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sgjoey
18-01-2012, 10:58 PM
Ex-teacher jailed 8 years for affair with student, 14

A FORMER secondary school teacher was jailed eight years yesterday for having sex with one of his students, who was 14 years old at the time...

(Straits Times, Jan 18th, 2012)

sgjoey
18-01-2012, 11:02 PM
Man gets jail, caning for trying to have sex with woman met online

They met on the internet and had only been chatting online with each other for about two months. But the second time they met up in as many days, IT analyst Ng Han Tong, 37, tried to have sex with the 31-year-old woman...

...Ng pleaded guilty and was sentenced on Wednesday to 36 months in jail and six strokes of the cane.

The court heard that Ng, who is married, had met a 31-year-old woman over the Internet in January 2010. The pair chatted online before deciding to meet in Mar 2010. They went to a KTV and then to the beach at Sentosa Island where they kissed.

They met up again the next day after Ng suggested that they go to a hotel to kiss again. He reassured the woman that he would only kiss her.

The couple checked into a room at Hotel 81 Cosy at Jiak Chuan Road that night. After Ng had removed both their clothes, the woman told him that she did not want to have sex with him. Ng became frustrated by her repeated rejections.

He subsequently climbed on top of the victim and penetrated her despite her protests. She had tried to push Ng away and told him to stop, the court heard...

(The Straits Times Online Breaking News, Jan 18th, 2012)

sgjoey
18-01-2012, 11:07 PM
It's natural for men, including married men, to lust after other women.

In civilised society however, it is not permitted to force women to have sex, or to have sex with children.

The lives of both men would have been much better if they had sought the services of sex workers instead.

callmebad
18-01-2012, 11:43 PM
their lives must be real bored that they want to seek for such kind of 'excitement' to 'try their luck' hoping that they will not get caught in the end
Singapore is a very small place, this means if you want to do anything bad, it will be discovered very quickly and worst still you have no where to hide, because the place is so bloody small, unlike in the US and China where you can escape to another province to hide under another change identity,so it is quite stupid to break the law in such a small place here

However if you're a terrorist and you happen to be a cripple, maybe you can try your luck, because you should be able to escape out of Singapore quite easily, but if you're a small time criminal, better not

Singapore police force is good at catching small time criminal but not so good at nabbing big time terrorist.:p

handcell
18-01-2012, 11:57 PM
maybe the wife do not sexify him enuff or maybe their marriage is on the rock... every marriage are not perfect...

sgjoey
19-01-2012, 12:24 AM
maybe the wife do not sexify him enuff or maybe their marriage is on the rock... every marriage are not perfect...

Regardless of the reason, it is still foolhardy to break the law, especially when there are ready alternatives available...

Perhaps this is one reason why SBF is really a good thing. Those who frequent the forum will know what's available out there and will not resort to foolish actions that will ruin their lives.

owl888
19-01-2012, 01:26 AM
Very stupid to ruin your future this way.......i m sure there's plenty of options everywhere juz nid to dig deeper :D

RealEstateGuy
19-01-2012, 01:51 AM
Ex-teacher jailed 8 years for affair with student, 14

A FORMER secondary school teacher was jailed eight years yesterday for having sex with one of his students, who was 14 years old at the time...

(Straits Times, Jan 18th, 2012)
Braddahs, this is a clear direlection of duty. A teacher, one of the most respected positions a SG public servant can hold and a source of leardership for our young people crosses the line and engages in sex. What is the state of SG society today? GL KTV widespread promscuity materialism import of bad Western values and STDs. Braddahs, I'm worried about SG society. How about you braddahs?

handcell
19-01-2012, 02:18 AM
Regardless of the reason, it is still foolhardy to break the law, especially when there are ready alternatives available...

Perhaps this is one reason why SBF is really a good thing. Those who frequent the forum will know what's available out there and will not resort to foolish actions that will ruin their lives.
but there are still ppl out there doing foolish action AND get caught.. this is just a small handfull compare to those that NEVER get caught...

sgjoey
19-01-2012, 02:21 AM
Braddahs, this is a clear direlection of duty. A teacher, one of the most respected positions a SG public servant can hold and a source of leardership for our young people crosses the line and engages in sex. What is the state of SG society today? GL KTV widespread promscuity materialism import of bad Western values and STDs. Braddahs, I'm worried about SG society. How about you braddahs?

Hopefully, this case is an exception, not a rule and that almost all our teachers are capable of behaving more responsibly.

As for the state of Singapore society, it is doing reasonably well though the gap between rich and poor is a troubling sign. On the whole, sex-wise, we are still not very enlightened.

