a sex forum ? erm ..... you might end up getting a .............. you know :")

I know what u mean... i'm here for suggestions but out of surprise received pas from single men here....

Sis he these 2 days din log in I already inform him that u pm him Liao

i mean i received his pm....

[onlyhuman]

But I do reply ur pm

Eh....is there another nick the same as mine? I did not pm you leh...cos I was hoping you will pm me leh :D

[bellagerger]

I wonder I mistaken ur nick with other samster.

Eh....is there another nick the same as mine? I did not pm you leh...cos I was hoping you will pm me leh :D

[HunterJ]

Appearance doesn't affect being able to treasure the other half or not. The heart is the most important, and the mutual feelings. No point having someone you love so much, but the other party loves someone else.

Be confident in yourself, don't doubt your own capabilities. I'm sure one day, you can find someone... No matter is here, or any forum, or any social gathering, or anywhere. :) :D

[bellagerger]

Thks for ur encouragement :)

Appearance doesn't affect being able to treasure the other half or not. The heart is the most important, and the mutual feelings. No point having someone you love so much, but the other party loves someone else.

Be confident in yourself, don't doubt your own capabilities. I'm sure one day, you can find someone... No matter is here, or any forum, or any social gathering, or anywhere. :) :D

[DO_YOU_BJ]

If its ur turn ur time, then its meant to be.
If it isnt n u rush it, may the force be wif u!

[thomas999]

bellagerger never reply my PM leh.

[sentsggirls]

Wait for Fate :)

[BoinKING]

alamak too bad you don't do clubbing.. i love to dance.

[solamesio]

come out meet talk cock is the best

[Mich0088]

Well you could try to be wearing more sexy clothes or go beach wif bikini i hope this help you of you and have a chat wif me and i could teach you more.

Hi All,

Jus joined SBF not long ago... this forum is really interesting as there's so much stories to read from most gentlemen n few ladies here.;)

I will like to get suggestions from guys here on how to get myself attach with single men? I think some of the guys here will think I'm asking weird question.

But seriously, I have no luck with single men... majority of men that are going after me are either attached or married....:(

I'm in my late twenties... but yet still single...:(

hope i can hear some advice and suggestions soon...

Thanks in advance!!! :)

[bellagerger]

If its ur turn ur time, then its meant to be.
If it isnt n u rush it, may the force be wif u!

Thks:)

bellagerger never reply my PM leh.

I need to scans tons of pms :(

Wait for Fate :)

Seriously, I dun think by waiting it helps..

alamak too bad you don't do clubbing.. i love to dance.


Haha too bad..

come out meet talk cock is the best

Well you could try to be wearing more sexy clothes or go beach wif bikini i hope this help you of you and have a chat wif me and i could teach you more.

[thomas999]

I need to scans tons of pms :(



K I wait for you !

[scamper]

Can post some pics of yourself so that we can see what's the real issue.

[bellagerger]

Well you could try to be wearing more sexy clothes or go beach wif bikini i hope this help you of you and have a chat wif me and i could teach you more.

arm why wear sexy clothes? it will attract wrong men.... my dressing is fine.. dun think is because of my dressing...

Can post some pics of yourself so that we can see what's the real issue.

I dun think anyone will post their pic in this forum...

[guygaga]

come out meet talk cock is the best

Haha yeah, wonder Miss like to meet up at TCC or Starbucks hee... La teh or hi tea...

[bellagerger]

I wonder is there really so many single gentlemen here???
As I received lots of pm from single men here... Hmmmmmmm?????

[nottiguy1]

Maybe...if you dont have any age limit...
but i am sure there are some who are married but posing as single. :D

[SG Obama]

True... locations are IMPORTANT factor.. I dun club so not into flings or ons stuffs...

try the national library or sim lim square....bookworms and geeks sure singles...

hitching a single guy is easy..but finding someone who matches your interests is tough..

i am stuck in opposite situation....many single girl friends and colleagues but all too young as a life partner... dont want them to end up changing my adult diapers when they finally reach their 30s...

join me for dinner sometime

[cocobun]

I wonder is there really so many single gentlemen here???
As I received lots of pm from single men here... Hmmmmmmm?????

Not just single men but HORNY men....

[cocobun]

I dun think anyone will post their pic in this forum...
Not true, that's me in my avarta.....if you a closer look without the mask, it can be arranged.

[elth]

I wonder is there really so many single gentlemen here???
As I received lots of pm from single men here... Hmmmmmmm?????

sure got fake one la :cool:

[sean69]

I wonder is there really so many single gentlemen here???
As I received lots of pm from single men here... Hmmmmmmm?????

weeeelll... if u are suspicious of single gentlemen, how about a honest and horny dirty old man??? :D

[sticky5]

look like you do have a high standard of views toward guys. My guess that there are many trying to get in touch with you and but not getting into your book. Further down the road will be back to married men with you lor.

[TheHornyDevilz]

So how old are u? Got any hobbies? Likes and dislikes?

The Hornydevilz is a poet, writer, avid reader, into arts, science, social science,economics,nature, sports, allsorts of stuff.

