Humble request for advice

[TwinLighter]

Well its an age old question of a man attempting mission almost impossible to decipher the signal of a woman.

But mine is a prc and having read so many stories from fellow bros here perhaps some guru could provide some insight to help me decipher if she is really interested in me.

Many thanks in advance.

Positive Signals ( I Think ) :

1) She don't mind going out with me for supper and stuff when i ask her out if she isn't busy.

2) She giggles quite a bit sometimes from our conversation

3) She took my picture with her cam

4) She complain that the journey seem so short when i send her home

5) Didn't request for gifts or any extra financial assistance after... yeah you know what.

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Negative Signals :

1) She doesn't text or call me on her own accord

2) Sms conversation always seems short and cold from her

3) Can't seem to find anything or way she act that makes me feel i am special to her (But i understand this part rather subjective)

So all in all, is she or is she not interested in me? Kind of conflicting signals to me.

All comments and advice are welcomed. Thank you and have a nice day everyone.

And yes for those who are thinking if i am walking into a KC trap or sort, yes i am walking into it knowingly, i choose to walk into one with this prc because i have never expected eternal love to begin with.

I just want a short term life experience, i understand and know the final outcome of my actions, i also know she would have to leave someday, i will move on and this experience will add to my bits and pieces of my life. The law would help me close this chapter with her departure.

[Blunder]

From my understanding:

1st thing is you've already had sex with her.
2nd is you feel that she likes you when you're seeing each other physically.
3rd is you feel that she might not like you because of her response when you're not seeing each other physically.
4th you felt that it was a kc trap and you felt u know you're walking into it willingly
5th you only wanted a short term experience.

If it were me, I'll continue this way.

However, as your stated your wants as a short term experience, why don't you just ask her straight to be your girlfriend. Since you're mentally prepared that she will leave one day, you probably wouldn't get as hurt if she decided to reject you. If she accepts you, then congratulations.

It seemed that you've got everything planned out already. Best of luck to you bro.

[rousch]

I just want a short term life experience, i understand and know the final outcome of my actions, i also know she would have to leave someday, i will move on and this experience will add to my bits and pieces of my life. The law would help me close this chapter with her departure.

I think you answered your own question.

[justl00king]

Bro,

No need to think too much.

Just enjoy while it lasts, if it's meant to be it will be. :cool:

[SharkAttack]

bro, your signature sums it all up.

Things happen. Its now time for the dominant man to take up his role.
Put it this way, you're doing both yourselves a great favor returning her subtle hints. Thus enriching your life experiences and flavour.

:) i say seize the opportunity and turn it into something unforgetable and irresitable.

[radii]

Well its an age old question of a man attempting mission almost impossible to decipher the signal of a woman.

But mine is a prc and having read so many stories from fellow bros here perhaps some guru could provide some insight to help me decipher if she is really interested in me.

Many thanks in advance.

Positive Signals ( I Think ) :

1) She don't mind going out with me for supper and stuff when i ask her out if she isn't busy.

Free food who don't want, this is call baiting or investment on her part?
2) She giggles quite a bit sometimes from our conversation

Not laugh at your joke but at you for being loser?

3) She took my picture with her cam

Future Blackmail?

4) She complain that the journey seem so short when i send her home

You drive big nice comfortable car?

5) Didn't request for gifts or any extra financial assistance after... yeah you know what.

A matter of time?
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Bro now you sure positive :rolleyes:???

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Pls see reply in red!
Well its an age old question of a man attempting mission almost impossible to decipher the signal of a woman.

But mine is a prc and having read so many stories from fellow bros here perhaps some guru could provide some insight to help me decipher if she is really interested in me.

Many thanks in advance.

Positive Signals ( I Think ) :

1) She don't mind going out with me for supper and stuff when i ask her out if she isn't busy.

You mean if she's not wif a customer ba.
Correct me if I'm wrong but you're referring to a WL correct?

2) She giggles quite a bit sometimes from our conversation
Could be she's trying to act cute or you do hv a sense of humour or that statement was funny enough for her to giggle

3) She took my picture with her cam
This is totally irrelevant, what's most important is that she allows you to SCRUTINISE her phone in all aspects!

4) She complain that the journey seem so short when i send her home[/COLOR]
Typical WL talk to make you feel that she doesn't want to leave you!