Forums such as SBF could be useful to spread more sex-positive messages and inform more people about basic truths such as humans are generally a non-monogamous species.

maestro7
19-01-2012, 02:33 AM
14 yr old... 30 yr old teacher poking a underage girl .. would he be considered a paedophile?

jasdude
19-01-2012, 03:17 AM
Many desperate people are willing to take risks! What I am saying now is real and there is proof.

A lady goes to TAN TOCK SENG A&E department for treatment! The doctor by the name of Bxxxxxxx, got interested in her! He abuses his code of ethics and the privacy of the patient. He sms and calls the patient with his own HP, and even wanted to date the patient out for dinner. So guys! do you believe your doctor is checking your gal or checking out your gal?

RealEstateGuy
19-01-2012, 04:36 AM
Man gets jail, caning for trying to have sex with woman met online

They met on the internet and had only been chatting online with each other for about two months. But the second time they met up in as many days, IT analyst Ng Han Tong, 37, tried to have sex with the 31-year-old woman...

...Ng pleaded guilty and was sentenced on Wednesday to 36 months in jail and six strokes of the cane.

The court heard that Ng, who is married, had met a 31-year-old woman over the Internet in January 2010. The pair chatted online before deciding to meet in Mar 2010. They went to a KTV and then to the beach at Sentosa Island where they kissed.

They met up again the next day after Ng suggested that they go to a hotel to kiss again. He reassured the woman that he would only kiss her.

The couple checked into a room at Hotel 81 Cosy at Jiak Chuan Road that night. After Ng had removed both their clothes, the woman told him that she did not want to have sex with him. Ng became frustrated by her repeated rejections.

He subsequently climbed on top of the victim and penetrated her despite her protests. She had tried to push Ng away and told him to stop, the court heard...

(The Straits Times Online Breaking News, Jan 18th, 2012)

Braddah, that woman was undecided when she went to the hotel. What woman would check into a hotel with a man not thinking sex might be on the menu? Yes the Braddah should have controlled himself and should be punished but the woman also implied she wanted to have sex.

RealEstateGuy
19-01-2012, 04:41 AM
Many desperate people are willing to take risks! What I am saying now is real and there is proof.

A lady goes to TAN TOCK SENG A&E department for treatment! The doctor by the name of Bxxxxxxx, got interested in her! He abuses his code of ethics and the privacy of the patient. He sms and calls the patient with his own HP, and even wanted to date the patient out for dinner. So guys! do you believe your doctor is checking your gal or checking out your gal?

Braddah maybe she dun mind? This is for Botox? Maybe she wanted to get it done free?

transgressor
19-01-2012, 05:42 AM
The teacher deserves the punishment meted to him. He had abused his position, betrayed the trust given to him and tarnished the image of the profession.

sgjoey
19-01-2012, 06:33 AM
The teacher deserves the punishment meted to him. He had abused his position, betrayed the trust given to him and tarnished the image of the profession.

I would think that both men deserved their custodial sentences. Caning, however, is too brutal and should be abolished in Singapore. Just my personal opinion.

jasdude
19-01-2012, 07:23 PM
Braddah maybe she dun mind? This is for Botox? Maybe she wanted to get it done free?

She was there for a cut on her hand that require stitches. BTW, she is loaded enough to even afford botox for your high class maid.

Does anyone goes to the A&E for emergency botox shots? Haha do you?

RealEstateGuy
20-01-2012, 02:44 AM
I would think that both men deserved their custodial sentences. Caning, however, is too brutal and should be abolished in Singapore. Just my personal opinion.

Braddah, a sex offender like that should have his dick chopped off or if not have it canned so its non-functional.

Krazzie
20-01-2012, 03:15 AM
1. Always stop if the lady says "No" regardless of what is happening now.

2. Always check the age of the lady.

I always abide by both rules, so far so good, of course if any lady reports rape, you are basically screwed.

thrush
20-01-2012, 07:38 AM
1. Always stop if the lady says "No" regardless of what is happening now.

2. Always check the age of the lady.

I always abide by both rules, so far so good, of course if any lady reports rape, you are basically screwed.

Sometimes 'no' means good.

transgressor
20-01-2012, 07:47 AM
I would think that both men deserved their custodial sentences. Caning, however, is too brutal and should be abolished in Singapore. Just my personal opinion.

I am not so sure about the other guy. The "victim" checked into the hotel with him and also allow him to remove her clothes. The prosecution even took the almost unprecedented step in reducing the rape charge to one of OM. This case should have gone all the way.

handcell
20-01-2012, 11:40 AM
She was there for a cut on her hand that require stitches. BTW, she is loaded enough to even afford botox for your high class maid.