He likes conversations, discourses of the metaphysical, movies, music.

And sex.

[self_reserved]

Shall not PM you since your inbox probably is full.

You have no luck with single men while i have no luck with single girls,for the past 6+ years.
Homely chinese guy falls within your age criteria,only been once to clubbing as I don't drink.
Had two flings the past 4 years and failed to develop into r/s.
Look friendly and not so presentable as I always wear Bermudas with Polo tee to work.
Tall and plump guy here would love to wear a pair of nice tight fitting shirt with a pair of pants if he managed to shed a few pounds.

Take it a pinch of salt.
Happy birthday.

[bellagerger]

try the national library or sim lim square....bookworms and geeks sure singles...

hitching a single guy is easy..but finding someone who matches your interests is tough..

i am stuck in opposite situation....many single girl friends and colleagues but all too young as a life partner... dont want them to end up changing my adult diapers when they finally reach their 30s...

join me for dinner sometime

haha thats interesting introduction...

Not just single men but HORNY men....

Erm I guess soooooo....

weeeelll... if u are suspicious of single gentlemen, how about a honest and horny dirty old man??? :D

No thks.. theres other sisters here who maybe like u :o

look like you do have a high standard of views toward guys. My guess that there are many trying to get in touch with you and but not getting into your book. Further down the road will be back to married men with you lor.

fingers cross I dun wan to get involve with married men...:eek:


Shall not PM you since your inbox probably is full.

You have no luck with single men while i have no luck with single girls,for the past 6+ years.
Homely chinese guy falls within your age criteria,only been once to clubbing as I don't drink.
Had two flings the past 4 years and failed to develop into r/s.
Look friendly and not so presentable as I always wear Bermudas with Polo tee to work.
Tall and plump guy here would love to wear a pair of nice tight fitting shirt with a pair of pants if he managed to shed a few pounds.

Take it a pinch of salt.
Happy birthday.

hahaha nice intro. happy birthday too...:o

[limkh11]

since my years in sammy, i think here is a place with people from all walks of life. Young to old, "small to big", bosses to waiter etc etc...

Definitely, there are nice and fun guys here... Single or not, it will depends liao....

Same logic applies, good girls are hard to find. Good guys too. :rolleyes:

[bellagerger]

well i totally agreed with u:o

since my years in sammy, i think here is a place with people from all walks of life. Young to old, "small to big", bosses to waiter etc etc...

Definitely, there are nice and fun guys here... Single or not, it will depends liao....

Same logic applies, good girls are hard to find. Good guys too. :rolleyes:

[pro.d.igy]

After 10 pages, Sis, any luck with single men? :)

[xinsuile]

hey Sis, dont be dishearten. As what many bros say.. you will find your mr. right soon. :)

i would like to be your on/offline friend too. :)

[NTHK]

Hey Sis,

dont be too bothered about finding love. my piece of advice would be to let it come naturally to you.

被爱是幸福，爱人是痛苦。

[nirvana123]

Married men and attached men only want one thing. Sex. So if you are easy with sex, u naturally attract such kinds of men because these kind of men like easy catch with no strings attached. Single men have more choices. But what I just said is just nonsense. All men, married or single, just want sex. Huat Ah!!! :D

[5ag1_Boar]

Married men and attached men only want one thing. Sex. So if you are easy with sex, u naturally attract such kinds of men because these kind of men like easy catch with no strings attached. Single men have more choices. But what I just said is just nonsense. All men, married or single, just want sex. Huat Ah!!! :D
Slight difference lah.

Married and attached men want sex, but no strings attached.

Single men want sex, but someone horny enough to have great sex with the rest of their lives and decent enough to show parents, be faithful with and marry. :p :rolleyes:

[AmeShin]

Sometimes it can be funny in a sense whenever I tell ppl.I single they also wont believe

Lol

[self_reserved]

hahaha nice intro. happy birthday

Very nice reply from you after I have typed out so much.thanks for the turn off.

[shoutcast]

Maybe you can find something that you like to do and expand your social circle from there.

The question is what do you like to do and do you have the time to do it ?

[0326092]

Take up an atas sport or hobby! Golf, wine appreciation, etc You might be able to strike a lottery with some single rich guys! :) cheers

[bellagerger]

After 10 pages, Sis, any luck with single men? :)

So far theres a few, but the suggestions from seamsters here is more interesting :)

hey Sis, dont be dishearten. As what many bros say.. you will find your mr. right soon. :)


i would like to be your on/offline friend too. :)

Thks for your encouragement, maybe you can drop me a pm instead...

Hey Sis,

dont be too bothered about finding love. my piece of advice would be to let it come naturally to you.

被爱是幸福，爱人是痛苦。

thks and noted.. but i feel that love won't come naturally if you jus sit there n wait...

Very nice reply from you after I have typed out so much.thanks for the turn off.

Hi, my apologies... but i'm not sure what you wan me to write to u? perhaps a pm will be better and more private?