5) Didn't request for gifts or any extra financial assistance after... yeah you know what.
Not yet. There are 3 kinds of WL.
The 1st type is very fast tempo type, can chop how much will chop quick quick n run
The 2nd type is make sure you in their grasp then slowly chop you
The 3rd type is go to bed and make you feel bad you have not provided and thus make you reverse psychology to do & get her stuff and pass her money willingly & automatically without her having to say or hint a single thing!

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Negative Signals :

1) She doesn't text or call me on her own accord
This is the giveaway!
Cos she's knows you'll find her n not she find you.
Thus, your actions already show that she is already reeling you in.

2) Sms conversation always seems short and cold from her
Either she can't be bothered cos she's wif her lao gong thus not convenient to sms you or she can't be bothered at all cos it's doesn't generate any $$$$$ by messaging

3) Can't seem to find anything or way she act that makes me feel i am special to her (But i understand this part rather subjective)
Always trust your intuition, it's 9 out of 10 times more correct than you gut feel!

So all in all, is she or is she not interested in me? Kind of conflicting signals to me.
120% NO!

All comments and advice are welcomed. Thank you and have a nice day everyone.

And yes for those who are thinking if i am walking into a KC trap or sort, yes i am walking into it knowingly, i choose to walk into one with this prc because i have never expected eternal love to begin with.

I just want a short term life experience, i understand and know the final outcome of my actions, i also know she would have to leave someday, i will move on and this experience will add to my bits and pieces of my life. The law would help me close this chapter with her departure.

In my book, this is not called KC trap.
Your situation is called SELF KC cos it's clear she isn't KCing you.

[radii]

No point give advise if you no want take lah, at end of the day the decision still lie with you good luck for better or worse :o

[MoralEpitome]

Pls see reply in red!




You mean if she's not wif a customer ba.
Correct me if I'm wrong but you're referring to a WL correct?


Could be she's trying to act cute or you do hv a sense of humour or that statement was funny enough for her to giggle


This is totally irrelevant, what's most important is that she allows you to SCRUTINISE her phone in all aspects!

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Typical WL talk to make you feel that she doesn't want to leave you!


Not yet. There are 3 kinds of WL.
The 1st type is very fast tempo type, can chop how much will chop quick quick n run
The 2nd type is make sure you in their grasp then slowly chop you
The 3rd type is go to bed and make you feel bad you have not provided and thus make you reverse psychology to do & get her stuff and pass her money willingly & automatically without her having to say or hint a single thing!

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This is the giveaway!
Cos she's knows you'll find her n not she find you.
Thus, your actions already show that she is already reeling you in.


Either she can't be bothered cos she's wif her lao gong thus not convenient to sms you or she can't be bothered at all cos it's doesn't generate any $$$$$ by messaging


Always trust your intuition, it's 9 out of 10 times more correct than you gut feel!


120% NO!



In my book, this is not called KC trap.
Your situation is called SELF KC cos it's clear she isn't KCing you.

haha, Da Ge, why you always so direct and to the point...

[DO_YOU_BJ]

haha, Da Ge, why you always so direct and to the point...

Can't help it when you already see till there's nottin left to see liao.
So familiarised till before they take a step, already waiting 3 steps ahead of them liao.

[alan0338]

TS she have other sisters or not? if have pls intro...i also wan to be trapped :D

[jolenekoh]

move on with ur life, fuck another whore, forget abt her. all the indications mean, to me, are good customer service frm WL which is only like the service staff in a restaurant giving u good treatment, polite, prompt, etc, but these are the augmented service. Afterall, wht they r trying to do is to create customer loyalty n frm a whore's POV, KC u.

[Stimsia]

I standby 2:D

[HCKing]

Positive Signals ( I Think ) :

1) She don't mind going out with me for supper and stuff when i ask her out if she isn't busy.

2) She giggles quite a bit sometimes from our conversation

3) She took my picture with her cam

4) She complain that the journey seem so short when i send her home

5) Didn't request for gifts or any extra financial assistance after... yeah you know what.



piang eh like these also call positive signs that she likes u?:confused:

to be honest i have the same encounters as yrs ( minus the picture part ) when i went out with my PRC charbo frens ( some r attached somemore ) but also nothing happen after that leh. in fact, PRC girls are generally more friendly and open as compared to our sg princess so its not surprising that u will misinterpret her actions or words if u dont mix around with them much. so dont think too much pls.:D

btw does it ever cross yr mind that she could be taking that pic of yrs to test her new iphone cam? :p

[goodpartner]

haha, Da Ge, why you always so direct and to the point...