Does anyone goes to the A&E for emergency botox shots? Haha do you?
maybe is a botex job done wrong and it requires immediate assistance leh.. :)

Krazzie
20-01-2012, 05:27 PM
Sometimes 'no' means good.

True... but you want to take the risk of going to Changi and add some scars to your ass? Safe then sorry especially with the way rape charges always swinging to the female's advantage I rather don't risk it.

sgjoey
20-01-2012, 09:29 PM
Braddah, a sex offender like that should have his dick chopped off or if not have it canned so its non-functional.

Really??

Have it canned and sold in the supermarket so that you can buy it and eat it? :D

sgjoey
22-02-2012, 06:49 PM
Man jailed for touching teen inappropriately

A former youth programme coordinator was jailed a year and eight months on Wednesday for touching the private parts of a 14-year-old girl.

Cheng Chin Shen, 31, was then working for a non-profit voluntary welfare organisation that caters to the development of children and teenagers.

He had pleaded guilty in December 2011. A district court heard then that the girl became a member in mid-2010 and visited the centre about thrice a week to study and play games with friends.

Cheng befriended her and kept in contact through online and phone messages. On Dec 26, 2010, they were chatting about sex-related matters on Facebook when she accepted his invitation to visit his flat the next day. The following morning, she met him at coffee shop near his Jurong West home and they had breakfast.

They then went up to his flat. There was no one home and he took her into his bedroom. Although she scolded him for placing his hand on her thigh and breasts, he persisted and managed to pull her shorts and panties down. He then touched her private parts.

The teen told some friends about what occurred and eventually the management of the centre came to know of it. When confronted, Cheng admitted his wrongdoing and was sacked.

The girl, now 16 years old, cannot be identified as she is a victim of a sexual offence.

Asking the court to impose a deterrent sentence, deputy public prosecutor Ramesh Ethan Ananda said that Cheng had abused his position at the centre.

Cheng, who is about 1.6m tall and plump, shook his head when the sentence was passed. He could have been jailed up to 10 years or fined up to $10,000, or to both, for the offence.

The Straits Times Online Breaking News, 22nd Feb, 2012

sgjoey
22-02-2012, 06:54 PM
Mr Cheng's impulsive actions have seriously caused serious damage to his life. Instead of trying to take advantage of the young people he was entrusted with, he should have simply fulfilled his sexual urges by calling upon the services of sex workers.

cohen
22-02-2012, 06:55 PM
Man jailed for touching teen inappropriately

A former youth programme coordinator was jailed a year and eight months on Wednesday for touching the private parts of a 14-year-old girl.

Cheng Chin Shen, 31, was then working for a non-profit voluntary welfare organisation that caters to the development of children and teenagers.

He had pleaded guilty in December 2011. A district court heard then that the girl became a member in mid-2010 and visited the centre about thrice a week to study and play games with friends.

Cheng befriended her and kept in contact through online and phone messages. On Dec 26, 2010, they were chatting about sex-related matters on Facebook when she accepted his invitation to visit his flat the next day. The following morning, she met him at coffee shop near his Jurong West home and they had breakfast.

They then went up to his flat. There was no one home and he took her into his bedroom. Although she scolded him for placing his hand on her thigh and breasts, he persisted and managed to pull her shorts and panties down. He then touched her private parts.

The teen told some friends about what occurred and eventually the management of the centre came to know of it. When confronted, Cheng admitted his wrongdoing and was sacked.

The girl, now 16 years old, cannot be identified as she is a victim of a sexual offence.

Asking the court to impose a deterrent sentence, deputy public prosecutor Ramesh Ethan Ananda said that Cheng had abused his position at the centre.

Cheng, who is about 1.6m tall and plump, shook his head when the sentence was passed. He could have been jailed up to 10 years or fined up to $10,000, or to both, for the offence.

The Straits Times Online Breaking News, 22nd Feb, 2012

Horrible this people why do this thing ruin other people life when u just pay 30dollar go petain or geylang......

asdfghjkl
22-02-2012, 08:45 PM
how to ask the recent Principal to go GL? can civil servants go call chicken?

sgjoey
22-02-2012, 10:02 PM
how to ask the recent Principal to go GL? can civil servants go call chicken?

Maybe not Geylang, but don't forget that the ex-PM of Italy (Silvio Berlusconi) as well as the former head of the IMF (Dominique Strauss-Kahn) were both avid fans of sex workers.

brownant
24-02-2012, 12:54 AM
Looks like crime rate is increasing in Sillypore.