[Turtle]

But what I just said is just nonsense. All men, married or single, just want sex. Huat Ah!!! :D

This sentence is more like it, especially here. Don't listen to those hypocrites. If they are not looking for sex, either you are not giving or you are just not their cup of tea.

:p

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

Don't believes old mates tales that the way to a man's heart is through his stomach with food only cos there are 4 possible parts to a date, of which at least 3 must be offered: Entertainment, Food, and Affection. It is customary to begin a series of dates with a great deal of entertainment, a moderate amount of food, and the merest suggestion of affection. As the amount of affection increases, the entertainment can be reduced proportionately. When the affection is the entertainment, we no longer call it dating. However under no circumstances can the food be omitted. :D The 4th part is that: When a man goes on a date he wonders if he is going to get lucky. A woman already knows. :p Good luck in your search and happy dating ;)

[see see only]

Don't believes old mates tales that the way to a man's heart is through his stomach with food only .......

Not 100% true lei bro .... it really depends on the occupation of the man, himself … Been busy and living alone, me would really apprecaite a warm nice home cooked food where i could sleep straight after eating or sleep straight after making love with the attractive "chef", after eating if i'm not too tired ...... :p:D

Wahahhahaa ... this behaviour of mine .... already got me dumped twice liao by 2 different "chef" (one of them even got "paid" for it) :eek:


Hey sis,

From the bottom of the heart, Guys that can meet your criteria, unattached single at this age group would be very hard to find. They are usually financially stable with many ladies hoping to marry them. They usually spoiled with a pretty good range of gals to choose from. (younger and free – I mean more time to suit their busy schedule)

If there are, they are very likely not planning to settle down until the timing is right (as mentioned by bro IK) and the word “timing” could be much more frustrating than having a married bf ......

Sincerely Sis comes what may and wish you lucky lucky …. Alternatively as suggested by you that you are still quite attractive, you may want to lower your age limit to as young as 23yo. They are those who still believe in having r/s that’s leads to marriage ASAP

All de best :)

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

....me would really apprecaite a warm nice home cooked food where i could sleep straight after eating or sleep straight after making love with the attractive "chef", after eating if i'm not too tired ...... :p:D

Mutual feeding :D:p

[see see only]

Mutual feeding :D:p

True but only 1 difference .... i would require daily basis on my departmnt .... :D

On her side ... quite subjective depending on my physical :p

[fatfart]

does it matter whether to be single? as long as u two are truly in love with one another is what matters most.....

[cocobun]

Don't believes old mates tales that the way to a man's heart is through his stomach with food only cos there are 4 possible parts to a date, of which at least 3 must be offered: Entertainment, Food, and Affection. It is customary to begin a series of dates with a great deal of entertainment, a moderate amount of food, and the merest suggestion of affection. As the amount of affection increases, the entertainment can be reduced proportionately. When the affection is the entertainment, we no longer call it dating. However under no circumstances can the food be omitted. The 4th part is that: When a man goes on a date he wonders if he is going to get lucky. A woman already knows. Good luck in your search and happy dating ;)

Not 100% true lei bro .... it really depends on the occupation of the man, himself … Been busy and living alone, me would really apprecaite a warm nice home cooked food where i could sleep straight after eating or sleep straight after making love with the attractive "chef", after eating if i'm not too tired ......

Wahahhahaa ... this behaviour of mine .... already got me dumped twice liao by 2 different "chef" (one of them even got "paid" for it) :eek:


Hey sis,

From the bottom of the heart, Guys that can meet your criteria, unattached single at this age group would be very hard to find. They are usually financially stable with many ladies hoping to marry them. They usually spoiled with a pretty good range of gals to choose from. (younger and free – I mean more time to suit their busy schedule)

If there are, they are very likely not planning to settle down until the timing is right (as mentioned by bro IK) and the word “timing” could be much more frustrating than having a married bf ......

Sincerely Sis comes what may and wish you lucky lucky …. Alternatively as suggested by you that you are still quite attractive, you may want to lower your age limit to as young as 23yo. They are those who still believe in having r/s that’s leads to marriage ASAP

All de best :)

ha, how about a guy cook for the gal......must be fair lah, always woman cooks...

I can cook green bean soup.....hahaha

[awol]

Hi All,

Jus joined SBF not long ago... this forum is really interesting as there's so much stories to read from most gentlemen n few ladies here.;)

I will like to get suggestions from guys here on how to get myself attach with single men? I think some of the guys here will think I'm asking weird question.

But seriously, I have no luck with single men... majority of men that are going after me are either attached or married....:(

I'm in my late twenties... but yet still single...:(

hope i can hear some advice and suggestions soon...

Thanks in advance!!! :)



i got a few female friends in your situation.. late 20s/ early 30s, attractive looking, hordes of attached or married men going after.

Once this female friend told me there's a single and nice guy going after her but she reject his advances. i ask her why not grab the chance...she say no feel! how ironic!!! Seems like attached/married men ooze certain x-factor that single, nice guys is lacking...

There's no lack of single men here for your choosing!! hahaa.