Bro DYBJ beats me to it :D

piang eh like these also call positive signs that she likes u?:confused:

I also wanna say so...
sharks... nothing else to comment liao :(


TS, pls confirm if she is a WL?
That makes a lot of difference.
...almost impossible to decipher the signal of a woman.

... help me decipher if she is really interested in me.


Also, mind telling us what will you do or do differently if the answer is either YES or NO that she is interested in you?
That'll also help us decide if giving futher advice is worthwhile.

[Sirrus]

Well its an age old question of a man attempting mission almost impossible to decipher the signal of a woman.

But mine is a prc and having read so many stories from fellow bros here perhaps some guru could provide some insight to help me decipher if she is really interested in me.

Many thanks in advance.

Positive Signals ( I Think ) :

1) She don't mind going out with me for supper and stuff when i ask her out if she isn't busy.

2) She giggles quite a bit sometimes from our conversation

3) She took my picture with her cam

4) She complain that the journey seem so short when i send her home

5) Didn't request for gifts or any extra financial assistance after... yeah you know what.

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Negative Signals :

1) She doesn't text or call me on her own accord

2) Sms conversation always seems short and cold from her

3) Can't seem to find anything or way she act that makes me feel i am special to her (But i understand this part rather subjective)

So all in all, is she or is she not interested in me? Kind of conflicting signals to me.

All comments and advice are welcomed. Thank you and have a nice day everyone.

And yes for those who are thinking if i am walking into a KC trap or sort, yes i am walking into it knowingly, i choose to walk into one with this prc because i have never expected eternal love to begin with.

I just want a short term life experience, i understand and know the final outcome of my actions, i also know she would have to leave someday, i will move on and this experience will add to my bits and pieces of my life. The law would help me close this chapter with her departure.

test if she playing you lor, try to fuck her, after u fuck her. she ask u for money. most likely she will ask u bit by bit small amount. so since it is small amount why not? take it as paying for escort, just make sure u make your money worth.

sooner or later she will treat u much better and slowly ask you for bigger amount of gift/money. thats when u should run.

remember, u said ur old age and if ur not willing to love a 60 year old lady why would a younger girl like a 60 year old man

she play you the you play her lor, just make sure u make your money worth

[thrush]

She is planting the seed.

[jasdude]

She had already planted the seed. The seed of KC. And if you continue watering it, you will be rooted.

[TwinLighter]

Good morning everyone, thank you all for the replies and effort to read :)

I understand all the points the bros here pointed out, anyway its ok for bros to be direct and harsh, i know this is a sex forum after all and i am the one asking for opinions. No worries, no hard feelings ;)

But i can't help but thought of an analogy to this situation haha, some bros are more subtle in giving their advice, like chinese doc, mild and longer term effect, some bros like DOYOUBJ are like western doc, injection cure. One needle let u see blood type haha.

Others like bro radii the registeration counter person, i haven't even register already tell me my sickness can't cure one. Wah lao eh, don't like that lah, give me chance leh haha

But either way its ok, i will accept the honesty and opinion of everyone here :).

With regards to what if her ans is Yes or No :

YES : I will pursue her and go into a r/s if possible, i will experience love, joy, tears, sadness, parting.

NO : I will maintain status quo client based r/s

Either way the ending will be the same though, just the process different

Another bro pointed out all those i mention can't be sufficient to be use as a gauge of interest. If so please do enlighten me on what signs to look out for from a prc girl.

Once again, thank you very much for your time, have a nice day ppl

[RealEstateGuy]

Well its an age old question of a man attempting mission almost impossible to decipher the signal of a woman.

But mine is a prc and having read so many stories from fellow bros here perhaps some guru could provide some insight to help me decipher if she is really interested in me.

Many thanks in advance.

Positive Signals ( I Think ) :

1) She don't mind going out with me for supper and stuff when i ask her out if she isn't busy.

2) She giggles quite a bit sometimes from our conversation

3) She took my picture with her cam

4) She complain that the journey seem so short when i send her home

5) Didn't request for gifts or any extra financial assistance after... yeah you know what.

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Negative Signals :

1) She doesn't text or call me on her own accord

2) Sms conversation always seems short and cold from her

3) Can't seem to find anything or way she act that makes me feel i am special to her (But i understand this part rather subjective)

So all in all, is she or is she not interested in me? Kind of conflicting signals to me.

