help!

[darthvader]

i am not sure if this is the correct place to post, but anyway i have a worrying problem i would like to share, and hope to receive help from fellow samsters..

please do not judge me based on what you are going to read..




yesterday, i visited GL for the 1st time, hooked up with a prc lady and got a room.

we undressed, bathed and dried ourselves

she told me to lie down, and before long, she was sucking my nips.. it was my 1st time lying beside a naked woman, felt kinda nervours..

after few minutes, my cock began to errect, and she slipped on the condom on him.. she began to give me a handjob.. however hard she tried, i just couldnt cum..

As i have a strong fetish for feet, (have been fantasizing about licking and smelling women feet since 10).. i told her that i would suck her toes, she agreed.. while she laid down, i licked and sucked and worshipped her feet like a goddess from what i saw in those porn clips.. it tasted slighly salty.. her feet felt very squeezy, and nice to rub.. but i felt that i needed to explore other parts of her..

i came up to her shoulders level, she continued her handjob, but still, every after getting a taste of feet for the 1st time, i still do not have the urge to errect.. i went on to lick and suck her nipples, and bit them tenderly.. felt as if they would burst anytime.... i could really suckle on those nipples for all eternity..

Still, i did not cum.. she asked me "if i am cumming soon" i told her that theres no feel..

i told her to intensify the handjob, by rubbing harder and faster.. but still no avail..

so i used 1 finger to search for her pussy, as i have never studied biology or saw what a real pussy is like, it took me a while to find the hole.. i wanted to ask her if that was the pussy.. but when i saw her moan, i knew i was in the right hole.. i fingered her to the depth of my 2nd segment of my index finger.. as i fingered around her moist and warm pussy, she was holding on to my hand, as if she was stopping me from something.. i inserted the 2nd finger and twirled in circle around the walls of her pussy.. felt very new to me..

as she moaned, she commented that i was a fake virgin, but i told her, that it was really my 1st time (just that i had many theory and visual lessons at night alone) so i knew what to do when i saw a naked woman..

but still i didnt cum...

after the last 5mins of the session, the condom was still dry..

quite dissapointed with myself..

i have been masturbating regulary twice to quad times daily... but my masturbation technique is different from what we see in the porn clips..

i would lie face down on the bed, with the back of my hand near the thumb rubbing the bottom area of my penis till i ejectculate and not like the conventional technique of having the entire hand grasping my penis rubbing it up and down..

i wonder if my masturbation technique is normal.. could someone please advice me on this? would abstaining from masturbating for a week allow me to ejectculate from the conventional masturbation technique (whole hand covering the penis and rubbing up and down)?

Thanks

[sedulous]

Why didn't you fuck her?

[darthvader]

Why didn't you fuck her?

it was my 1st time, kinda scared.

[5ag1_Boar]

Hmmm... Most virgin guys worry about premature ejaculation. You are the opposite.

Sounds like the girl is quite patient.

Your technique is certainly unusual, but nothing wrong with that.

All I can recommend is not to stress yourself out.... Just lay back and enjoy the sensations... You should cum eventually. By the way, not all girls can give a good hand job or blow job.... Not unusual not to cum from that. Even the good ones can't make all guys cum.

Don't focus on "I'm taking too long to cum". Just focus on pleasuring the girl and her reactions, etc. Naturally proceed to fucking and getting her to cum as many times as possible. Eventuallyvthe physical stimulation will make you cum.

[Av_lover]

Bro darthvader, u need to cut down on masturbation from daily to maybe 2 days 1 times or 3 days 1 times or better yet 1 week or 2 week 1 times.

[darthvader]

Hmmm... Most virgin guys worry about premature ejaculation. You are the opposite.

Sounds like the girl is quite patient.

Your technique is certainly unusual, but nothing wrong with that.

All I can recommend is not to stress yourself out.... Just lay back and enjoy the sensations... You should cum eventually. By the way, not all girls can give a good hand job or blow job.... Not unusual not to cum from that. Even the good ones can't make all guys cum.