[bellagerger]

Not 100% true lei bro .... it really depends on the occupation of the man, himself … Been busy and living alone, me would really apprecaite a warm nice home cooked food where i could sleep straight after eating or sleep straight after making love with the attractive "chef", after eating if i'm not too tired ......

Wahahhahaa ... this behaviour of mine .... already got me dumped twice liao by 2 different "chef" (one of them even got "paid" for it) :eek:


Hey sis,

From the bottom of the heart, Guys that can meet your criteria, unattached single at this age group would be very hard to find. They are usually financially stable with many ladies hoping to marry them. They usually spoiled with a pretty good range of gals to choose from. (younger and free – I mean more time to suit their busy schedule)

If there are, they are very likely not planning to settle down until the timing is right (as mentioned by bro IK) and the word “timing” could be much more frustrating than having a married bf ......

Sincerely Sis comes what may and wish you lucky lucky …. Alternatively as suggested by you that you are still quite attractive, you may want to lower your age limit to as young as 23yo. They are those who still believe in having r/s that’s leads to marriage ASAP

All de best :)

lower age limit???? oh no i dun wan to be "old cow eat young grass" :p


There's no lack of single men here for your choosing!! hahaa.[/QUOTE]

haha i guess theres no lack of men here.. but single???? hmmmmm i wonder....

[see see only]

lower age limit???? oh no i dun wan to be "old cow eat young grass"

Yours should be considered as 姐弟恋 lei :p Now a days very "IN" dont be so "Outed la" :rolleyes::p

[bellagerger]

haha dun want later young chap break my heart lol

Yours should be considered as 姐弟恋 lei :p Now a days very "IN" dont be so "Outed la" :rolleyes::p

[HCKing]

haha dun want later young chap break my heart lol

no luck overseas as well? since u said u travel overseas frequently.

[cocobun]

after so many post still no luck ah.....

sis, you must come out to socialise first......

Paging for Sis CFingers, HBB, RV, share your experience with her or else she will grow beard liao....:D

[rayway78]

I wonder is there really so many single gentlemen here???
As I received lots of pm from single men here... Hmmmmmmm?????

HAaha expected...
after u posted, people from all walks of life will try for the top prize....:p

[keith1978]

Dear Sapphirez,

dun give up n in future try not to get involved with attached guys it really won't bring you anywhere...

I also wish you good luck in finding a perfect single man. we jia you together!!!

Y you want to wreck people's family. It is because the older married man got money that you are attracted to her.

No offense to the bros out there, those eligible men have all been snapped up else wait for you to take home to mama meh.

Look at yourself at the mirror and ask yourself these few questions.

1. Can I settle for someone average looking or below.
2. Man shorter than me.
3. Man who earn less than me.
4. Man whose education level lower than me.
5. Man who smoke or drink.
6. Much older man.
7. Divorced man with kids.
8. Man with no savings/ in debts/ poor.
9. Man without a car.
10. Man with elderly parents to take care.

If you can accept more than 3 terms, I tell you within a month , you can get a guy.

[DreamMaster1985]

Dear All,
Perhaps with some criteria:

Age: 29-38
Race: chinese
Friendly,look presentable
Don ask me for clubbing
Don ask me to drink
maybe short intro abt yourself in ur pm will be good.:o

Age: From my nick, you can figure out my age. Then again....I'm an old man in a young man's body.

Race: Chinese

Friendly? Erm....that is one man's meat, another man's poison. I'm an introvert so I might come across as a silent guy. Look presentable? Erm..........I can say that I look presentable. In the eyes of a female? Maybe not.

I don't club. On the contary, I've been to clubs twice in my entire life.

Relax, I'm a teetotaler.

Short intro.........I hate descriptive essays. Not my forte in verbal and written forms of English. Erm, I'm rather old-fashioned to a certain extent as I have my 'code' of honor. Others tell me that once my 'engine' warms up, I can show an opposite side of me, something which is different from what I usually show.

And sorry to disappoint you, but I am still a student. A story I have no intention to share over this forum. But yeah, as I've said earlier, I have 'code' of honour and making a female of my age pay for me is a big no no for me.

I would rather be your friend, be it an online friend or an offline friend. Hope this long-winded passage of mine tell you that not all single guys here are horny and wanting for sex. I'm proud to say (dun flame me, guys) that I'm still a virgin. So yeah.........*fingers crossed. I'm prepared to see my hard earned points drop by some older bros who might hate this kind of post.

[Devil320]

I think there are those that fit your criteria being single and age close or more..n their reasons could b similar to yours work related..just gotta find somehow =)

[bellagerger]

Please read my thread carefully before accusing me of wrecking people's family!!!!!!!:eek::eek::eek:

[QUOTE=keith1978;6834735]Y you want to wreck people's family. It is because the older married man got money that you are attracted to her.

No offense to the bros out there, those eligible men have all been snapped up else wait for you to take home to mama meh.

[bellagerger]

no luck overseas as well? since u said u travel overseas frequently.

Yes there's but not single...:( sad right????

after so many post still no luck ah.....

sis, you must come out to socialise first......