All comments and advice are welcomed. Thank you and have a nice day everyone.

And yes for those who are thinking if i am walking into a KC trap or sort, yes i am walking into it knowingly, i choose to walk into one with this prc because i have never expected eternal love to begin with.

I just want a short term life experience, i understand and know the final outcome of my actions, i also know she would have to leave someday, i will move on and this experience will add to my bits and pieces of my life. The law would help me close this chapter with her departure.

Braddah, where did you meet this gal? GL or KTV or regular location ie this is not a pay for sex meeting that you are trying to turn into a relationship. So far, assuming she is a normal gal I think you just had ONS with her and she sees you as a potential FB. Nothing more braddah.

[radii]

She is planting the seed.

Like that TS also better plant his seed to chope her HAHAHA :p

[drunken]

Brother, i think is beneficial to share where you meet the girl. her age, etc.
so that we can analyse or comment better.

Positive Signals ( I Think ) :

Brother, i don't think the below are positive sign.. see my view in red. just my opinion.
1) She don't mind going out with me for supper and stuff when i ask her out if she isn't busy.

The keyword is 'if she isn't busy' - if she is busy will she cancel her appt and meet you instead? think about it.

2) She giggles quite a bit sometimes from our conversation
Nothing really to ponder abit. she may giggles when talking to others as well

3) She took my picture with her cam
So?

4) She complain that the journey seem so short when i send her home
Routine KC statement.

5) Didn't request for gifts or any extra financial assistance after... yeah you know what.
she can't be bother now. cause she want to hit at the right spot and moment

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Negative Signals :

1) She doesn't text or call me on her own accord
you shouldn't text her then. let her text you instead. i know is hard, you need to exercise discipline in this aspect. If you text you after few days w/o you initialing, then you may have chance liao.

2) Sms conversation always seems short and cold from her
how about call? did both of you chat for long over phone?

3) Can't seem to find anything or way she act that makes me feel i am special to her (But i understand this part rather subjective)
Then why bother to further continue?

[TwinLighter]

She is 25, and yep a FL.

Actually i think lets shift the focus of this thread, can bros pls enlighten me on what are the kind of signs or body language to look out for from a girl, of course i did google about it but putting in practice isn't always as straight forward though.

I understand most bros are telling me my 1st thread ans is already a no, thus i will accept that ans. Thanks everyone.

[drunken]

She is 25, and yep a FL.

Actually i think lets shift the focus of this thread, can bros pls enlighten me on what are the kind of signs or body language to look out for from a girl, of course i did google about it but putting in practice isn't always as straight forward though.

I understand most bros are telling me my 1st thread ans is already a no, thus i will accept that ans. Thanks everyone.

brother, i am still learning..
google is for those non-WL lady lah.
sometimes, WL got tricks on their sleeve. and you will have answer here better than google.. hehe

i think one of the most important gesture to tell if the girl like you is if she share her 'secret' with you. for example, she talks about herself,background, family/friends.
by doing so meaning she is comfortable with you around and her defensive wall is opened.

[TwinLighter]

Haha yeah thats why i post and ask here mah. But yeah frankly speaking i think sg girls are much more easier to understand though.

Well she does tell me about her family, her siblings, what she talks about to them when she call home.

Lets learn on together

[DO_YOU_BJ]

some bros like DOYOUBJ are like western doc, injection cure. One needle let u see blood type haha.


Its not impossible to play wif these whores and actually enjoy yourself in return.
Just make sure you arm yourself wif 2 very important things & you shud be fine!

1) Heart of ice.
No emotion, you're in it for the shiok.
This is where all cheongsters fall.
No one is invincible, me included, so you must always be alert and VERY MINDFUL of YOURSELF & YOUR TOTS!

2) Do not ponder what or how you think of her but apply how a WL would think and react to watever situation.
By this, you are her mind, thus you will start to understand how & why she applies what actions to what situations.
This you will read her like her book!

No shortcut sorry, they are not here to look for love, they're here for the money.
You shud reflect on your postings.
It's all about you wanting whereas she's passive.
My last post in this thread & you reap wat you sow.
Good luck;)

[Tai_zi21]

1) Heart of ice.
No emotion, you're in it for the shiok.
This is where all cheongsters fall.
No one is invincible, me included, so you must always be alert and VERY MINDFUL of YOURSELF & YOUR TOTS!