Don't focus on "I'm taking too long to cum". Just focus on pleasuring the girl and her reactions, etc. Naturally proceed to fucking and getting her to cum as many times as possible. Eventuallyvthe physical stimulation will make you cum.

is there a way i can change technique? i tried to do the conventional technique.. but no use, not aroused

so if the girl gets horny and orgasm..i will eventually cum too?

[darthvader]

Bro darthvader, u need to cut down on masturbation from daily to maybe 2 days 1 times or 3 days 1 times or better yet 1 week or 2 week 1 times.

yeah, i will try to make it once a day, then once every 2 days, once every 3 days..etc..

anyway, is it possible to have sex everyday?

[maggikari49]

bro, it could be you were nervous since it was your first time..don't worry too much about it

[jasdude]

anyway, is it possible to have sex everyday?

OMG, how old are you boy?

[ah rat]

it was my 1st time, kinda scared.

Bro, don't get addicted :)

[wally888]

U never ask her to BJ u?

[DarthRevan]

you should use 'the force'..hope it helps :D

[darthvader]

OMG, how old are you boy?

i am 21 this year

[darthvader]

Bro, don't get addicted :)

lol thanks for the advice.. but there must be a 1st time for everything, including sex.. :)

[darthvader]

you should use 'the force'..hope it helps :D

unfortunately, it couldnt make me cum :(

[callmebad]

it is quite tough to go for commercial sex at times
those girls will tend to hurry you, this makes you more stressful, even harder to come
I suggest on the day you plan to have sex, you don't masturbate at all
you masturbate too much a day
for me, a good oral and anal stimulation is a good way to help me in erection
just feel that the problem is maybe too tense and you masturbate a lot, so much when comes to the real action, you cannot come

[mclovin_boy]

You just gotta relax bro. Think you are too tensed up. After a few sessions, you'll be alright. :)

[goodpartner]

i would lie face down on the bed, with the back of my hand near the thumb rubbing the bottom area of my penis till i ejectculate and not like the conventional technique of having the entire hand grasping my penis rubbing it up and down..

i wonder if my masturbation technique is normal.. could someone please advice me on this?

Young man, yes you do have wierd masturbating techniques and why am I not surprised? :rolleyes:

First of all, do you, darthvader still have a penis, or was it not lightsabered off when you lost both legs in that epic Light Saber battle with Obi Wan Kenobi? Or maybe you lost it when you caught on fire from the lava? Is it still intact and/or functional? Sure your thumb is rubbing the bottom area of your penis or whatever is the remains? :D

Even if the penis was sliched off, they would have built you a mechanical one.... please check the user manual too.

[5ag1_Boar]

is there a way i can change technique? i tried to do the conventional technique.. but no use, not aroused

so if the girl gets horny and orgasm..i will eventually cum too?

Errr... not so straight forward. I meant if you focus on the girl, then you will be distracted from ingbe worried or anxious about yourself not coming... then you won't mentally block yourself from coming.

Anyway, if it takes you along time to come, read the FRs in SBF, find a really horny FL or one who is known to be "commando" type. You gonna have fun with them becasue they are just gonna enjoy themselves so much on your lasting power.

yeah, i will try to make it once a day, then once every 2 days, once every 3 days..etc..

anyway, is it possible to have sex everyday?

Yes.... if you have a girl who is willing to have sex with you everyday, or a bunch of girls who you can call on different days. :-p

Ok seriously, can you masturbate everyday?

I would hazard that once a day is the biological norm. Some guys can do twice or thrice a day. as we get older, we will start to deteriorate in ability and interest... unless you damn fit and healthy.

In our youth, teens to mid-30s perhaps, some of us can on occasions with the right girl do it MANY times a day. My personal record is 4 in 6 hours. There are samsters who have boasted more... but you can be sure that are not daily happenings.

[thrush]

I think you wank too much. Reduce the wanking.

[loneyheart]

Why HJ w CD ???? :confused:....Try 69 ...BF .....or Frenching :D .....Happy CNY to all Bros

[Dsolsz]

Bbbj will help you cum.