Paging for Sis CFingers, HBB, RV, share your experience with her or else she will grow beard liao....:D

there's lots of pm i received from this forum, but still scanning whether they're really "single"

I think there are those that fit your criteria being single and age close or more..n their reasons could b similar to yours work related..just gotta find somehow =)

I guess sooooo tooooooo...

[cocobun]

[QUOTE=bellagerger;6835827]there's lots of pm i received from this forum, but still scanning whether they're really "single"
QUOTE]

not easy to find out without meeting or knowing them first....

[pro.d.igy]

thks and noted.. but i feel that love won't come naturally if you jus sit there n wait...



Can't say I agree with this. Sometimes, love is just like opportunity. When it comes randomly, you must grab hold of the chance. Being too pro-active will sometimes make you lose your focus on what you really want. That said, being too laid back will get you nowhere too.

For the meantime, just go with the flow. Get to know more guys out there, and see if any catches your eye. If you get the same signal from the guy,that's when it comes naturally. :)

Good luck!

[shoutcast]

I am available , can we date :o

[Tai_zi21]

well since i guess ur pm must be full always?

Y not u pm me to let me know more abt urself?

prob we will know from there i guess? haha hope i can receive ur pm?

Cheers and have a nice day

[Devil320]

Curious. How r u gonna be able to tell if they are single through pms? every guy is masked behind that comp of theirs

[bellagerger]

Can't say I agree with this. Sometimes, love is just like opportunity. When it comes randomly, you must grab hold of the chance. Being too pro-active will sometimes make you lose your focus on what you really want. That said, being too laid back will get you nowhere too.

For the meantime, just go with the flow. Get to know more guys out there, and see if any catches your eye. If you get the same signal from the guy,that's when it comes naturally. :)

Good luck!

Thks I hope my signal is strong enough to find my Mr Right!!!:p

Curious. How r u gonna be able to tell if they are single through pms? every guy is masked behind that comp of theirs

Well u can use pm to know more about the person.. than slowly chat in msn.. follow by add in Facebook...

nowadays Facebook can trace n check whether the guy or gal is really single.

Agreed?:p

[pro.d.igy]

Thks I hope my signal is strong enough to find my Mr Right!!!:p





Good luck! :)

[Dark_Traveller]

Hi TS,

Sorry if this sound offensive, but what I think here is not the married man or attached guys comes to you. But in the other way, you open up more to them knowing that they are attached or married. For Men who are attached, they want to have a "choice" before the take the next step into married and after that they still want to know as that they still have "market" value. So both type will take any gal who opens up to them.

So how all you need to know is how you can open out to more guys who you know they are not attached or married. I always belief that everyone will have someone, just continuing the way of life and you never know what life will bring you next...

If those guys are ok to date you, means you have nothing wrong phyically... dun over work yourself... lolx

Take Care Sis...

The above is just my 2 cent worth of thoughts... Hope I didn't offend anyone...

[solamesio]

have u started dating again ?

[Devil320]

i suppose u could chat with me then haha

[tinycork]

i think a person tends to attract a certain type of opposite sex? Some attract married people, some younger partners, and some..attract the same sex!! haha! Maybe due to a person's "chemistry"?

[Alantino]

good luck to you sister :D

[Jwylong]

what is in the earth is happening ?? i sure there lot of single men in singapore ... among all the girl is know is already attached thoses who are single is because they just broke up ... and i do belive within a month time they will be attached too ....

[bellagerger]

Most of the samsters here asked me maybe because I prefer to mix with guys who r married or attached. But actually I dun hv the intention to mix with them.. But due to my work pple who I met is usually married...

N some dun believe I cannot find single men...
I dun hv the chance to meet guys which are single..
An I travelled oftens so it's do make my social life smaller.. Basically I dun hv much social life....

[spidersim_78]

believe in fate learn more new hobbies and take some interesting course which can learn new thing and make more friends

[kockadood]

Well, start making more friends. if your current social circle aint cutting it, then you gotta make it bigger to net someone right?

i would make friends with u but unfortunately i dont have your criteria of guys to intro to u. i do have single guys who wouldnt have a single problem with u travelling as they still have not had a single RS by my age.

so find a good bro and get him to intro? or start cheekily asking around your circle if they have nice single guys to have lunches with.

still if you just wanna sit back and chill and hopefully make friends with me jus drop me a pm. we could always meet and talk and see what can be done for ya. else good luck to u!

[glster]

Most of the samsters here asked me maybe because I prefer to mix with guys who r married or attached. But actually I dun hv the intention to mix with them.. But due to my work pple who I met is usually married...

N some dun believe I cannot find single men...
I dun hv the chance to meet guys which are single..
An I travelled oftens so it's do make my social life smaller.. Basically I dun hv much social life....

am single and have limited social life too due to my work...maybe we can widen each social life? :p

[tooman1]

Dear All,

I had received lots of pm from friendly samsters here..
and I do received PMs asking for flings and ONS stuffs:(

But actually the reason why i start my thread here is to get more ideas to know more single men... but I'M NOT INTO FLING,ONS.... stuffs.....:(

Maybe I shld make it clear here.. I will like to make new friends with SINGLE men...