2) Do not ponder what or how you think of her but apply how a WL would think and react to watever situation.
By this, you are her mind, thus you will start to understand how & why she applies what actions to what situations.
This you will read her like her book!

No shortcut sorry, they are not here to look for love, they're here for the money.


Totally agree with wat u post here...

Guess prob it also wat i need as a advice now for my HFJ singer i guess...

Thanks and a happy new year!!!! :)

[goodpartner]

Ya good advice from DYBJ.

Know what you're "buying" is perhaps the mindset to take in such cases.

Recently, one KTV prc also shows me "signs" that she "likes" me. These are:

1) She was sitting with my friend but kept looking & smiling at me.
2) When my friend was talking on the phone, she quickly chat with me and was direct in saying she likes me and got my handphone number.
3) I text her the text day (ya took initiative) and just say "I like you too" in Chinese.
4) She replied and asked me to look for her at part-time job small pub as a counter girl.
5) We went to casino MBS after she knocked off.
6) She played with my chips, won some money, and gave it all to me. I tip her la.
7) We went MBS again few days later, she cut short her KTV buttery session to join me again. Lost money this time, she got nothing and asked me not to gamble again.
8) She called me today and ask me to go out tonight for movie, flyer, etc. but requested that I cover her $150 as "bao fee" which she would otherwise got sitting with one customer.

So like what one bro mentioned, I take it as paying for escort services, which is cheap (for now) and will have to look out for the expenses to be incurred and ensure its worth it; like average $150/fuck for total spending... although usually over budget :p

[nitecrawllerr]

Shes a WL.

Shes no pretty woman.

[chenzong]

Positive Signals ( I Think ) :

1) She don't mind going out with me for supper and stuff when i ask her out if she isn't busy.

2) She giggles quite a bit sometimes from our conversation

3) She took my picture with her cam

4) She complain that the journey seem so short when i send her home

5) Didn't request for gifts or any extra financial assistance after... yeah you know what.

All these "signals" are quite common with PRC women. Look, I work in an environment of 70% PRC women. After a while, you learn to understand that what we Singaporeans probably think are not normal in our women are not unusual there.

My colleagues grab my arm, allow me to hug them when we take pics and so on. Nothing unusual to them, and it does not mean they are into me or want to go to bed with me.

And seriously speaking, even if they go to bed with you once or twice (the 80s and 90s generation especially), it does not mean they are interested in the long-term relationship.

[goodpartner]

And seriously speaking, even if they go to bed with you once or twice (the 80s and 90s generation especially), it does not mean they are interested in the long-term relationship.

Yea, reminded me of a saying from one of the bro here on how it is really. O big deal for PRC having sex without string attached: 只是吃顿饭放个炮，没什么！

[TwinLighter]

Thanks for all the replies, yes as mentioned before i understand the answer is NO le. I will accept that answer.

Anyway no i am not looking for a long term r/s, just a short experience of one if possible, as i mention she will have to leave eventually and we probably won't be seeing each other again. This point i had already understood since day 1.

I have no intention to give her any money or expensive gift, the most expensive item i got her was a $15 box of chocolate, everything else i gave was handmade and the material cost is less than $20.

Only thing i would lose out is probably just my feelings when things end, it normally takes me 2 days to recover from the heartache but i'll live.

Now i am just more interested to learn about the mindset or tricks they employ, of course i know no short cut to learn this, can only read from what other bros share. Or to go through it myself. IF i am really able to go into this short r/s, perhaps i can share my story in the Heart Matters section after it end also haha.

Nevertheless thanks for the time to read my post ppl. Have a nice evening :)

[callmebad]

I look at both your positive and negative signals and just feel she is only quite friendly towards you and this may not be translated into the love kind of feeling. Nowadays, people's minds are quite open, even she allows you to fuck her, this doesn't mean she love you, you may just be one of the many men she went to bed with and this is no big deal to her. Even if this girl is a local, I will still stick to the same view.

[HCKing]

Anyway no i am not looking for a long term r/s, just a short experience of one if possible, as i mention she will have to leave eventually and we probably won't be seeing each other again. This point i had already understood since day 1.


hai, talk so much but basically just want FOC sex only. dont think she will waste her time with u lah since she is a FL whose primary objective is to make as much $ as possible during her short stay here. this is also the reason y she started to bo chup u so as to draw the line. go sian another charbo and let her focus on her career la bro.:D