Perhaps with some criteria:

Age: 29-38
Race: chinese
Friendly,look presentable
Don ask me for clubbing
Don ask me to drink
maybe short intro abt yourself in ur pm will be good.:o

Ok, why you still single? I had a female fren,
she was 40 when o know her on a party,
She very nice buy single. She work as a IT dept
Manager. Very independent and capable.
She know how to change water pipe, light bulb,
Even her car breakdown she call tow service.
Without ask fren to help. So I say if like that, you
No need bf or husband. Man need you give chance
To show they can take care, protect you. If you can do
,but do give man to show that they help you. If man help
You without demand,for example, car breakdown you call
A man you that may help,you like to be with hi
m. Test him whether he willing to help.

[barneyksc]

Most of the samsters here asked me maybe because I prefer to mix with guys who r married or attached. But actually I dun hv the intention to mix with them.. But due to my work pple who I met is usually married...

N some dun believe I cannot find single men...
I dun hv the chance to meet guys which are single..
An I travelled oftens so it's do make my social life smaller.. Basically I dun hv much social life....

haha sis at least im single as well... but then again.. bz with work and timing is quite bad.. if u dun mind.. we can be friends =)

[onlyhuman]

Thks I hope my signal is strong enough to find my Mr Right!!!:p



Well u can use pm to know more about the person.. than slowly chat in msn.. follow by add in Facebook...

nowadays Facebook can trace n check whether the guy or gal is really single.

Agreed?:p

U are wrong, one can have multiples Facebook accounts lor :D

[jwong71]

Most of the samsters here asked me maybe because I prefer to mix with guys who r married or attached. But actually I dun hv the intention to mix with them.. But due to my work pple who I met is usually married...

N some dun believe I cannot find single men...
I dun hv the chance to meet guys which are single..
An I travelled oftens so it's do make my social life smaller.. Basically I dun hv much social life....

look through a person fb' wall..

little comments,alot comments or no comments tells it all..

fb is good to judge a person's character.

i haf a malaysian pageant lady frd, choosy abt a guy's everything.
from his looks, his efforts,and to know his future plan for her.

well,that's it for him and her..

there's no perfect guy/gal.,just how u wanna fit in his/her imperfectness.

[bellagerger]

Well, start making more friends. if your current social circle aint cutting it, then you gotta make it bigger to net someone right?

i would make friends with u but unfortunately i dont have your criteria of guys to intro to u. i do have single guys who wouldnt have a single problem with u travelling as they still have not had a single RS by my age.

so find a good bro and get him to intro? or start cheekily asking around your circle if they have nice single guys to have lunches with.

still if you just wanna sit back and chill and hopefully make friends with me jus drop me a pm. we could always meet and talk and see what can be done for ya. else good luck to u!

Your suggestion are quite interesting... hahah ask cheekily are my circle won't help... as those men in my work circle more interested in me than intro their frz to me..

sister, its in the news that 43% of men in the thirties are single.

No excuses for not finding a single man. They are literally everywhere!

I think your data is outdated.. :p

U are wrong, one can have multiples Facebook accounts lor :D

ic... now i know the ugly true....

[SH149]

So any chance for my bro onlyhuman ? :rolleyes:

[bellagerger]

hmmmm r u trying to be match maker???:rolleyes:

So any chance for my bro onlyhuman ? :rolleyes:

[SH149]

hmmmm r u trying to be match maker???:rolleyes:

No a match maker is too stress for me

But would like to see if things work up for both of u

[bellagerger]

thks but my scanning still in progress hahaha

No a match maker is too stress for me

But would like to see if things work up for both of u

[guess67]

thks but my scanning still in progress hahaha

gal, good luck! :D

[flamenomore]

I guess it's all about expectations? Be it guys or ladies, whenever we became picky, you'll realise that we are the only ones left being single. The attached ones are mostly accommodating, they're willing to settle, see.

Anyway, good luck out there! Hope you'll find someone soon!

[cocobun]

thks but my scanning still in progress hahaha

STILL SCANNING!! Are you trying to get the candidates to scan their IDs/Passport and forward you for CIA checks?? Haha

[bellagerger]

I do "wish" i can scan like CIA hahahaha.. well i really hv to scan carefully or else with have lots samsters claim single...

STILL SCANNING!! Are you trying to get the candidates to scan their IDs/Passport and forward you for CIA checks?? Haha

[guess67]

I do "wish" i can scan like CIA hahahaha.. well i really hv to scan carefully or else with have lots samsters claim single...

gal, i also single, me can ?:D:p:D

[bellagerger]

Guess, I thot u r female?:confused

gal, i also single, me can ?:D:p:D

[guess67]

Guess, I thot u r female?:confused

sorry lah, disturbing u :p

[pro.d.igy]

Sis, rather than only relying on this forum, have you tried surfing in other forums too? Opening up your social network doesn't mean you are only tied to 1 forum. :)

Anyways, single men out there aplenty. Just take your time. :)

[meetlilprincess]

Hey, same as you I am also attracted to attached and married guys. And to be honest I have been in a relationship with a few of them. In fact my current bf is also married but going thru divorce.

I would say one of the many reason why is that, age: (I am also a late 20s.) I don't think you fancy guys that are younger than you. Nevertheless, most of them that is older is already married.

Hangouts: The place that you frequents. Do you often go to a regular pub, clubs, etc??? These place is all crowded with YPs or otherwise someone else husband.

Try finding new activities, from your friends or colleagues, joining them to more day-time activities gives you a chance to know more people. Singles man is very numbered but I am sure you will still meet one out there. No point rushing into finding a single guy but isn't your perfect match.

Good luck to you !!! :p ;)

[cocobun]

I do "wish" i can scan like CIA hahahaha.. well i really hv to scan carefully or else with have lots samsters claim single...

luckily never ask for blood sample.......take IC no. go ROM and check faster....

[bellagerger]

sorry lah, disturbing u :p

hahaha i know but welcome u to join too:p

Sis, rather than only relying on this forum, have you tried surfing in other forums too? Opening up your social network doesn't mean you are only tied to 1 forum.

Anyways, single men out there aplenty. Just take your time. :)

thks i did try other website before.

luckily never ask for blood sample.......take IC no. go ROM and check faster....

ya so do u wanna assist me on the scanning????:D

[cocobun]

hahaha i know but welcome u to join too:p

ya so do u wanna assist me on the scanning????:D

What do I get in return huh?? My green eyes very powerful one....hehe

[HunterJ]

Haven't found yet a? so long o ~~~~

[guess67]

Haven't found yet a? so long o ~~~~

Are u interested to apply? :D

[HunterJ]

Are u interested to apply? :D

Hmmm.... Maybe... Don't dare to try yet. hahaha !!! :p

[cocobun]

Hmmm.... Maybe... Don't dare to try yet. hahaha !!! :p

ha, need IC no. first........SXXXXXXX(A-Z):D

[HunterJ]

ha, need IC no. first........SXXXXXXX(A-Z):D

no IC how a? hahahaha. shhh ~~~ ILLEGAL IMMIGRANT ALERT !!! oops... :p :D

[Princess3381]

i also have the same issue lo..no luck with single men..

[bellagerger]

Hi princess, thks for the suggestions given.
I actually dun go clubbing.. The reason y I unable to find guys is due to my traveling and I'm working with mostly attached n married guys...

Hey, same as you I am also attracted to attached and married guys. And to be honest I have been in a relationship with a few of them. In fact my current bf is also married but going thru divorce.

I would say one of the many reason why is that, age: (I am also a late 20s.) I don't think you fancy guys that are younger than you. Nevertheless, most of them that is older is already married.

Hangouts: The place that you frequents. Do you often go to a regular pub, clubs, etc??? These place is all crowded with YPs or otherwise someone else husband.

Try finding new activities, from your friends or colleagues, joining them to more day-time activities gives you a chance to know more people. Singles man is very numbered but I am sure you will still meet one out there. No point rushing into finding a single guy but isn't your perfect match.

Good luck to you !!! :p ;)

[bellagerger]

I Thot u will be helpful enough to help out without getting any return lol


What do I get in return huh?? My green eyes very powerful one....hehe

[cocobun]

I Thot u will be helpful enough to help out without getting any return lol

Wah, your's no simple task leh....may require background checks all the way from his childhood life...lol...who knows maybe require to check which brand of milk powder he consume too....:D

Hi princess, thks for the suggestions given.
I actually dun go clubbing.. The reason y I unable to find guys is due to my traveling and I'm working with mostly attached n married guys...

full of excuses.....hmmm, like that all air crew or pilot should be single too....

[HunterJ]

Not necessary clubbing can find guys. People are all around, no matter guys or girls.

I believe age is not a problem. No matter younger or older, there are always someone who will suit you. Humans are selfish, and must "own" a person. Which is why the controversy of being attached/married man are often deemed "attractive" to single women because the feeling of security is there. Maybe vice versa for younger guys attracted to married women/older women too.

Luck or not luck, honestly...... it will come one day. I have been searching for a FB/companion/someone special in my life for a long time.. slowly I believe, I will meet some...=)

[AmeShin]

I ask two of my air crew friend intro gals to me.
Both gals say all attached

And here is a cabin crew or ?????

O.o

[bellagerger]

Well brst wishes for you and me :o

Not necessary clubbing can find guys. People are all around, no matter guys or girls.

I believe age is not a problem. No matter younger or older, there are always someone who will suit you. Humans are selfish, and must "own" a person. Which is why the controversy of being attached/married man are often deemed "attractive" to single women because the feeling of security is there. Maybe vice versa for younger guys attracted to married women/older women too.

Luck or not luck, honestly...... it will come one day. I have been searching for a FB/companion/someone special in my life for a long time.. slowly I believe, I will meet some...=)

I ask two of my air crew friend intro gals to me.
Both gals say all attached

And here is a cabin crew or ?????

O.o

nope not cabin crew but travel often:o

[bellagerger]

Are u trying to "suan" or "help"???

Why must I give excuses of I travel often and have no chance to meet single men?

And you don't need to compare me with air crew or pilot as YOU DUN KNOW ME in real life!:mad:

Wah, your's no simple task leh....may require background checks all the way from his childhood life...lol...who knows maybe require to check which brand of milk powder he consume too....:D



full of excuses.....hmmm, like that all air crew or pilot should be single too....

[AmeShin]

I see


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[HunterJ]

Well brst wishes for you and me :o



Yup yup. Feel free if you wanna find me for a chat or something. I always welcome company. :) ;)

[solamesio]

cheer yup. anyway have u make any attempet to check out the guy over here /

[SH149]

Are u trying to "suan" or "help"???

Why must I give excuses of I travel often and have no chance to meet single men?

And you don't need to compare me with air crew or pilot as YOU DUN KNOW ME in real life!:mad:

Don't angry la
If not a few more wrinkles will appears :(

[cocobun]

Are u trying to "suan" or "help"???

Why must I give excuses of I travel often and have no chance to meet single men?

And you don't need to compare me with air crew or pilot as YOU DUN KNOW ME in real life!:mad:

snift snift....got gun powder smell.......:eek:

now I know..................good luck!

Don't angry la
If not a few more wrinkles will appears :(

well, it may be a ten year old girl behind the screen! you never know, cos WE DUN KNOW HER in real life :)

[HunterJ]

No one knows her in real life. So do many people around here in the forum. hahaha !!!



Chiilllll ~~~~ ;)

[ch33zy]

hi sis bellagerger, how about the male friends of your co-workers or perhaps you can find a chance to join in some activity group if your time permits?

[bellagerger]

No one knows her in real life. So do many people around here in the forum. hahaha !!!

yaaaaa.... i'm trying to chillllllllll:p



Chiilllll ~~~~ ;)

hi sis bellagerger, how about the male friends of your co-workers or perhaps you can find a chance to join in some activity group if your time permits?

thks for the suggestions... if i have the time i will... :o

[Iemanishere]

Hi sister, well time will come when u meet a good and single guy.. Don't just jump into anything... God bless

[bellagerger]

thks for ur blessing!!! I won't jump into anything that fast..:o

Hi sister, well time will come when u meet a good and single guy.. Don't just jump into anything... God bless

[Souledge]

Sis, Just wondering why don't you join SDU or those single lunch or dinner date?
thats 1 way to approach.
I am also sure there should be decent male out here in SBF =)

If you are interested, let me know... i had those mailing list... which i am still getting email from them.
cheers

[Devil320]

So has posting here been effective? Met up with anyone?

[guess67]

Gal, any meet up? :D

[ch33zy]

thks for the suggestions... if i have the time i will... :o

you are welcome.. you can always start chatting online.. progressively add some friends to online chat programs like msn, skype, etc.. that way, you can chat with your friends while on the go..

[Alantino]

You can try know more friends from facebook first. then slowly progress to chat on the move ( whatsapp / fb messanger /msn )

JIA YOU~

[hell4lif]

Sis... what most bro's said are really all you've got to do?..
mainly... socialize but don't ever ever be the lowest hanging fruit okay?..
guys(subjective view), will not be serious with you. when you're ready just go with an open mind when you meet new pple.. be yourself.. be confident most importantly must carry yourself well..

Good Luck!..

[bellagerger]

Sis, Just wondering why don't you join SDU or those single lunch or dinner date?
thats 1 way to approach.
I am also sure there should be decent male out here in SBF =)

If you are interested, let me know... i had those mailing list... which i am still getting email from them.
cheers

Thks for ur kind suggestion.. I will consider joining but not now hahaha

So has posting here been effective? Met up with anyone?

well i didn't meet anyone as i'm currently overseas

Gal, any meet up? :D

well i didn't meet anyone as i'm currently overseas

[Joyful7]

well i didn't meet anyone as i'm currently overseas

Are you going to bring gifts back from overseas? :o

[cocobun]

Gal, any meet up? :D

A......lot online.....offline will take some more time....

Jie, today I check out NG, don't think it's gonna happen...

[guess67]

A......lot online.....offline will take some more time....

Jie, today I check out NG, don't think it's gonna happen...

u nvr jio me go, bad :mad:

[guess67]

cocobun, what do u want?

[cocobun]

cocobun, what do u want?

Of course mei mei lah......:D

[cygnet]

Then try your luck with married men. Please don't make us feel inferior.

[bellagerger]

I'm not interested in married or attached men...:p

Then try your luck with married men. Please don't make us feel inferior.

[guess67]

I'm not interested in married or attached men...:p

gal only want single guy :D

[makemecum]

I m single but ol:D

[bellagerger]

what do u mean by u r single but ol??????

I m single but ol:D

[Iemanishere]

Bellagerger, do u take single man 40yrs old??

[bellagerger]

erm no sorry... but we can be friend.:p

Bellagerger, do u take single man 40yrs old??

[David80]

i single 31m chi got chance hahaha?

[barneyksc]

wahaha i also wanna participate ... 29/m chi? too old or??